Besides, my friend, let me tell you something about Buddhism. It doesn't mean that you can burn a few incense and kowtow to a few flowers, and you can be happy and safe all your life.
According to the causal theory of Buddhism, good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. Everything we are suffering at this moment is caused by the bad karma of previous lives. The happiness we enjoy at the moment is the maturity of good deeds in previous lives, our own evil, which makes us backfire, makes us suffer, is our own good, makes us get what we want and makes us happy. This is the root cause of pain and happiness.
Why is there so much pain in the world with the blessing of Buddha and Bodhisattva? Let me give you an example. A cuts B, and B wants revenge. Can Bodhisattva bless A? If it is blessed, isn't it unfair to B? So sometimes it's hard for bodhisattva to bless us. On the one hand, we can ask the Bodhisattva to protect our peace, but on the other hand, we should correct our mistakes, do more good deeds and accumulate virtue. This is the right way to live a peaceful, healthy and happy life. The evil done in previous lives (including previous lives), on the one hand, should be repented, on the other hand, the consequences are ripe, and if there is retribution, it should be able to bear it. This is the embodiment of being able to take responsibility.
Therefore, if we want to pursue peace and happiness, we must abide by the teachings of Buddha and Bodhisattva: all evil should be avoided and all good should be pursued.
You can correct your mistakes, do good deeds, and be a good student of Buddha and Bodhisattva. Buddha and Bodhisattva will be very happy to know, and you will be rewarded!
In the process of doing good deeds and accumulating virtues, it is easy for us to ignore filial piety. Buddhism tells us that parents are our greatest blessings. Filial piety can help us accumulate good luck and change our fortune, while unfilial will ruin our good luck. In fact, it is not from a personal point of view, but because our parents raised us with great pains, we should be filial. Confucius said that the hardest thing to be filial to parents is "color difficulty", that is, it is difficult to be kind to parents, so treat parents gently, speak softly and not violently.
Finally, I suggest you invite an introductory book on Buddhism to have a comprehensive and concrete understanding of Buddhism. We believe in Buddhism and learn from the scriptures, not only by burning incense, but also by kowtowing. There are many good and useful Buddhist knowledge worth learning. To practice. On the one hand, our blessings and luck can be blessed by Bodhisattva, and more importantly, we can learn from Buddhism and practice by ourselves, and do good deeds and accumulate virtue.
This book is reminiscent of Enlightenment written by the old mage Kong Jing. Buddhism explains the origin of our world, the destination and significance of life, and how we can live happily without pain, which is worth learning. This book can be bought in temples.
The destination of life mentioned in Buddhism is very important to us. We are human beings now. What about the afterlife? What will it become? Is there immortality? Besides, can you be happy in the afterlife? Or pain? Is there an eternal way to make yourself happy and make all beings feel happy? This point is discussed in detail in Buddhism)