Now, he takes medicine every day to recuperate his body, and he also goes for post-operative review regularly. This made him depressed for a while. It was also because of this incident that he began to reflect on his previous attitude towards work and life.
In the past, in order to work, he could minimize the quality of life. He has so much work to do, so many projects to be busy, so many meetings to be held, so many forms to be made, so many PPT to be displayed ... the boss can't do without him, his colleagues can't do without him, his subordinates can't do without him, and his work can't do without him. I don't know how long it took. He didn't go out shopping, didn't eat seriously, and didn't enjoy a good movie with his wife. He can't figure out how long he has been, and he hasn't gone back to his hometown to see his elderly parents.
While the position is booming, it is also accompanied by indifference and neglect of the quality of life.
Many people in the workplace are particularly desperate. We are in the city of Beijing, spreading youth and engraving the mark of struggle. The opening of giant pandas should be the epitome of many people. They are hardworking, hardworking, passionate and capable, and they are rare talents in the company. Similarly, they also have high salaries, and they have generous treatment. They seem to represent the world-recognized success. They are admired by many people and set an example for many people.
On the contrary, what many people don't recognize or care about is those who love life and pay attention to the quality of life.
I have a good friend who especially likes flowers and plants. In the limited space of his home, there are many flowers and plants that he personally bought and treated. He watered and fertilized them, studied their flowering period and suitable growing environment, and his Weibo uploaded many beautiful pictures of flowers and plants she took. But in the eyes of many people, this is just a leisurely hobby, and even his parents don't understand it. Instead of having this effort, it is better to spend more time trying. What are the boys who serve flowers and plants every day? No matter what others say, he devoted himself to his own flowers and plants.
I also have a colleague who loves dancing and insists on going to dance school to learn dance after work. There must be three or four days in a week. The little girl is clever and hard-working. Everyone knows that she likes dancing. Some colleagues don't talk in front of her, but they talk behind her back in private. What is the use of going dancing every day? No appreciation, no salary increase. Some colleagues even think that if you go dancing after work every day, will it affect your work during the day? The little girl is still happy to go to work every day and insists on dancing after work at night.
I especially admire this attitude of loving life. Only those who love life from the heart can truly maintain their initial enthusiasm for everything.
I believe that when it comes to loving life, many people will feel particularly forced. Who still doesn't understand the truth of loving life?
However, ask yourself, have you really taken care of your life? Have you really noticed the quality of your life?
Because of the busy work and great pressure, I just make do with eating, and I don't care about nutrition at all.
Because I have to go to work from Monday to Friday, I stay at home on weekends and don't bother to go out for a walk. I don't know that it is already bustling outside, and the spring is full.
Because of the bottleneck of the project and inner anxiety, I don't want to call my parents, even if I do, I am absent-minded and perfunctory;
Because it's a rented house, it's not a home anyway, so I just don't clean it up. The messy room shows my best.
Because I feel a little far away, I am lazy to meet my classmates and friends. You haven't met my former good friend and my son who is over one year old.
Are you sure this is how you love life? Maybe you have thousands of reasons and excuses to excuse yourself, but there is no doubt that you have no passion for life.
A roommate I once rented, a little girl born in the 1990s, just graduated and rented a partitioned room. The environment is simple, but the girl is a good cook. Every weekend, she uses all kinds of fish, chicken and ribs to improve her life. The smell from the kitchen makes people feel warm and beautiful.
I have a high school classmate, whose rented house is kept very clean, with beautiful wallpaper on the walls and old furniture. After her cleaning and renovation, the dilapidated house became warm. She insists on cleaning every week and never allows her place to be messy and dusty.
Such people, with them, you feel that life has become better, and life has become particularly vibrant and energetic.
I remember reading a sentence somewhere. People who love life will not fail you in the end.
So, don't change your love for life because of your situation. Only by having every bit of beauty in life can we have a rich and powerful heart and face the ups and downs in the future life.
Sunrise and sunset, flowers bloom and fall, willows sprout and birds sing.
Flowers bloom, vegetation is lush, full of vitality, and the four seasons alternate.
A person who loves life is worthy of our admiration.