How to make my husband love himself more and more?
1. Take care of your appearance and figure, because self-discipline may get more favor.
Don't indulge just because you are with the right person after marriage. Every day you are in a very decadent state, and you only know how to eat, drink and be merry. Slowly, the other person may lose the freshness of you and think that you are not what he first saw. Maybe there will be arguments and contradictions between you. If you want to get the other person's good opinion, you must manage your figure and appearance well, so that the other person will think that you are different every day and love you more.
2. Give each other a space of their own.
Everyone is carrying a heavy load, that is to say, everyone is under great pressure, and when the pressure is great, it will be released, especially men. After all, men have great responsibilities and pressures, and they need to release their hearts. In this case, you need your own time and space, so in marriage, if you want to keep your feelings fresh, you need to give each other some space to sort out. Feelings will fade as time goes by. At this time, we should keep their feelings fresh. After all, too plain feelings will make people want to escape.
Create romance occasionally
Many women have entered a misunderstanding that romance is a man's patent. Even if there is romance between two people, it should be specially prepared by men for women. In fact, this idea is completely wrong. Men will get lazier and lazier after marriage. This laziness comes not only from their bodies, but also from their psychology. After a long time, they will inevitably get tired of this marriage. Wives can play an extraordinary role in this process, and you can create more romantic atmosphere for your husband. In this way, they will feel very happy, and your feelings will gradually heat up in a romantic atmosphere.
How to keep fresh in marriage
First, we can't ignore each other's emotional needs. It is an objective need to raise and cultivate children hard, but we can't ignore each other's emotional needs on this ground. At this time, we should do a good job, care more about each other, greet each other more and be considerate. For example, when cleaning indoor sanitation, husband and wife can go into battle together, properly divide their work, continue to enhance their feelings through housework, and also properly engage in a romantic atmosphere and environment. Husband and wife can run in nature together in the morning and take their children with them at night.
Second, you can't ignore taking time to be with each other. Some men are busy with work and entertainment all day and rarely stay at home. They regard their home as a hotel and seldom eat at home. They go home to sleep at midnight, and then go out at dawn to continue their hard work. After a long time, it is inevitable for a wife to complain, and it makes no difference whether to find a husband or not. Find a husband, don't stay at home all day, but also help him wash clothes. While complaining, they will feel hurt. Men also feel extremely wronged at this time, thinking that they are busy with work and entertainment all day for this family, and their wives still don't understand; Over time, there will be cracks in the relationship between husband and wife. If you don't sit down and communicate seriously at this time, marriage will have a sense of crisis. Busy work is not the reason. No matter how busy he is at work, a man should spare time to go home and spend time with his wife as much as possible, so that she can feel the beauty of her family and the happiness of her marriage.
The third is to exchange sincere feelings for each other's sincerity. Marriage is most afraid of insincerity. Husband and wife should understand each other, support each other, treat each other with sincerity, share weal and woe, because marriage is no longer an individual, but the same body with each other, one glory and one loss. Most families are not very rich, even wealthy families. They should also be highly transparent and maintain a moderate degree of economic freedom. When dealing with interpersonal relationships, husband and wife should put themselves in their own shoes and discuss with each other. They should not only pay attention to their parents and relatives, but ignore each other's parents and relatives. This will hurt their feelings the most. Parents and relatives of both sides should be treated equally. Moreover, when buying gifts for parents, you must discuss and agree with each other, and you can't hide your actions and events. In short, husband and wife should treat each other sincerely, understand each other and support each other; Put yourself in the other person's shoes. Only sincerity can get sincerity.
Fourthly, proper privacy should be allowed between husband and wife. Everyone has their own past and privacy. As long as it is not a matter of principle, husband and wife should not ask each other to be completely honest. It is very necessary for the other party to keep some privacy, such as their first love and past friends. All this has become the past, the past. If we pursue them too much, we will definitely hurt each other's feelings. It is better to let the other party keep this privacy space and let the other party respect and appreciate you more.
Suggestions on getting along with husband and wife in marriage
1. Know how to love yourself.
Love yourself is easier said than done, because most people are easily influenced by other people's voices. We don't have that strong heart to rationally analyze the consciousness of others, especially women. Maybe today my friend said this dress doesn't look good. You will think this dress is really ugly, and you don't want to wear it anymore, let alone our closest partner. Their words have a great influence on us. Still, you should learn to tell the difference. His opinion is very important, but you can't just say what he says. Just like some men like to belittle each other in love to show their strength, such a relationship will only make women feel more and more inferior in their feelings and reluctant to leave this man. He can control you very well, and such feelings make people lose themselves, so no matter what stage, love or marriage, you should love yourself, and love yourself is not only emotionally humble. It also means paying attention to the improvement of self-worth, maintaining your charm, and making men not only feel fresh about you, but also have a sense of crisis. They know that there are many competitors around you, and they will be afraid of losing you. In fact, you don't need to do more, they will be better for you. This is what smart women will do and know how to keep their attraction.
2. Less "I think" and more "What do you think?"
In feelings, many people are willing to pay and want to make each other happy. When we pay, we also hope to get feedback and praise from each other, but many times we have to consider one thing: Is what you pay really what the other person wants? Do you know each other's real needs? For example, a tourist once said that he spent a month preparing a handmade gift for his boyfriend and spent a lot of time and energy. But after receiving the gift, her boyfriend thanked her, but she was not particularly happy. She thinks you don't seem very moved that I spent so much time. This is actually because for a boy, she knows your mind, but this thing is really not his love, but you forced him to move, as if you like to eat.
How to grasp the degree of commitment in marriage
Many people will take extreme measures if they don't respond, even if I don't pay, that's all. This idea is actually wrong. Maybe the other party didn't see what you gave, so it's boring if you don't get angry with you directly. The other party doesn't know at all, we still have to give, but we must know how to communicate. If the other person can't see it, it is the default that you didn't do it. You should let him know what you have done occasionally, so that once the other person can feel love, he will be willing to pay for you to touch you.
In feelings, it is absolutely impossible for only one party to pay, and the relationship will fall to the other party like a balance, which will make the other party feel that this kind of pay is taken for granted, so naturally they will not know how to be grateful. Learn to guide local people to pay the bill. For example, if you cook at home, you can occasionally ask the other half to cook a meal for yourself. On the one hand, the purpose of doing this is to let him spend his mind and time on you, and on the other hand, let her know that you are not easy, so she won't complain so much when you put too much salt in the future. Because he knows that cooking is very troublesome, and men and women often pay different points in their feelings. The most traditional is that men are outside and women are inside. Only by experiencing each other's difficulties can we better understand each other.