There are great differences between Chinese and western cultures. However, with the development of globalization, many couples in China marry foreigners. In fact, apart from two young people getting used to each other, parents may not get along well with these young people. After all, there are still great differences between traditional thinking and western culture. And the generation gap of age is also obvious. People in each era are exposed to different things, so their thinking is different, and it is easy to produce different ideas.
The French son-in-law recorded a video about China's mother-in-law, who cooks with a rice cooker every day. He misses his slice of bread very much, and he is in France, so he can't eat bread. And he thinks that the only person in France who is seriously isolated is his mother-in-law, who can't go out for three months. I hope to open a direct flight from Paris to Kunming soon. If we stay together, he will go crazy. French son-in-law's fluent Mandarin always amuses many netizens. In fact, he has a very good relationship with his mother-in-law, but he can't last three months. Actually, his mother-in-law thinks the video is funny.
In fact, his mother-in-law is changing diapers, preparing meals, putting them to bed and so on every day, helping them do a lot of housework, so she feels obliged to apologize to her mother-in-law. All the videos of China's son-in-law are sincere. But no matter how good the relationship is, we should keep an appropriate distance.
The growth environment, cultural background, contact things, correlation and hobbies of the two generations are very different, so it is very normal to have a generation gap. What's more, it is still two different countries, so the generation gap will definitely be worse. Because we can't go out because of the epidemic, everyone stays in a small room every day. Even parents will inevitably have friction, not to mention the son-in-law and mother-in-law.
In fact, the best state of the two generations is to keep a proper distance, live separately, go their own way, not be bound, let alone accommodate anyone, so that they may live happier and more freely. When two generations get along, their children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so don't take care of everything. We should stress principles on major issues and pretend to be confused on minor issues, so that we will gradually have a good impression. Since ancient times, people in China have paid attention to respecting the old and loving the young. Although I live separately from my parents, I still have to go home to visit my parents on holidays and call them at ordinary times. In this way, their feelings will not fade away and there will be no unnecessary contradictions.
The French son-in-law responded that although he spoke ill of China's mother-in-law, he just thought it was funny and didn't really complain about her mother-in-law. Chinese food is to his taste, and that China girl gave birth to a child for him. He should respect this Chinese mother. So he will find an opportunity to apologize to his mother-in-law. I think this ending is perfect. If two generations can get along well, it will really achieve family and wealth, and it is also a success in life.