This is a true story that happened to an old friend of mine. In this story, she is the leader of love, pouring sunshine and warmth into the heart of a girl who was almost desperate at first. This love has continued to this day, sprouting and taking root, bearing countless fruits. The education of love can bear fruit and continue.
The hero of the story is Zhao Jie, who is nearly half a century old. Although the years have left mottled marks on her face, they have not cooled her warmth at all. The longer I spend with her, the more I feel that she is an amiable and respectable woman full of positive energy and temperature. People often say that Zhao Jie makes people feel kind because she has a kind heart.
Let's go back to 17 years ago and start talking.
17 years ago, on June 1 day, Sister Zhao participated in the pairing activities of the company.
Sister Zhao is a warm-hearted person. Every year, she goes to orphanages and welfare homes to send some daily necessities to people in need and do her best to help them. This habit was given by Zhao Jie's family. Zhao Jie's parents instilled in their children the idea of "loving themselves, others, being kind and caring for others" from an early age. Sister Zhao's parents set a practical example for their children in their early years. As far as I can remember, Sister Zhao told me that her old mother was the kind of person who could not see the poor. Every time she meets a beggar on the road, she always leaves some money. When Zhao Jie was young, two lonely old people lived on their old balcony. Whenever there is something to eat at home, Zhao Jie's old mother always wants to send some to the two old people. Every holiday, the old mother always visits them. Later, Zhao Jie and her family moved, but Zhao Jie's old mother still insisted on visiting the two old people every year, and asked Zhao Jie and her sisters to visit the old people every year until they died. Sister Zhao's kindness was learned from her parents' generation.
Seventeen years ago, there was a poor girl named Lingling. She walked for an hour and a half every week to the primary school in the town. That year, the school teacher gave her a chance to match. The girl has a gloomy childhood and an unhappy family. Lingling's mother was sold to the mountains at the age of 20. After giving birth to Lingling, she finally chose to drink pesticides because she couldn't stand the torture of poor life. Soon, Lingling's father remarried her stepmother and chose the former among love and affection. He didn't give Lingling a little fatherly love, only those heartbreaking slaps. Lingling's biological father and stepmother are indifferent to girls, which makes girls live in a world without love since childhood. She never seems to know what home is and never feels its temperature. Two yuan a week is her only pocket money. The only grandmother who loved her was devastated in a quarrel with the girl's stepmother, and her life was dead, making the girl a forgotten child and wandering alone in the wind and rain. When she became a pair of children, it was her most gaunt time. At that time, Lingling was sallow and emaciated. She was a little girl of developing age, but she looked very thin. She has no decent food to eat every day, no nutritional supplements, and she has to bear the troubles of a smoky family background. At that time, there was only hatred in her heart. She hates her parents for bringing her into this world. Losing her grandmother, who only loved her, made Lingling confused and give up on herself.
On June 1 day, Zhao Jie sat under the stage and applauded the children on the stage. Lingling saw this malnutrition when she came out. Sister Zhao went to the stage and said to the girl, "Son, let me be your mother in the future."
Many years later, Lingling has graduated from college. Through continuous efforts, she became an executive of a company. In order to challenge herself, she has now resigned from a relatively stable position and started to embark on the road of entrepreneurship. Lingling, whose life and work are on the right track, has no childhood hatred all over her body. She became positive and sunny. She has weakened all the sadness in the past with positive energy. Now Lingling looks at her birth and can laugh off the bumps along the way.
Lingling said that Zhao Jie and her family were the people she was grateful to all her life. It was Zhao Jie who gave her mother-like warmth, which made her scarred heart heal a little bit and rejuvenated her. Lingling has always regarded Zhao Jie as her mother, just as Zhao Jie has always regarded Lingling as her daughter. At that time, Lingling was taken home by Zhao Jie when she was a child. There were seven or eight people in Zhao Jie's family, including elders, younger generations and sisters. Like Zhao Jie, families in Zhao Jie welcome new family members with open arms. They regard Lingling as their family. Zhao Jie's old mother said, "We live and eat together, but we have one more pair of chopsticks and one more bowl." Zhao Jie's sister said: "Let several children grow up together, that is, buy one more toy and one more suit." With the support of her family, Zhao Jie dared to take Lingling home to live with her family, and also dared to help and support Lingling for many years. With the help of love, Lingling, now an adult and successful career, has always regarded Sister Zhao's home as her own.
Lingling told me that Sister Zhao took her home and gave her a mother's love that she had never felt before. Sister Zhao made Lingling feel for the first time that a mother-like woman would gently touch her head in the morning and gently wake herself up. This warmth makes Lingling cry every time she thinks about it. At that time, Lingling firmly believed that Zhao Jie was her mother.
Zhao Jie's devotion to love gave a girl in trouble the motivation and hope to live. Zhao Jie set an example by instilling in Lingling the spirit of being strong, kind, optimistic, positive and brave, so that Lingling lived a life without any shadow in her early years. Zhao Jie's love also taught her children a lesson in true love, just as Zhao Jie learned from her parents' love. Sister Zhao told me that her son and niece learned to take care of her since childhood, because they grew up in such a loving education. These two children are very modest, warm and caring, unlike the only children who are self-centered and arrogant now. Lingling came to Sister Zhao's house when she was a child. The children made way for Lingling because they felt that Lingling needed help more. They often gave her delicious food and fun. Today, Zhao Jie's children still maintain this character of loving themselves, others and thinking for others. Lingling also learned to love, let go of hate, learn optimism and let go of pessimism in the growth of this family. This group of young people inherited the tradition of Sister Zhao. Every year, they always take time to go to the orphanage to see those unfortunate children and bring them warmth and care.
This love education class in Sister Zhao's family has made love a habit of every member of the family through words and deeds. A good tutor should be handed down from generation to generation, which is appreciated and admired by every family member. "Love yourself and others, be kind to others, and educate people with morality" unconsciously became the family motto of Zhao family. Love is a seed, once planted in the heart, it will sprout, blossom and bear fruit, become the cycle of life, full of temperature and energy, achieve a better self and light up the world around you.
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