In his report on school management, Mr. Wei Shusheng said that people should learn to handle four kinds of relationships well. After reading it, I benefited a lot I think this is simply a guide to life, not limited to the small category of school management.
People often have no right to speak in front of the environment ("Man can conquer nature" means awakening people's subjective initiative from another angle and exerting people's potential).
You and I can't control the weather, nor can we control our origins. Then simply work with an ideal attitude and don't need ideal standards to demand reality, so it is easy to handle all kinds of relationships.
In the past two years, the epidemic situation has been superimposed with extreme weather, from small teams to companies, from China to the whole world. Fortunately, we were born in this hot land of China people. When the epidemic struck, the country acted as a safety barrier for every Chinese son and daughter. We are at the best stage in the history of the Chinese nation, so we should certainly cherish the hard-won stability and steady and moderate development.
So if you are lucky and happy, you must tell yourself: adapt to the environment and society, and don't expect the social environment to adapt to your own needs.
Line 360 is just a different division of labor. No matter what position you are in, you should improve your quality wholeheartedly. And learn to seize the opportunity. Learn to look inward, surpass yourself, improve quality, wait for opportunities, broaden your horizons, broaden your horizons and increase your skills.
If you do this, you will be able to improve your skills and your work will become easier. Don't complain, enjoy it, won't you handle the relationship with work?
At this time, I didn't use up half my strength in my work, but I still did it vividly, tastefully and methodically, and my sense of value, existence and happiness rose.
Not only ordinary people (officials) and students (teachers) are satisfied, but also leaders praise them. The key is to have free time to read books, swim, play ball, practice dancing, run, grow flowers, raise birds, play chess, draw pictures and practice calligraphy ... why not do what you want, let go of what you like and live a healthy life?
Another trick to deal with the relationship with work is to treat your work as a grand world.
Everyone needs to face three worlds: the external world, the internal world and the work world.
No matter how small and simple things are, if you can settle down and do them, you will find that you can't finish learning and playing. This is learning+fun.
Newton realized the law of gravity when he looked up at the leaves in a daze under the tree, Archimedes got the law of buoyancy when he was in a daze in the bathtub, and Mendeleev dreamed of the periodic table of elements when he was thinking about it day and night.
I think they must have had a thorough understanding before they entered the realm of great enlightenment, great differences in their interests and ecstasy. This is the only way to go down in history and shine forever.
They just do simple things deeply.
Just like Mr. Wei has been giving lectures all over the country for many years, I only hope that all teachers can be teachers and make it easier, more efficient and more successful.
To put it bluntly, it's simple. Nothing more than how to feel at ease and make sense. There was a hole in the ground behind them-
People and their work have five areas:
Unintentional realm, three-hearted realm, three-hearted realm;
In these three realms, there is no pleasure in doing any work, because we don't love our work (career) wholeheartedly. It is naturally difficult for the soul to find peace. We always feel that the soul has been struggling on the road, and the work is getting more and more tired and boring.
There are also two realms: the realm of single-mindedness and the realm of self-sacrifice.
If people can be in these two realms, no matter what they do, they can immerse themselves in it wholeheartedly. This is actually a state of psychological flow or blessing. They can be happy in everything they do, which will naturally bring good benefits to others and society. In return (by-product), they will also get the happiness of survival.
Teacher Wei said that we can neither deify a person, ask too much of others, nor demonize anyone. We don't always dislike that people around us don't know themselves and students don't listen, so the relationship between people is naturally cold and tense, which is hard for ourselves.
Chairman Mao told us that practice makes true knowledge.
You see, doctors improve their medical level in the medical practice of treating various intractable diseases of patients, and teachers also improve their educational technology in the educational practice of treating mental intractable diseases of students. Isn't this the truth from practice?
Therefore, underachievers only provide us with opportunities for education and teaching. Why not catch them?
Knowing this, you will know how important it is to establish a mutually supportive teacher-student relationship. People should help each other more, fight less, experience less and ponder more.
Teacher Wei really knows the secret of four pounds.
In fact, there is no one else in this world, only yourself. Handle the relationship with yourself, be safe with others, society and environment, and the years will be quiet.
There are three things to remember:
Liberate yourself-don't dig spiritual traps for yourself, learn to look inward, surpass yourself, improve your quality and increase your ability.
Cherish yourself-cherish every stage of your life in time, whether you are in your twenties or fifties or sixties, cherish yourself in space, and cherish your strengths and characteristics in every prosperity and adversity.
Transcendence-take the difficulties in life, work and study as a ladder to surpass yourself.
This is consistent with thich nhat hanh's awareness and mindfulness: awareness refers to learning to see, see and accept yourself, rather than liberating and cherishing yourself? Mindfulness means living in the present and focusing on the present. If your work, study, leisure and entertainment can be in a state of mindfulness, it is easy to surpass yourself.
Close the book, recall the four relationships that Mr. Wei told us to handle well, and stroke them carefully in my mind. This is really the easy way.
Learning from a master is equivalent to standing on the shoulders of a giant and virtually boosting yourself. Isn't this the meaning of reading and learning?
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