A child psychologist has conducted a research for 8 years, and investigated 1 10,000 children with different economic conditions. The feedback was unexpected. When asked about children's greatest wishes and requirements, most children don't care much about what to eat, play and use, but generally pay attention to family atmosphere and spiritual life. For example:
Parents should not quarrel;
Treat children equally;
Adults should not break their words;
Mom and dad should be humble to each other and don't blame each other;
Parents should maintain their children's self-esteem;
When our children visit, we should welcome them.
There should be appropriate recreational activities in the family, and children should be given time to play on holidays;
When mom and dad don't do what they say and do, they should accept the criticism of their children.
Be less angry with children and laugh more.
This can be said to be the children's * * *. Their spiritual and spiritual needs are stronger than those of material conditions and economic life, and they hope to have an intimate, harmonious, inclusive, democratic and lively family. They hate dull, cold, bossy, nervous, noisy and irritable family environment. Interest and happiness are two main positive emotions. Parents consciously create a good family environment for their children. It is an important part of family education to form a pleasant atmosphere, let children learn in fun, learn in fun, and give play to their golden aura according to their natural qualities.
Parents play an important role in the cultivation of happy personality. Parents should deepen their feelings with their children in order to get closer. American psychologist Peterson found in long-term observation that children's habits, language, motivation and world outlook are very similar to those of their parents. He believes that parents can treat life with smiles and kind eyes, which can make their children get a very good and happy education. Therefore, parents should be broad-minded and cheerful in their daily lives. Even if you are busy at work, you should take time to play with your children and say some interesting words to subtly infect and edify them.