What's it like to have a senior who takes care of himself?

Of course, I am very happy. Being away from parents and having someone who can take care of themselves will give parents psychological comfort and security, just like an umbrella. But we should also consider why seniors should take care of us, whether we are taken care of by men and women or by brotherhood.

It would be great if this senior is my type. If the senior takes care of me, he can first directly or indirectly determine the real feelings of the senior. If he thinks as he does, it shows that he has a good impression on the other party, so that he can not only be taken care of, but also enjoy the love time unconsciously, so that he can enjoy the sweetness of love and taste the love of his father. That feeling is really indescribable.

? If this senior, like his eldest brother, is out of the feeling that his elder brother takes care of his younger sister, he should keep this degree and not get carried away by blindly enjoying the feeling of being taken care of. It is necessary to keep a distance. After all, the love between brother and sister is easy to misunderstand, causing unnecessary trouble to each other, and of course it will also hinder each other's peach blossom.

? If the concern for seniors is based on the friendship between friends, and they have no thoughts other than friends, then you should weigh your own weight, what kind of concern is acceptable, and it is best to refuse cross-border concern. After all, the friendship between friends needs politeness, and we can't just enjoy the care of others.

? If you and your seniors are bosom friends, you can share the joys and sorrows of your life with each other, have dinner together occasionally, sit down for a cup of milk tea, talk about the recent situation, ask your seniors about your confusion and listen to their opinions carefully. When you are in a bad mood, you can also talk to each other, talk about your own worries, comfort each other, enlighten each other, and have a place in your heart, but they all leave room for each other.