First, leave it to grandma. Many women will give their children to their grandmothers after giving birth and handle their own work. So this is something that happens to everyone. If left to grandma, many people will feel uncomfortable. Because it is normal for grandma to take care of her son's children. And women have always lived by their husbands, so they must be closer to their grandmothers. If we leave our children with grandma, it is very inconvenient for us to look after them, especially when we get off work at night, and we may have to walk a long way to pick them up.
Second, it is more convenient for grandma to communicate better with her daughter-in-law when she takes care of her children. Because the two families are close, she can take better educational measures when she encounters any problems. Because grandma's home is far away, it is said that when educating children, there are problems that cannot be solved in time. If you want your grandmother to take care of your children, you can, but you must pay attention to the time. Don't let your children stay at your grandmother's house for too long, which will easily affect the parent-child relationship.
Third, try to bring your own. Try to stay with your parents when your child is growing up. If parents are busy with their work, we can give it to grandma. Many grandmothers help their sons take care of their children when they have no job, so they have the task of taking care of their children. Then Bian Xiao suggested that we can keep our children around as much as possible to make them grow up healthier and happier.