1, respect principle: respect includes two aspects: self-esteem and respect for others. Self-esteem means respecting yourself in various occasions, maintaining your dignity and not giving up on yourself. Respecting others means respecting others' living habits, hobbies, personalities and values. Only by respecting others can you get their respect.
2, the principle of sincerity: sincerity is the golden key to open the hearts of others, because sincere people make people feel safe and reduce self-defense. The better the interpersonal relationship, the more the two sides need to expose part of themselves, that is, to communicate their true thoughts with others. Of course, this will also take some risks, but it is impossible to win the trust of others by completely packaging yourself.
3, the principle of tolerance: in interpersonal communication, it is inevitable that some things will not be stolen soon, and even some contradictions and conflicts will arise. At this time, we should learn to tolerate others and not haggle over every ounce. As the saying goes, if people take a step back and don't attack me, I won't attack me first. Let's be polite. Don't get into interpersonal disputes because of some trivial matters, so we will waste a lot of time.
4. Principle of mutually beneficial cooperation: Mutual benefit means that both parties can meet each other's needs, but at the same time they can get the other party's return. Interpersonal communication is always a two-way choice and two-way interaction. You can only interact with me for a long time. In the process of communication, the two sides should care about and love each other, not only consider common interests, but also deepen their feelings.
5. Understanding principle: Understanding is a necessary prerequisite for the success of interpersonal communication. Understanding is to really understand each other's situation, mood, likes and dislikes, needs and so on. And can care about each other from the heart. There is a saying that "a thousand dollars is easy to get, but a bosom friend is hard to find", and a bosom friend is precious.