Will it be a good thing to completely ban children from eating snacks?
Of course not! We all have a mentality, especially children. The more they are not allowed to do it, the more they want to do it. It is also true that they are not allowed to eat snacks. If parents are determined not to give their children snacks, then children will be more eager to eat snacks. Although parents have good intentions, such an approach is likely to be counterproductive and will not have good results.
What will children who never eat snacks look like when they grow up? Both endings have come true for most children.
1, the more taboo, the more fascinated.
There is a small video on Weibo, which makes people feel very sad. A boy ate instant noodles with relish, and then a little boy next to him raised his hands and bent down to think? Please. After eating a little, the expression after eating a little snack is still a little smug. Although this may be the way children get along, what if we are like that? Begging for snacks? The little boy's parents were heartbroken when they saw this scene. If parents don't give their children pocket money, or don't allow their children to eat snacks at home, then children may do some sad and heartbreaking behaviors because of their inner desire for snacks, just like that little boy and He Jiong, because their inner desire for snacks is suppressed, it is difficult to get rid of their obsession, and that inner lack will also make them fascinated by snacks.
2. The rebellious mentality is getting stronger and stronger.
Children will have their own unique ideas when they grow up to a certain age. Many parents always treat their children as? Children? Look, I think they are young and don't know anything, so many things want to make decisions for their children, but in fact, when children are three years old, their sense of autonomy will be strong, and this idea will become stronger and stronger with age. At the same time, they can decide to eat snacks by themselves, but if parents always oppress and reject their children, it will naturally arouse their rebellious psychology. Even if the child shows obedience, the heart will always be.
In fact, snacks are not as unbearable as parents think. Eating snacks properly also helps to regulate children's psychology, but don't eat too much.
What should parents do if their children like snacks very much?
Parents can't forcibly refuse their children to eat snacks, which will have the negative effects mentioned above, but this doesn't mean that they can't control their children. They should make a rule with their children, when they can't eat, how much they can only eat at a time and how many times a week. At the same time, they should tell their children that controlling the amount of snacks is not because parents don't love them, but because parents care too much about them, so they should control it. Eating too much is not good for their health. These should be made clear to the children in advance.
Snacks are a great pleasure in children's childhood. If there are no snacks, it is also a pity for children. Therefore, parents should not excessively exclude their children from eating snacks. Just eat at ordinary times. Of course, we should also control the amount of snacks, make sense to our children, and let them understand and understand our pains, so as to solve the problem better.