First of all, I think our love motive must be simple, and this kind of love is beautiful. Just like some people, when they are in love, they may care more about a person's material conditions. If the other party can't meet his own requirements, he won't be with the other party, and he may choose to be with a person because of some interests. I think these are all incorrect views on love. We should appreciate a person just because we like him. Courageously pursue the person you like, without mixing some external factors.
In love, it is also helpful for two people to learn tolerance and understanding. There is no denying that no matter how good the relationship is, two people may quarrel over some trivial matters. If two people can't handle these problems correctly, their relationship is likely to be shattered, so it is very important to understand tolerance and understanding. When encountering such a problem, two people who know how to tolerate and understand may think of each other from each other's point of view, and even take the initiative to apologize to each other and reflect on their own shortcomings. In this way, through repeated quarrels, the feelings between two people can become more and more stable, and a set of methods suitable for them will be gradually summed up.
In love, two people promote each other and make progress together. This kind of love is perfect. It is clear that in the process of their love, they may slowly forget why they were together at the beginning, and when they are together, they will slowly consume each other, which determines their feelings and there is no way to go to the end. Therefore, when choosing a love object, we must choose someone who has the same goals and pursuits as ourselves. Even if you don't have the same goal, the other party should have a sense of responsibility and can give you a future. This is the best ending of your relationship.