2. Bitter or happy, sweet and sour never mix bitter and spicy, laughter often makes people laugh, bitter is haha, and joy is haha. Whether rich or poor, happiness does not depend on money, luxury is different from tranquility, wealth is brilliant, poverty is elegant. For better or worse, why is Fu Hong afraid of catastrophe? The ups and downs of life are steps, happiness is the head, and misfortune is stepping on your feet.
Life is a process, a process of going to the old and welcoming the new. Is to absorb meaningful things, accumulate things that should be accumulated, and eliminate those dross. Because of this, life will inevitably do something and do something wrong; Don't learn to forget, you won't remember; This is the dialectics of life and the law of life itself.
4. In life, there are always many gullies that need to be crossed; Years, there are always many regrets to make up for; In life, there are always many puzzles to understand.
There is always an answer to everything. It's better to let nature take its course than to worry about it.
6. Actually, you don't need complicated thoughts to be a man. Everything goes with fate, and the situation comes and goes. Only by not clinging to one thought, being willing to let go, and letting go at the right time can we restore the peace of life. There may be regrets and sadness when you put it down. But it will make life more meaningful, more distant, calmer and safer. Letting go is a choice, a wisdom, an understanding and an ending.
7. A quiet life is the pursuit after middle age. When you are young, your suffering, food loss, responsibility, sin and pain will eventually turn into light and light your way.
8. Let yourself have a refreshing mentality and put yourself in the indifference of today's society. You are a rich man. A quiet heart lets you know your happiness every day, take the initiative to do what you like, enjoy the happiness of life in the sun, and you will feel the happiness of life unconsciously.
9. Sometimes the true portrayal of our life is to cover our tearful faces with smiling faces and wrap our fragile hearts with the strength of appearance. Happy people all have the same happiness, but unhappy people are unhappy in their own way. There are too many factors in life that can affect our happiness and happiness, and we need to understand and pay. Thorough people know how to give up, enlightened people know how to be detached, wise people know how to tolerate, and generous people know how to sacrifice.
10. Not everyone can wait for you after you regret it. Not everyone can choose to forget after being hurt and let bygones be bygones. Perhaps by that time, reunion has become the greatest luxury. Even second time around only reflects the love that has turned into residue after injury. I'm afraid that when I know who I want to cherish most and who can give me the greatest happiness, I'll never find that person scattered in the sea of people again.
1 1. The best way to get rid of pain is not to forget, but to give yourself a reason to accept it frankly. Avoid the pain, and the pain will always exist. Only by admitting from the heart, accepting hard, and slowly adapting to the existence of that scar, can it be cured unconsciously over time. The inner indifference is really put down.
12. Enjoy life in Zhi Zhi. "Extremely happy, extremely sad; Desire cannot be vertical, and indulgence is a disaster; The wine is slightly drunk and the flowers are half open. " Heaven avoids excess, and industry is not profitable. If the industry must be full, the work must be profitable. If there is no internal change, it will lead to external worries. Life is not demanding, not perfect, and not enjoyable. Knowing enough is enough is a kind of tolerance for others and a kind of room for yourself.
13. Life is a little painful, so it can be said that it is not painful. There are some stories in life, you can laugh without saying anything. The progress of life can open up the pattern, support grievances and stand up to complaints.
14. Don't confuse desire with ideal. The end of desire is material possession, and the ultimate of ideal is spiritual filling. No matter how much possession you have, you will leave you, and in the end you will still have nothing. We should learn to choose things that can fill our inner emptiness, and don't miss them easily; Learn to be confused, not haggle over every ounce, and not plan a small account of life; Learn to give up, temptation is hard to become an opportunity, and the burden will lag behind.
15. People who see through are full of vitality; People who can't see through are full of trouble. Those who can afford it are responsible everywhere; People who can't afford it are negligent everywhere. People who can let go are avenues everywhere; People who can't let go are lost everywhere. Those who want to get through it are full of spring; Hard-headed people wither everywhere. What kind of person you become is up to you; What kind of life you lead depends on yourself.
16. Don't sigh for setbacks, just think of all this as the preparatory work you must go through before you achieve great things.
17. The seemingly simple interpersonal communication between people has its causal laws, good language and good ideas, just like the fertilizer for watering fragrant flowers. Clear water can grow fragrant and pleasant flowers; Malicious words and hurtful actions are like poisonous flowers, which rot and shrink before they sprout. Scolding, slandering, mocking and taunting seem to be attacking others, but in fact they are hurting themselves. It is equivalent to throwing up in the sky, not throwing up in the sky, but falling on your face.
18. Usually, behind every person with a strong heart, there is a person who makes him grow up, an experience that makes him fully aware, or a metamorphosis process that drives him to a desperate situation and eventually reborn. A person with a strong heart is not strong at ordinary times and is not good at fighting. On the contrary, he may be gentle, smiling, resilient, unhurried and calm.
19. Everyone I meet in my life is a teacher in my life, giving me every lesson in my life. A grain of rice, a glass of water, a joke and a tear can all make me experience life. When you face life bravely and try your best to cut mountains and split stones, believe me, one day you will look back at the world in front of you. Never regret it.
20. Prosperity can best show evil, and adversity can best show virtue. Frustration is a mirror, which can see people's filth; It is also a whip, which can make people awake in the whip. Adversity is not terrible, what is terrible is that you don't know how to choose. Life is the result of choice after choice. What you are afraid of in prosperity is relaxation, and what you are afraid of in adversity is giving up. Prosperity is the best way to see people's taste, and adversity is the best way to see people's character.