What should I do if I am afraid of having children after marriage?

Actually, it's normal to be afraid of having children. Most of the reasons are that people who have experienced it tell you that you often see how painful it is to have a baby online, and even some factors such as death during childbirth make you afraid. In fact, when you really have children, you will be the strongest in the world. What if someone who has experienced it tells you to be afraid?

Pre-pregnancy: I am really afraid of having children before pregnancy, and I am afraid that I will get pregnant when I am old; I am afraid that if I am pregnant, I can't control my mouth and eat indiscriminately, and my child is unhealthy; I'm also afraid that in case there is any danger in the production process (after all, I'm over 30 years old) ... I didn't do anything before I got pregnant, so I've been worried.

Early pregnancy: My husband is a down-to-earth person. He is the kind of person who you can't say he is good, but in retrospect, you think he is good everywhere. He is not as romantic as his husband in Tik Tok. Every time after pregnancy, he asked for leave to accompany me. Except Donnell didn't do it, he seriously accompanied me to do it every time.

Late pregnancy: I am a kindergarten teacher, and my school is far from home. My husband gets up early every day, eats something casually after washing and sends me to work. Because there are not enough teachers, I have to watch classes at noon and can't go home for dinner. He brings me meals in the high temperature at noon every day, and sometimes he goes home to make my favorite spicy eggs. He often sends me messages or calls me to ask about my situation, for fear that I will fall or feel uncomfortable. He is more nervous than when I was pregnant.

Caesarean section: because of age, I am worried that I will not have enough strength when I give birth naturally. Even if I choose caesarean section, I am afraid. I am worried about what to do if I can't get off the operating table, what to do with my baby, and what to do with my husband ... Looking back now, medical care is so developed and there are so many accidents. The whole caesarean section was thrilling again, and it disappeared at the moment I saw the child. But the only thing I can't stand is that I have to press my stomach every two hours after surgery and walk on the ground for 6-8 hours after surgery. I can't eat because I'm not active and I can't vent. Nothing else matters. I have been taking care of the children by myself since the second day after the operation.

I have been inseparable from my husband's careful care and companionship from pregnancy to birth, and I am not afraid just because of his companionship.

Suggestion: I suggest you be a happy mother from pregnancy to birth and have a good mood tomorrow; Secondly, whether it's a pregnancy test or her husband's company, for example, in the third trimester, her husband will accompany him out for a walk and occasionally romanticize the movie he always wanted to see but didn't see. Finally, my husband should be patient and chat with you more.

Finally, I hope you are brave enough to give birth to a healthy baby!