What effect does having children have on people?

My family has just experienced the matter of giving birth to two treasures and has the most say in this matter. Having children has many influences on people, mainly in three aspects: physical health, postpartum sequelae and family life.

No.65438 +0 affects health.

The influence of physical health mainly includes two aspects: physical injury and poor mental state.

First, the body is hurt. Whether it is a star woman or an ordinary woman, under normal circumstances, having children has little harm and influence on women's health. Because fertility is a natural phenomenon of human beings, giving birth to children is a natural process. However, there are many uncertainties in having children. For example, my baby is 7.4 kg, which is a heavy baby, and my mother will be very hard. Moreover, the baby's head and hands are side by side, which causes the mother to cut sideways. This is the situation in my family. Different mothers will encounter some different emergencies, such as caesarean section. So giving birth to a child will harm the mother's health.

Caesarean birth

Second, the mental state is not good. As you said, it's as simple as buying a dish in the vegetable market for a female star to have a baby, but it's generally not good for ordinary people to have a baby. This state actually refers to the mental state, that is, the mental state of the postpartum mother will be relatively poor. Because stars have money, they can hire a nanny and have a new moon, but we ordinary people do everything ourselves. Every night, the mother feeds the baby from time to time, coaxes the baby and changes the diaper. The baby is also worried about crying and worrying about not crying. I hardly slept at night. This is the spirit that can be seen by the naked eye. I saw my mother dozing off with her baby in her arms. .......

Take care of children

NO.2 postpartum sequelae

There are basically no sequelae to the body if you have children now, but mothers who have a second or more children will have some postpartum sequelae. For example: vaginal tear, vaginal relaxation, pelvic floor muscle relaxation, uterine prolapse, cervical injury, breast prolapse caused by feeding, etc. Therefore, it is recommended that mothers have regular physical examinations after childbirth to reduce the risk of having children and some sequelae after childbirth.

Number three? Affect family life

People always need help to take care of their children after giving birth, and it is usually grandma who helps to take care of them. Therefore, it is easy for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have conflicts when they live together, thus affecting family harmony and family life. Therefore, having children is a happy, happy and happy thing. If the family is unhappy because of the children, it is unnecessary. But looking at the whole society, many families with children, especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, will have conflicts because of children. This is a reality, and we should learn to deal with the problems brought about by having children flexibly.

Contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Giving birth to a child is a happy thing, which has many influences. But in any case, women should remember that they are first a person, then a mother, then a wife, daughter-in-law and other roles, so women should take good care of themselves and cherish themselves. Men should also love their women (wives) well, because she has done a lot for you and your family, and it is worth caring for her all our lives.