2. How important is the position of parents in education and how much influence it has on children's growth. However, in this era of money first, in order to cultivate children's perfect character, parents must go into their inner world and truly understand and respect their children, so as to gain their trust, understand their children more comprehensively and educate them better.
The newly promulgated Guiding Outline of Kindergarten Education (Trial) points out that family is an important partner of kindergarten. Based on the principles of respect, equality and cooperation, we should strive for parents' understanding, support and active participation, and actively support and help parents improve their educational ability. "The starting point of kindergarten parents' work is to make full use of parents' resources and realize interactive cooperation and education at home.
1. The status of teachers and parents in family cooperation is unequal, which shows that kindergarten education is the center, parents are required to cooperate with kindergarten work, and parents' needs and ideas are rarely considered, so that parents are in a position of obedience. Kindergarten teachers often ask parents to bring waste materials and objects into the park to facilitate children to play games and carry out teaching activities. Parents don't know the goals and requirements of the activities organized by teachers, which sometimes makes parents feel bored and contradictory, and easily leads to the distance between teachers and parents being pulled away unconsciously.
2. Family education attaches importance to the development of early intelligence and ignores the cultivation of non-intelligence factors, especially the education of children as human beings. The outstanding performance is the serious problem of primary education in family education. Parents think that children should only know how to read, add and subtract, read Chinese Pinyin and recite ancient poems. Too early, let children have the opportunity to show their talents at the gathering of relatives and friends, add luster to their "face", and only pay attention to the cultivation and development of immediate intelligence; Ignoring the cultivation of children's ability to learn to survive, to be human, to cooperate and to communicate, and blindly accommodating and protecting children in life will inevitably lead to their one-sided development. Or stubborn and withdrawn. Many parents can't understand the problem that the quality of life of children in the future society depends on their physical, psychological and moral qualities, and the future social emotional quotient is more important than IQ.
3. In the process of family education guidance, teachers only extract some relevant articles from books, newspapers and magazines and paste them in the "parents' garden", or teachers take parents as the audience and give priority to one-way teaching, which does not give parents more time to think and express their views, resulting in a lack of pertinence in the guidance content. It makes it difficult for parents to truly accept and internalize their ability to educate their children in the future, which greatly affects the initiative and enthusiasm of parents to participate in cooperation.
4. Pay attention to the cultivation of specialty education and neglect the all-round development of body and mind. Many parents unilaterally think that quality education is specialty education, that is, through some social training centers and activity centers, children are given special training in sports, dance, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, so that children can master a skill. Therefore, regardless of children's interests, they rush blindly between kindergartens, families and training centers, and blindly participate in various interest classes, which makes children exhausted and lose interest in learning.
References:
Baidu encyclopedia-family education