How to create a living environment conducive to children's growth?
How to create a living environment conducive to children's growth, a good environment is conducive to children's growth. We must create some happy and growing living environment for children according to some strong interests generated by their young minds. This is likely to lead him to further develop his hobby ability. Of course, the family atmosphere must be harmonious. Let children feel the warmth of spring. A child is an equal member of the family, and parents should not spoil and ignore him. A family should care about each other, work together, discuss things in case of trouble and enjoy life together; Families should also praise each other's good behavior and use polite language and humor; A family can often hold stories, recitals, sports meetings, perform various programs, and invite relatives and friends to play at home to enjoy family affection and friendship. Intelligent environment-rich, neat, beautiful, love reading, love asking questions, love operation. Parents should prepare small desks, bookcases, toy cabinets, science and technology treasure boxes, big maps, globes and scientific experimental instruments for their children, and then give them a botanical garden and zoo, which will be more perfect. The living environment should be neat and beautiful, especially for children, with colorful patterns, beautiful landscape paintings and beautiful calligraphy works. "Good baby praise column" has a positive encouraging effect on children. Of course, don't forget to set up an exercise environment for children, such as sandbags and balls. Families should always read and discuss, do small toy experiments together, and constantly encourage their children. For children after two and a half years old, parents can set a "quiet" period of 20 minutes every day. Everyone can concentrate on their work in their fixed position without saying a word, and then evaluate their performance afterwards. A good family environment and atmosphere is conducive to the healthy growth of children, so how to create such a family environment and atmosphere? This requires parents to do: 1. Leading by example is more important than strict education: children's psychological tolerance for a family atmosphere is manifested in their adaptation and acceptance of the image of family members (mainly parents), and the role played by parents in family life directly affects their mental health. Therefore, parents should always be aware that a pair of innocent eyes are watching them and set an example everywhere in life and work. When children are asked to do something, they should do it first, demonstrate more and preach less. 2. Have a democratic behavior style: As parents, we should respect children's independent personality and have a democratic and amiable style, which will have a very beneficial and far-reaching impact on children's healthy physical and mental growth. In family life, parents regard their children as elders, teachers and friends, and should not bring "social roles" into their homes. We should learn to understand and respect children, and only from their perspective can we discover their inner world. Never follow parents' own subjective wishes and encourage them to do whatever they want. When there are contradictions and differences in the family, don't be impatient and rude, treat each other as coldly as possible, and simplify complex problems. 3. Harmonious family atmosphere: mutual respect, understanding, trust and care among family members are the basic conditions for managing the family and educating children. The key to family harmony is the husband and wife at the core. Therefore, responsible parents, for the happiness of their families and the success of their children, need to seriously study the special art and domestic science of being a spouse. 4. Optimistic spirit and noble aesthetic taste: Parents' optimistic, calm and happy emotions can have great attraction to children. Parents should consciously restrain troubles, sadness and melancholy from all sides, control their bad personality, and let their children feel the warmth and charm of the family with an optimistic spirit. In addition, the material environment and psychological atmosphere in the family should also fully consider the influence of their education. At present, some parents attach great importance to family furnishings, clothing, eating, drinking and entertainment, but are indifferent to their children's intellectual input, study and rest, and physical and mental health. This is absolutely unacceptable, and no parent should underestimate this "subtle" power. Create a good family atmosphere, establish equal family members, let children bathe in love, let children grow up in strictness, have love, let children be happy and strict, and let children become talents. This living environment is most conducive to the growth of children. Lead by example, which requires preparing in advance, starting from basic necessities, dressing appropriately, eating and cooking appropriately, walking generously, speaking and doing things in an orderly way, being friendly with people, especially not learning by yourself, and not being lucky. In addition, extracurricular tutoring is also essential. Going to remedial classes doesn't necessarily make children learn a lot. It is to adapt to the atmosphere of this school in advance and let the children win at the starting line. Moreover, we should be diligent in communication, communicate with our children more, and draw closer to each other. You can know and solve your child's problems in the first place. We should strictly demand our interests from the age of 2 and create a good growth environment for our children. Having high-quality family members and a harmonious family atmosphere can provide constructive suggestions for children's growth, and try to let children develop their talents and have plenty of food and clothing. Such a family environment can make children grow up healthily. When children study, they must be "in the countryside" and "quiet", that is, they must have a clear purpose, concentrate their thoughts, be practical and be moderately nervous. To achieve this state, parents and children need to work together, especially as parents, to create a good learning environment for their children. First of all, let the children understand that learning must be concentrated and practical. There are many stories to tell children. You can also take children to the reading room of the library to read books, so that children can feel the atmosphere in which everyone is absorbed in reading. You can also use the method of competition for training. After a period of persistence, children can develop the habit of concentrating on their studies. Second, make the family environment suitable for children to learn. 1, prepare a fixed learning place for children, and the fixed position of tables and chairs cannot be moved at will. It is easy for children to form a psychological set of concentrating on their studies. As soon as they enter this environment, their brains will enter a learning state. You can't pile things on the table at will. You can only put textbooks, exercise books, stationery and necessary reference books. It's best to have a small bookshelf next to it. Don't put toys and snacks, so as not to interfere with children's study. 2, the room layout should be suitable for children to learn. The room layout should be concise and lively, and the items should not be too much and too miscellaneous. The walls should be light and don't stick a lot of things. Some parents let their children write their own aphorisms and put them on the wall. This method can be used for reference. Give due consideration to children's personality characteristics. For example, some children are particularly active, so red, green and mottled things should be reduced in the room so as not to encourage their unstable emotions; Some children are too introverted and dull, and the layout of the room should be warm and lively. 3. Keep a quiet environment. When children are studying, their families should try to keep quiet, and it is best not to turn on TV and radio. If they are in different rooms, they should close the door and turn down the sound. Don't talk loudly, especially don't quarrel. 4. Have time to study together. You can arrange a time for the whole family to study at the same time, some reading books, some reading newspapers and some writing. This family atmosphere can best promote children to concentrate on their studies. Third, create a psychological atmosphere suitable for children to learn. Family members care about each other and are close and harmonious, which is an important condition for children to "do as the Romans do" and "stay quiet". If the family interpersonal relationship is not harmonious and often noisy, it is a kind of psychological interference and emotional pressure for children, and children will have anxiety, fear, boredom and other mentality, and can not study with peace of mind.