Infantile period: Infantile period is one of the most vulnerable stages in children's life. They need parents' care, care and love to establish a basic sense of security. If children lack the attention and care of their parents at this stage, or experience bad stimulation such as intimidation, fright and abuse, they will feel insecure.
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Separation anxiety period: Children usually experience separation anxiety period from 6 months to 2 years old. At this stage, children begin to realize their connection with their parents and start to worry about losing or separating from their parents. If children experience separation from their parents at this stage, they will feel insecure.
Self-awareness awakening period: when children are about 2 to 4 years old, they begin to realize their existence and express their wishes and needs. At this stage, children need the respect and support of their parents to build self-awareness and self-confidence. If parents restrict or criticize their children too much, they will feel insecure.
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Family change period: when the family experiences divorce, separation, death of relatives, moving and other changes, children will feel insecure. These changes will make children feel confused, uneasy, helpless or lost. Parents need special care and support to help them adapt to the new environment.
School adaptation period: When children go to kindergarten or primary school for the first time, they will feel unaccustomed to the new environment, and they will not have familiar faces and companions, and they will not be accompanied by their parents, which may lead to their insecurity.
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When children feel insecure, parents should pay more attention and support to help them build their self-confidence and sense of security. Here are some suggestions to help children:
Give children enough love and attention: let them feel the care and support of their parents, and let them know that no matter what happens, they will be accompanied and supported by their families.
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Maintain a stable family environment: try to avoid family changes and make a smooth transition when necessary, so as not to make children feel suddenly and unable to adapt.
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Keep good communication with children: communicate with children regularly, understand their thoughts and feelings, and let them feel the care and support of their parents.
Help children build self-confidence: encourage children's independence and self-awareness, and help children build self-confidence and self-worth.
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Cultivate good behavior habits: educate children how to deal with emotions and conflicts, and cultivate good behavior habits and social skills.
The most important thing is that parents should always pay attention to their children's emotional state and needs, give them timely support and help, and let them gain enough sense of security and self-confidence in the process of growing up.
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