We must grasp three critical periods.
1, 0-6 years old: Mom should spend more time with him to give the boy a sense of security.
What boys need most at this stage is a sense of security. Don't treat him with threats or intimidation, and don't force him to do unwilling things, such as forcing him to say hello to everyone, ordering him to share toys with others, threatening him not to cry, and leaving him if he cries again. Such language will destroy children's sense of security.
At this stage, it is normal to allow boys to be timid, selfish, not brave, shy, shy and rude; What a mother should do is to accompany her child as much as possible, give him a sense of security and train him to learn to accept and express his emotions.
2, 6- 12 years old: Dad takes more children to satisfy the boy's desire for exploration.
At this stage, boys have a strong desire to explore. Father is very important at this stage. If the father is absent, or the relationship between father and son is not good, the boy is easy to procrastinate, self-discipline and indulge in playing electronic products.
Dad should take his children to do some adventurous and challenging things, such as martial arts, mountain climbing and camping. Satisfy the child's desire and curiosity, cultivate the boy's excellent qualities such as persistence, decisiveness and frustration, and make him grow stronger, braver, more responsible and more responsible.
3. 12- 18 years old: Help children set lofty ideals and goals.
At this stage, boys are prone to rebellion and anxiety. His heart needs an idol with positive energy to worship, and boys will take this as the goal to guide him forward.
During this period, parents need to guide their children to find an excellent guide. You can help children set lofty ideals and goals by reading biographies of celebrities, movies, books, or talking to them more about their dreams, and plan ways and specific paths to realize them with children.