(A) pay attention to communication with people
People in society are kind to you on the surface, but don't be fooled by the kind appearance. The human heart is still very complicated. When we talk to people, we must observe their every move and learn to analyze which is true and which is false! Don't be what others say, but have the ability to think independently! Blindly follow other people's opinions, without their own opinions, so obedient people can easily be used as guns by others! So pay attention to communicate with people!
(2) Take part in social activities and hone yourself.
As the saying goes, if you watch too much, you will get used to it! Simple people have simple ideas, but this idea seems naive to people in society! There is no feasibility! Therefore, we should take part in more social activities, especially the newly graduated college students! We can take part in more social activities during college, so that you will accumulate a lot of social experience and learn a little mystery in the big circle of society! It won't make you feel so scared when you first arrive after graduation!
Generally speaking, we should keep a simple gender, because the simpler we think, the simpler we will be, so we won't be too tired. The simpler we are, the happier we will be, but we must learn to be "not simple" in society. I hope everyone can do their best!