Does contentment belong to a positive energy mentality? I don't think so, and it doesn't matter which stage of life. People say that satisfied people are always happy. I wonder if they can't be happy all the time if they work hard and break through. In fact, in today's real life, how many people can really be satisfied?
1. What is contentment and what does contentment bring us?
Let's not talk about what dissatisfaction will bring us. Let me talk about this contentment mentality first. Whether in life, career or marriage, contentment will make you lose your impulse and your ability to actively strive for happiness. Some people may have said that I am content and will not give up the opportunity to satisfy my desires.
But is such contentment really contentment? Don't lie to yourself, aren't you satisfied? Do you have a lot of unfinished business to do? If it is, it is not enough. In my eyes, contentment is a state of wanting nothing and a state of mind facing material and emotional waves. And can you really be so satisfied?
Moreover, it is undeniable that contentment often makes people feel complacent and complacent. And this mentality is not conducive to your growth and development. On the other hand, what does contentment bring you? Does it make you lazier and unable to make a breakthrough?
Second, what is insatiable, and what are the benefits of insatiable mentality?
Besides, no matter who you are in this world, no matter what stage of your life you are in at present, only an dissatisfied attitude can make you progress, grow up and feel happy. If you are not satisfied, where can you succeed in your career, where can you have food and clothing, where can you have a happy marriage and where can you live a good life?
Some people say that I feel that I am in a good state at present, with food and drink, a wife/husband who loves me, a stable career, and no illness or disaster for the elderly. Yeah, it looks really good. Excuse me, does your present state bring you satisfaction or dissatisfaction? If you didn't know how to make progress before, where did you get this so-called contented life?
What's more, you are very satisfied with your life now. And after that? As I said above, if you didn't work hard before, you wouldn't have a contented life at present. Now, if you always face your present life with a contented mind, I wonder what you will do in the future, can you continue to maintain this so-called contented life?
Nine times out of ten, life will be smooth sailing. If you don't have an enterprising and hard-working heart, how can you be satisfied? And people who talk about this kind of contentment every day are often incompetent and helpless.
If you let this mentality occupy your body for a long time, you will form the habit of thinking. Once you encounter hardships, setbacks will only make you avoid them, often suggesting that you should be content, look down and ignore them, but the problem has not been solved. Do you think you will lose your ability to survive in society? And let nature take its course and everything will be fine, which is often the embodiment of a person's most incompetence.
Third, what is positive energy?
What is positive energy? It means that others can have a positive attitude towards themselves and everything, have their own vision for the future, and work hard for their lives and careers. This is positive energy. Its core point is to attract people, not to make them feel safe.
In fact, a person's life has a lot of dissatisfaction, and it is often because of these dissatisfaction that he will have his own growth. And it is because of growth that my life is full of hope. And at the last moment of my life, I will not be sad because of too many regrets in the past.
Here, I sincerely hope that everyone will not let themselves have a contented mentality, and do not let this mentality conquer themselves. Instead, make more use of the insatiable mentality to strive for opportunities for growth, so that you can have a real future to laugh at.
Finally, I hope my answer can bring you some inspiration!
The above is just my personal opinion, please advise me if there are any shortcomings!
People are alive, and the pursuit is endless. My life is good now, and I am satisfied, so I am relaxed and happy.
And what you intend to pursue, in the end, you will argue here like me, not much taller than me, but more stressful and painful than me, not to mention life.
Medically speaking, you are sick. Old people not only die faster than those who are happy and relaxed, but also die faster.
People need to know their weight. In today's society, you don't have to be burdened to succeed, and you don't have to work hard to get the corresponding reward. Set yourself a small goal and achieve it slowly and seriously. Cherish what you have now and think less about those useless things. How tired you are.
In life, we can see that under the same difficult conditions, some people are devastated, while others are catching up, because determination plays an important role. Ambition is that people constantly improve their self-cultivation. A person with firm faith and lofty aspirations will think about the whole meaning of life. Is to make unremitting efforts for your own ideals. If you don't devote yourself to this world, you will accomplish nothing. Changle is impossible.
Contentment should also belong to positive energy. As long as people don't set their sights too high, they love leisure and hate work, know how to be content and cherish the present, it is a kind of positive energy.
Some people may think that contentment is a kind of negative thinking that makes no progress and is only satisfied with the status quo.
It wasn't like this at that time. People often say that "contentment is always a pleasure" is actually warning people to be satisfied with what they have obtained and the fruits of their labor, so that they can be happy because of what they have obtained! The so-called efforts will get a harvest, and only when you meet your own value will you be happy accordingly!
So contentment is not a derogatory term. On the contrary, "greedy" people will never be satisfied and naturally will not be happy.
Whether contentment belongs to positive energy mentality cannot be generalized. I think it is more appropriate to divide life into stages.
When we are still struggling, we are content, content with being dull, enjoying the present and not trying to surpass it. Life is not tasteless! Contentment at this time will make you lose your fighting spirit, yes.
People often say that contentment is a natural expression. Indeed, when people reach a stage, their experience has increased and they have a deep understanding of the world. At this time, contentment is the precipitation of life, a peaceful attitude towards life, and a thousand pieces of silver have come back! Open mind. At this time, contentment is always happy and the body and mind are relaxed. I think it is also in line with the law of human growth. Therefore, people's satisfaction after experiencing Qian Fan is a positive energy mentality.
About "Is contentment a positive energy mentality?" This problem
I think content is not a state of mind, but a state of mind.
Some people think that contentment is a kind of laziness, while others think that contentment is to look down on the leisure in the world.
Contentment is a kind of wisdom in life.
It is said that it should be easy to satisfy, not blindly demanding and insatiable.
It is normal for people to have worldly desires, but people can't be controlled by so-called greed.
If you don't know how to converge and blindly strive for fame and profit, disasters and disasters will follow.
People who know how to be content are more likely to get happiness.
A contented person always faces life with a smile. Contentment is a kind of generosity, and a big belly can accommodate the world. In the eyes of contented people, all excessive disputes and demands are superfluous. On their scales, nothing is easier to achieve psychological balance than contentment. Contentment is a kind of tolerance, which is tolerance for others, society and oneself, so as to obtain a relatively relaxed living environment.
As for what kind of mentality contentment belongs to, everyone may have different answers. In today's materialistic era, it is particularly precious to have a contented mind.
It's my pleasure to answer your question, refill.
Seeing this question, I thought of the sentence "Be content with what you have, and live up to your mission" in Laozi-Thrift Forty-sixth. I think contentment is a state of mind and belongs to positive energy. A contented person has a pair of eyes that are good at discovering beauty, and we are grateful for everything we have. We can find that those who live a chic life have a contented heart. Then I will explain why I think contentment belongs to a kind of positive energy.
First, because you are satisfied, you can get more happiness: as the saying goes, "those who are satisfied are always happy." In daily life, many people are too obsessed with something. For example, many friends around me are crazy about a certain brand of mobile phones. I haven't used my mobile phone for a long time. Seeing the new products on the market, I reached out and asked my parents for money. My parents are also disgusted. I feel that although my mobile phone has been used for more than two years, all the functions I need can satisfy me, which is enough. It is because of contentment that my life has lost a lot of troubles. Don't think about buying this today and that tomorrow. I can enjoy a quiet life in peace.
Second, because of contentment, you can become more open-minded: with the rapid development of modern society, contentment and contentment have different meanings. Satisfying the status quo will only make society eliminate us, but when we know how to be contented and face many difficulties and setbacks in life, we can all treat them with a normal heart, keep a happy mood and meet challenges. Let go of what you can't get. Let go of what has been lost and become more open-minded
Third, because of contentment, we can know how to be grateful and be more positive: contentment means that we know our own shortcomings, appreciate the happiness that life has given us, and also know our goals and dreams to pursue. We are grateful for our parents' nurturing kindness and teachers' tireless teaching, face life positively and optimistically, pursue our own ideals and repay our parents, teachers, society and even the country. Like this sudden epidemic, although I was grounded at home for two months, I was very satisfied. I thank my family, my society and my country. The sons and daughters of China have lived for five thousand years, and nothing can crush us.
So I think contentment is a state of mind and a positive ability. I hope we can all be contented, have some calmness, let our hearts get some relief and move forward boldly. We will become happier, more open-minded and more active. Because of contentment, we are closer to happiness.
In our minds, it seems that other people's lives are always better than our own. We are always comparing our present life with some people who are richer, more leisure and more talented than us.
Every day, I continue to live in a daze in the days of indignation and self-mockery. More, if you don't know how to adjust your mentality, you will become more and more paranoid, more and more negative, more and more withdrawn, and begin to have no confidence in yourself.
So what? You can't change anything at this moment! Why not try to accept yourself now and think about the happiness you already have:
For example, I have no money and no job now, but I can have time to cook lunch for myself, sit down and write about my mood, chat with my dear friends and call my parents. I'm going to report to my new company tomorrow. I know it will be a hard job, and I won't get a promotion and salary increase in a short time, but I am willing to try and challenge myself. That's enough. I'm already satisfied! If I complain about my incompetence and the salary of my new job at this time, I will not be satisfied and happy even if I have something I didn't have before.
Contentment does not mean that you stop and slack off, but that you choose a way to satisfy the happiness you have now, with less regrets and complaints, and treat yourself and others peacefully, with more understanding and respect! Why put contentment and progress on the balance of opposites? On the contrary, I think contentment is an essential healthy mentality on the road to hard work. People live in the world, who doesn't have their own troubles? Obama didn't? Successful doctors, lawyers, cadres, scientists, artists, etc. Will they have no troubles? Each has his own troubles, but only contentment will lead to happiness.
Of course, contentment belongs to the positive energy mentality, because contentment is always happy. Learn to be content, but don't be content easily.
The so-called contentment means getting calm, losing indifference, getting a big house and getting a small house. It's good to wake up alive. Simple tea and light rice are just right. Touch your wallet and spend enough. One day is busy, one day is idle, and peace is good.
The so-called "don't be satisfied easily" probably means: everything is a cloud, everything will pass, fame and fortune are just passing away, so we must grasp ourselves, have a tough will and noble sentiment, and be pure, so as to withstand the baptism of years and meet the most beautiful happiness.
Let's live a carefree life with a willing attitude and be grateful and satisfied.
Not exactly. Everything has a degree and a premise. To what extent are you satisfied? Why are you satisfied? We should all learn to look at problems dialectically. I said that if you are too satisfied, you don't care about gains and losses, you are very satisfied with the status quo, and you don't even care about right or wrong ... I don't think this is a positive energy mentality, but it can be understood as indifference, indifference and boredom. Imagine that in such a state of mind, you will lose your fighting spirit, and the ideas and practices you convey are naturally self-evident.
Similarly, it is also important to be satisfied under what circumstances, such as cherishing, such as gratitude. Reasonable satisfaction can make people relieved and open-minded. But of course, we can't talk about positive energy in order to satisfy everything, because he may have ignored right and wrong, recognized the status quo and given up fighting spirit. This kind of satisfaction made him used to it. As for what is struggle, persistence, passion and justice, I think, for him, it has long been blowing in the wind.
I am honored to answer this question.
Whether contentment belongs to the positive energy mentality, I think it depends on the score.
Take my parents for example. My father is a particularly contented man with no material pursuit. As the saying goes, "living in a humble abode does not change the pleasure", but it is almost enough at work. Because of his "almost", I missed many opportunities, so it is difficult to make a breakthrough in my career. I don't need to explain how important my career is to people (especially men). On the contrary, my mother is a particularly dissatisfied person. Obviously, her family is harmonious, her children are clever, and her material life is slightly better than those around her. However, when she saw that her brother and sister bought another house and changed into a luxury car, she could earn millions a year. She is particularly anxious and often unhappy, which will also infect us with stress and negative emotions.
Therefore, in life (or material pursuit), contentment is indeed a positive energy mentality; In career (or spiritual pursuit), dissatisfaction seems to be more progress and growth ~