Why can't my sister send her?
There are so many customs and rules in the countryside. Although some of them are passed down from mouth to mouth, it always feels as if there is no scientific basis. However, deep-rooted ideas make us bow to some superstitious views, especially those of the elderly at home. In the face of such a big event as marriage, we are still good at paying attention to the bride's wedding and personnel issues.
Why can't my sister send her?
Who can't see the bride off when she gets married: aunt and sister-in-law. Why can't my aunt and sister-in-law see her off? First of all, in China, we pay attention to the auspiciousness of language. The homonym of "Gu" is "Solitude", while the homonym of "Sister-in-law" is "Sweep". In ancient times, being alone and not at home meant that the bride was unlucky. Therefore, in order to avoid this situation and make the wedding happy, there is a saying that Gu Dasao will not send it.
Why can't my sister send her?
Widows divorce: It is unlucky for widows and divorced people to attend the wedding, because such people are called unlucky. They think that unfortunate people in their own family should not attend the bride's wedding, for fear that they will bring their bad luck to the new couple and lead to their unhappy marriage life, so such people cannot appear at the wedding.
Why can't my sister send her?
Married without children: people who have been married for a long time but have no children are not suitable for seeing the bride off. Getting married and having children is a major event in life. Once they get married, they will definitely have children and continue to reproduce. This is an ancient way of thinking of China. Therefore, for unmarried people, physical illness or bad luck is not suitable for seeing the bride off. Because it will bring bad luck, such people will not appear at the bride's farewell party.