Emotional choice 1:
Live in the present
Swallows have gone, and there is a time to come again; Willow withered, there is a time to green again; Peach blossoms bloom again after they have withered. But, who can tell me why the past time is gone forever?
So my life is full of memories.
However, I don't know. I seem to be getting more and more empty. There is a feeling in my heart that the older I get, the faster time passes and the more numb I seem to be.
Childhood is nostalgic, because we once had eternity in childhood. Unfortunately, the eternity we have is also disappearing. Since we lost our childhood, we have lost eternity. That's what people do. It is because I lost my childhood that I know I have grown up. It is because of the passing years that we know that we are still alive; It is because of loss that we know our growth and the pace of time.
How many late nights, I stayed under the light and didn't want to end the day, but even though I worked hard, the day ended. I can't hold the old man's hand in any case. But I sat down and tasted my own tea. I sat at my desk alone, doing nothing and thinking nothing. My parents, relatives and my good brothers and sisters gradually emerged in my mind. Their figures are still clear, and this feeling is indescribable, like lying in the flowers on the beach in the summer afternoon, savoring the flowers attentively and feeling the sea breeze kissing the dry skin. I know this memory will stay with me forever. Maybe I will ignore them occasionally for secular reasons, but when I get old, my memory will decline, and I know that something eternal will have to be deeply rooted in my heart. I will regard them as treasures until the end of my life. Therefore, when I think of the sweet days in the past, I feel a sense of satisfaction.
I know I'm drunk, intoxicated with memories.
At this moment, the more I feel that time is leaving us, the more I want to catch it, and the faster he runs. I don't know why people feel this way. Maybe every day of our life is too empty, and we are too busy to get too much. Maybe we have really grown up, but we are no longer as active as when we were children, and we can't do whatever we want in front of our parents like when we were children. Maybe we have become rational and don't have to tell our brothers and sisters everything as before. At this moment, we are all holding everything by ourselves, because we are afraid of being known by others and what we get is ridicule and incomprehension.
However, the reality is cruel. Only when you lose something do you know how to cherish it. Just like a moment, we can never have it, but it holds our destiny.
Memories are sad, expectations are lost, and now * * * is intertwined with expectations and despair.
Since the length of a moment cannot be increased, we can expand its width. Only by living in the present can we make the present eternal. (sanitary napkin advertisement)
Emotional choice 2:
Living in the present is a Buddhist saying. It is not only a feeling, but also a kind of wisdom and an upward attitude towards life.
In the final analysis, the essence of living in the present is to live freely, freely and unhindered for one second. A second ago, you were not you, he only belonged to the past. You couldn't get it in the past. Who can get the past back? Lost youth, lost feelings, lost life, or lost money, honor and status? The past is like fireworks. It flashes in the air and disappears. Trying to keep the past will draw water with a sieve. A second later, you are not you, and he belongs to the future. The future is not available, and the future is just an illusion. And fantasy is like a soap bubble floating in the air, a string of colorful hydrogen balloons; The legend that eggs give birth to chickens, chickens give birth to eggs, and eggs give birth to chickens; A castle built on the beach. In the blink of an eye, the bubble went out, the ball broke, the egg broke and the building collapsed. We won't always be so lucky, and sooner or later we will suffer from disillusionment. The past is dead and the future is not born. What really belongs to us is the present.
In this second, let you choose. Do you choose happiness or pain? Do you choose happiness or trouble? Do you choose quiet or trouble? Do you choose wisdom or ignorance? Different choices have the opposite result. Pleasure and pleasure are actually very clear, just between your thoughts. Our life is just a selected topic for which we already know the answer.
Life is just a clock. We cycle in a predetermined circle, and everyone has their own trajectory. In the past, it did not belong to us; We don't know the future. In ignorance, we worry, worry, pain, sigh, birth and death, sorrow and joy. We should deal with the premature death of life, disillusionment of feelings, distant happiness, pain and helplessness. What truly belongs to us and what we can finally control is the present. How short a second is, but countless seconds are connected. This is life and eternity.
If, in this second, you choose happiness. Then countless happiness is connected and flows into 1 happy river. If, in this second, you choose happiness. Then countless joys are connected in series to form an ocean of happiness. The pleasure is very simple, and the pleasure is also very simple, just like turning the palm of your hand over. It can be done in a second. Anyone can do it.
It only takes one second to do the biggest project in life. Happy yourself, in this second. Happiness is always only a second away from us. When a man is born, he rushes to death, and his other purpose is to enjoy himself. We are all looking for the joy of life and happiness. Happiness is like the shadow of self, which is always only a few steps away. It will be caught at first sight, but it will never catch up. But she is always hanging around us, arousing our appetite and arousing our desire, but never letting us have her. Happiness is beyond our reach and can be seen from a distance, not ridiculous. We miss her so much!
As a result, someone wrote an essay called "Pleasure in the Distance", which attracted hundreds of thousands of viewers and numerous praises. In fact, people who are far away from happiness are chasing after the wind and chasing after the fish, in vain. Therefore, the man came to the conclusion that happiness lies in the heart, which is really insightful and admirable.
Where is the joy? In fact, it is in our hearts. When we calm down and take care of our hearts. You will find that people who seek pleasure from outside their hearts are as lovely as those who desperately pursue their own shadows. When the glitz disappears and the dust settles, life will come out and gradually reveal its true colors. When people reach middle age, everyone has a sigh of "looking for her in a dream, but that person is in the dim light"! There is an epiphany that "you can't find a place to get it, and you don't have to work hard to get it." Happiness, only in a moment, only in the present, only in this second.
In this second that belongs to us, do what I want to do and love the person I love. Cherish the present, the present. Happiness means not asking about the past and not thinking about the future. Happiness means living in the present, focusing on the present, focusing on the present. (customer service work summary)
Live in the present and always be grateful. Thank you all the time. At this second, I am still alive.
Live in the present and always be in awe. In the vast space-time, we are not the only masters.
Live in the present and always be kind. Respect the old and love the young.
Live in the present and always have compassion. No pity, no pity. Everything is me, a part of my heart.
To live in the present is to live a sunny life with a sunny mind. Is to live with ideals, wisdom and dignity. Let us be masters of life, not slaves of life!
Living in the present is a purification and sublimation of the soul, and it is a second to change one's wisdom. Is to face yourself and face life. Brave and sincere.
Emotional choice 3:
Live in the present
It is difficult to reveal the essence of this Buddhist saying by direct explanation. Borrow a story to explain it: In The Lantern Festival, it is said that a monk and a disciple of Hui Yuan were on the road and saw a woman waiting to cross the river at 1. Without a boat or a bridge, the old monk carried the woman across the river without saying anything. Back at the temple, the young monk couldn't help asking the old monk, "Monks are forbidden to approach women. Why did the master carry that woman? " The old monk said seriously, "I put that woman down long ago." Why are you still carrying it? "
Yesterday has passed, even if something beautiful happened yesterday, we can't let it come again, and it will come again tomorrow. You imagine the future as a flower, that's later. Even if your hands are long, you can't catch them. The only thing we can grasp and control is this day. (Steve Jobs famously said)
Life is short, and decades are in a hurry. God brought us into this world, so we should thank God for his gifts and all the natural things that the world has brought us. We should be kind to ourselves, live a good life, make our life wonderful and live high happy, so that our life will not be in vain. The Buddha told us to live in the present.
Just like the story quoted in the first paragraph, although the old monk carried the woman who was going to cross the river and let her go, at the same time, the old monk also let this matter go. Although the young monk did not carry the woman, he had already arrived at the temple, but he still mentioned it. The old monk lives in the present and the young monk lives in the past.
To live in the present is to let go of the burden, live happily in the present, and live without regrets. If we make unnecessary imagination and worry about what will happen in the future, we will have no worries. If we make unnecessary imagination and worry about what happened in the past, we will have no regrets. People can live in the present without any worries and regrets, and their thoughts will not be bound by other things, reaching the highest realm-the purest happiness.
The past and the future do not belong to me, and this moment is the time that really belongs to me. If we only have one day, we should do what we should do, how to make this day beautiful and perfect, and let us come to this world in vain. Throw away unnecessary troubles and life will only become pleasant. Tell yourself: I am happy at this moment, and I live at this moment.
Nowadays, society is becoming more and more realistic and cruel, and life is not easy. We should be more clear about how we should live, how we can not be bound by secular pressure, learn to understand and relax our mentality, learn to understand and live in the present and manage a perfect life.
Emotional choice 4:
Living in the present requires a kind of wisdom; Love is in the moment, and what you get is an experience.
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Often, ask yourself, am I happy? Even if only a little; Often, touch your conscience, am I happy? Even if it's just the past. I'm not sure! Because of this, I have never really lived for myself.
I am not a person who easily despairs of reality, but sometimes I have to set up a defense line in my heart; I am not a person who is easy to be pessimistic about life, but sometimes I sigh helplessly. I won't lose confidence in real life, but I don't know when my dream will come true. I don't want to see the complicated society too clearly, so I just want to close my eyes quietly, sing in my heart and watch the flowers bloom in my dream.
I know, maybe, the world is not as simple and beautiful as I want, but I know that if the heart is simple, the world will be perfect. So, I can walk out of my own 1 road and wait for the thousand turns of life with a cool attitude. So, at this moment, I just want to seek a quiet and indifferent attachment in my dream, and I just want to live in the present, even in a fantasy world.
Many times, what I want is a kind of free and easy everywhere, a kind of free and easy to get rid of the shackles of reality. However, after the ideological upsurge gradually subsided, I yearned for a pure simplicity and a plain pursuit in my dream. However, I know that the ego is a person who lives in reality. Even if all my dreams are fantasies, I still want to take some time out of my busy life and give myself a narrow space to let my thoughts fly freely. Perhaps, the road ahead is still very long, very long. . . Then, let me live in the present, seize this moment and find a safe place for my soul. From then on, forget the past, pin your love on the future and live in the present. (article reading network: three smells)
Looking back, looking back on the road, I found that the memory of the past had disappeared without a trace. At this moment, all that remains is patchwork fragments and desolation that nobody cares about. Like a photo many years ago, like a figure in memory, like love and hate in the world of mortals. . . Once it's over, it's over, it's over. I can only leave some memories and some palpitations. Here, living in such a quiet moment, my heart is fascinated, fascinated, intoxicated, intoxicated.
In the fleeting time, there are many people I can't remember or forget; In the years, there are many things that I can't afford and can't let go. Therefore, I can only tell myself, take the road now and live the life now. You can only force yourself to learn and forget, whether you are smart or confused! However, the present society is too dirty, and I am in the real world. How can I not be sad! I really want to find a quiet place. However, everything is not satisfactory. Social unrest, my heart is uncertain.
I just want to live in the present, but I have to remember the past and sometimes think about the future. But at the moment, a person, a heart, a dream, so alive, I am so tired, my heart is so tired. I know that memories can't go back to the past, but my heart is erratic for some reason. I also know that the future is beyond my reach, but I still want to predict something! I know the future is unpredictable, and my heart is not tested. Therefore, I can only work hard and live in the present with a normal heart.
Living in the real world, if you say an unintentional word, others will listen attentively; Do a simple thing, and someone will look at it with complicated eyes. Or a trivial action, or a casual expression, will be criticized and ridiculed by others. I don't understand why people are so far away and human nature is so elusive.
If I can, I just want to live in the present, live in the present and live naturally! I want to live a low-key life, with daily necessities, pots and pans, simple tea and light rice, that's all. There is no social intrigue, no intrigue in the workplace, no hypocrisy in reality, and no disturbance in life. . . I hope all smiles are from the heart, all words are sincere, there is no hidden knife in the smile, and there is no hidden sword in the mouth. Because of this, I just want to, just want to live in the present and live in peace.
If I can, I just want to live in the present, live in the present, and I live leisurely! I don't care about fame and fortune, I don't read minds, and I don't complain about the injustice of life. Just feel the joy of the moment and absorb the youth of the moment. Let the soul freely release emotions in the present, and let the soul freely express expectations in the present. In this way, life will be sublimated to an ethereal realm. Because of this, I just want to live in the present and live in inner peace.
If I can, I just want to live in the present, live in the present, and I live calmly! I don't want to disguise my nature, I don't want to be vain and flattering, and I don't want to kiss against my conscience. I am who I am. I treat life with a sincere heart and the truest feelings. In this way, my head is bright and dry, my feet are on the vast land, and I am walking in a fearless world. I am brave and fearless. Because of this, I want to live in the present and live sincerely.
If I can, I just want to live in the present, and I can live in peace of mind if I live in the present! I just want to live a good life with a smile and deal with gossip. I won't explain. Being misunderstood, I won't delve into it. Because of this, I know that the more you want to clarify, the more complicated things will be. So, I can only say to myself with a smile: forget it, forget it! However, the truth behind the matter, as long as I understand it myself, as long as people who understand me understand it, is enough for me. That's why I want to live in the present. Live without regrets.
Now, I am still alive. Maybe I'm used to watching life, or maybe I'm used to thinking about life. Anyway, anyway! I just love to touch my heart in life with a safe attitude; I just love to use an indifferent attitude to trigger the touch in life. This kind of life is the life I have been pursuing, and it is also the lifestyle I want to live with my life.
Emotional choice 5:
Live in the present
A group of people quietly followed the tour guide and wandered around the lifeless old county town of Beichuan. The souls who died under the ruins don't know whether they can enjoy the flowers offered by the living, and inadvertently pull the tourists' thoughts back to the scene of the sky falling four years ago. In Beichuan Central Memorial Park, a faded banner stopped many people: "Hechuan, how are you?" Mom and dad miss you very much. Son, this year marks the fourth anniversary of your leaving your mother. My mother doesn't know how these four years have come. Every day is a heartbreaking pain. Son, parents love you forever. Let's be together forever, shall we? Son, mom misses you, misses you, misses you! "I thought I was strong, but I couldn't stop the tears from flooding. When disaster strikes, life is so fragile, even vulnerable. I feel strongly that it's good to be alive. At this time, my heart is full of fear of life.
I had a dinner in Gina Qiangzhai at noon, and the food was quite delicious. The people around me wolfed down, and soon only the cups and plates were in a mess. Without appetite, I stood alone under the Qiang bunker built by the Qiang people. Clouds hover in the mountains, and shrubs all over the mountains openly release the tension of life. Nature seems to be fair. Blocking one exit will leave you with another passage. A short stay in response to the towering mountains and unpolluted air and water has become my best hope. Tour guide girls can sing and dance, talk and laugh with them, be neither humble nor supercilious, and their eyes are full of love for mountains. Someone in the same car played a yellow joke on her, but it was blocked by the beautiful Qiang girl's smile. Those educated "hooligans" always measure the world by the rules of money. We should not expect everyone to have noble sentiments, but at least learn to know how to respect. The heavy rain at night drove away the drowsiness, but I am grateful to have such sleepless memories during the trip. Accompanied by the drizzle in Leng Yue, the insects singing outside the window called tirelessly, and the mosquitoes in the house chased shyly, trying to leave an unforgettable impression on me thousands of miles away.
People always fantasize about the future. Later, I realized that the future is out of reach, I can't get the result of winning or losing for a while, and I don't know whether to win or lose, so there is not much pressure. Even in dreams, many people are willing to live in the so-called future world. The best way to comfort people is to look at the perfect future. Life is almost 20 thousand days, without draft paper, every day is live broadcast. People are most afraid of dealing with reality, and reality is often not designed for people. Many disappointments have become the normal state of life. Complain about it or run away from it, and life is there. We envy rich people for spending money like water, but in fact we are jealous or hostile to rich people just because we can't; I didn't scold a beautiful woman when she got into a luxury car. I am muttering: a beautiful woman will be abandoned sooner or later if she marries money. Let's marry a down-to-earth person like me, but this beautiful woman would rather cry in a BMW than laugh in your own car. When I turn on the TV, I always laugh at the lack of rules in the entertainment circle, but I secretly think that if I become a star, it will be even worse. Life is fair, although there are differences, but the quota of life is necessary. Other people's bird's nest abalone, my peanuts with wine, and full of wine. Only by simply living can there be endless happiness. Only by dealing with the reality that you don't want to face can you feel happy. Many unrealistic ideas come from childhood education. As soon as the son entered the kindergarten, his parents designed a blueprint for his future development, almost all of them were located in Tsinghua Peking University, and the bottom line was at least the successful people in the upper class. In fact, there are not many successful people in this world, and most of them belong to ordinary people. Ordinary is not mediocrity, it already belongs to the category of standing high.
There are many rich people buried under the ruins. They can disappear in an instant and come and go naked. Life is a journey. You want the scenery along the way, not the final destination. Some people say Jiuzhaigou is beautiful, others say there is nothing to see when they come back, and they are fooled. In fact, the highest state of tourism is not to follow the established route but to find another way. How many people can do it? Travel is just an experience, there is no right or wrong, and there is no saying of being cheated. I have always believed Andy Lau's line: money is just a need, not important. If everything is for money, you will get stuck in a quagmire and live a tired and bitter life. Sometimes you will cry when counting money and lose the benefits of life. A senior three teacher committed suicide in Guantao County, Hebei Province. In April, he only received the salary of 1400 yuan, and he could not afford the life he wanted. It's really not worth it. Human desires, such as ravines, are difficult to fill. It is precisely because money is so magical that many people are willing to go through fire and water. When entering the temple, the abbot suddenly said: a person's greatest wealth is health, and a person's greatest mistake is paranoia. In fact, there is no need for a person to live a luxurious life, just because most people who live long are hungry. Most people who live long are simple and cheerful, confused and casual. I have no reason to exclude money, just because money can also measure a person's value. When I left the public school to go to a private school, it caused an uproar. Someone told me directly that I was going to ask for money. I can only laugh at newspapers. Apart from money, you will be laughed at when you talk about your ideals or beliefs. In addition to earning money, can the sky be high and the clouds light, can the moon be white and the wind clear, and can live poetically, isn't it the best of both worlds?
Those who dare not face reality will be drowned by reality sooner or later. Don't envy other people's luxury cars and mansions, you can care about your own small wine and dishes. Be your best self with the best emotions. Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, it is better to be happy every day. Live in the moment, and life is a song for you.