The child of the star wants to talk: the voice of a protector

"Please accept us, we went to the provincial capital, our children are too old, refused to be admitted, went to the city, also don't admit. Tell us to go back to the local training. If we don't accept it here, we really don't know where to go ... "This is the conversation I heard when Zhou Zhou's mother came to the hospital for the first time. Now that two years have passed, I am still impressed.

I am a nurse in children's health care department, engaged in children's language rehabilitation training and a mother. The word language rehabilitation does not seem to be well known to the public, but in today's society, children's language rehabilitation has shown its importance.

Language retardation is a big problem that cannot be ignored in children's growth.

Zhou Zhou was only five and a half years old when he came to the hospital. At that time, Zhou Zhou's eye contact was very short. He ignored his name and always rolled around on the ground. His body, hands and everywhere were dirty. The age of intellectual development is 2-3 years old. I don't like talking I can only say one word. I can't say it. For weeks with brain retardation, the expected effect will not be too good before the age of five and a half.

When I was 3 years old, my child had a physical examination in the park and said that we were mentally retarded. At that time, we just thought we couldn't speak, but it still affected our intelligence. "I believe I will be fine when I grow up," said my mother, wiping her tears. I regret it when I think about it now. Let's go to the superior hospital for further examination then. The whole family didn't take it seriously The child's grandparents didn't even mention it, but they refused to admit that they had mental problems ... "

The health examination of infants is particularly important for their healthy growth, and can even improve their birth defects. But around us, many parents often ignore this point.

Looking at the eyes of the child's mother, I accepted the child. Although the child didn't cry, his language ability was so poor that he couldn't speak after repeated training. Staring at me with strange eyes, I took pains to teach him to speak and practice his pronunciation. A month has passed, and the child's condition has not improved at all. I am anxious about my children's age and work harder in training. Looking at Zhou Zhou's mother's anxiety and remorse all day, as a mother, I have deep feelings.

Three months have passed, and Zhou Zhou has gradually improved obviously. The child spoke, and the first word he said was strawberry. Finally, I will say that dad bought strawberries. There are many short sentences. During the training week after week in a year, Zhou Zhou and I have established a deep affection. Every time we come to class, we will take the initiative to open the door of the training room The joy on the child's face when he saw me is beyond words. Now that Zhou Zhou has gone to kindergarten, although there is still a certain gap with normal children, the parents of the children are already very satisfied and grateful to us.

Language retardation is also common in children with autism. The child mentioned below is called Chuanchuan. When Chuanchuan came, I felt that there was a powerful little motor in my body, which kept running or crawling all the time, and I often fell down, and my name didn't respond and I didn't say a word. Abnormal emotional instability. Two and a half years old, mentally retarded age 1 year-1 year-and-a-half, and diagnosed as "suspected autism" by the superior hospital.

Chuanchuan's language training class, the first whole month, was spent in fierce crying. I cried hysterically and rolled around. Sometimes I hit my head against the wall, kicked me and bit me, grabbed my hand, and my arm was covered with scratches. I picked up Chuanchuan again and again and put it on the cushion to prevent the child from being injured. When I really can't hold it, I hold it tightly in my arms and rub my back to comfort it. As a mother, seeing a crying child will naturally have such an instinctive reaction. The children in the language training room are crying, and Zhou Zhou's mother is crying outside the language training room.

Fortunately, Chuanchuan gradually got to know me and recognized me. Stop crying slowly. Every time I come to class, I will take the initiative to enter the classroom and occasionally take the initiative to hold my hand. What hard-won progress this is. It is also the official start of language training. The child's sitting posture and coordination ability are still too poor. For a long time in the early stage, Chuanchuan's language training class was completed by sitting on me. Once you let go, the ground won't get up. I can only hold Chuanchuan in my arms.

* * * Cooperate with attention, eye training, active pronunciation, etc. The course is carried out step by step, slowly and orderly. A year has passed, and Chuanchuan can already speak many nouns. He is no longer so impatient, can understand instructions and complete them, and many rigid behaviors are gradually getting better. In this year, although we don't make progress every day, we are also very grateful to our parents for their company. Because of parents' insistence, our work can be carried out in an orderly way. Because of parents' understanding, we can still keep training with tears in our eyes when the child is crying badly.

Finally, as a mother, I wish all children in the world can grow up healthily; As a child protector, I appeal that the baby health examination must be taken seriously to prevent problems before they happen.