The first is the man who is emotionally unstable. In the case of a man who abused his wife by caesarean section, the staff once said that the man was usually very kind to his wife, but occasionally he had a bad temper.
It must be said that many people do not regard the problem of "hot temper" as a real problem, but this idea is wrong.
People with hot temper are often people with unstable emotions, and a little thing in life can make them furious. In the field of psychology, such people usually have emotional instability personality disorder.
Psychologists believe that this is a very serious mental illness.
In daily life, they often show destructive mental state when interacting with others. In addition, they will show that kind of untimely but extremely strong anger, and they can't control their emotions and behaviors.
This kind of person usually has "giant baby psychology", also called "all-round narcissism". They regard themselves as the center of the world, think they can do anything, and expect everything to be under their control. When their demands are not met, this desire will turn into anger and destruction.
Because they are so narcissistic, it is difficult for them to have feelings for the people around them, because they don't care about other people's emotions and ideas at all.
Many people may say that the man is usually very kind to his wife because the other person has a hot temper and denies whether he is unfair.