(1) How to make friends?
1. Be confident: this is the most basic! Self-confidence is for yourself. If others can't give it to you, you can't take it away!
2. Speak generously, don't whisper or be timid;
3. Look into other people's eyes when they are talking, don't look around;
4. You can start with the basics of life, such as the weather, where are you from and which school you go to;
5. Be cheerful and optimistic;
(2) What should I do if I care too much about other people's ideas and think too much about whether I am "different"?
If you want to be extroverted, you have to have a transition period, which is an unnatural "alternative" performance, but introverted people have to go through this transition period if they want to become extroverted. In the meantime, don't care what others think. If you feel unnatural, consider yourself a cold joke. Believe in yourself, maybe a few months, maybe a year, and you will get better gradually. That's for sure, and it's no big deal.
I can't let go. When you get over it, everything will be clear. Don't worry about what others say. Grasp the direction by yourself. As long as the general direction is right, those waves in the middle don't matter. You know, we will certainly fail on the road to success, but as long as we persist, the final result will be good!
Self-confidence can't be given to you by others, but it can't be taken away! Because self-confidence is for yourself! Never mind what others think, just do what you should do and say what you should say!
I tell you, your situation is far from my high school time difference. At that time, I had mental and physical problems, which were much more serious than yours ... but it was because I put everything down later that I finally changed slowly and gained confidence in small challenges again and again until I was outgoing.
(3) What should I do if I can't speak in front of girls?
Like me, I can talk about Kan Kan online, even like an emotional expert, but I am like a "shy virgin" in my life;
Although the theoretical knowledge is in place, after all, there is no emotional experience;
So there is a transitional process in the middle. Don't worry, take your time, get used to it, and exercise slowly.
At first, you can talk less and basically say hello, then challenge yourself and build up confidence until you get used to it.
You are great, at least you dare to say it online, believe you, come on!
(4) I feel that the other person can talk and I can't talk?
You can start with the basics, such as some things in daily life: weather, which school you come from, food, movies ... gradually give yourself some challenges, build your confidence in small challenges, and finally you can let nature take its course and be handy.
But sometimes others may just appreciate your simplicity, so you can keep your nature. There is no need to go along too deliberately, and there is no need to care too much about the taste and depth of what you say. ...
(5) How to get along with colleagues?
Relax, don't mind so much ~ then you can live a happy life! Because no matter in which company, there will always be some friction with colleagues and leaders!
1. Don't talk, especially when you are talking nonsense or bragging. Silence is golden, but once you speak, say something useful and effective;
2. Obviously, we should pay attention to some etiquette matters, respect leaders and be friendly to colleagues and friends;
3. Don't haggle over every ounce, as long as some things are clear, there is no need to ask them to change or develop according to their own ideas, in order to "compete with the world and be stupid";
4. Do things seriously, do practical things, do things well, and you will naturally be reused. Don't be complacent about a little achievement;
5. On the bright side, good health is a blessing, family harmony and smooth work are blessings;
6. There are always some unfair things in this society. We don't have to and can't change others. All we have to do is do what we should do, and gold will always shine!
I wish you happiness ~