Good manners are made up of small sacrifices. Emerson
If you don't learn manners, you can't stand it -Confucius
The reason why mortals are more expensive than animals is courtesy. -"The Spring and Autumn Annals of Yan Zi"
The most appetizing thing at a banquet is the host's behavior. -Shakespeare
Rudeness is the illegitimate child of ignorance. Butler
Interest is a strategy that smart people come up with to keep their distance from fools. Emerson
Man cannot live like an animal, but should pursue knowledge and virtue. -Dante
Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei
Don't disrespect the position, but don't disrespect the virtue; Not ashamed of Lu's disagreement, but ashamed of his lack of wisdom. -Zhang Heng
Soil can hold up the city wall, and virtue is thick soil. -Li Bai
Do a good deed and feel calm inside; If you do a bad thing, you will feel ashamed. -Han Guangshen
Immersed in the mud and not eroded by the sugar-coated shells of the bourgeoisie is the most valuable revolutionary quality. Zhou Enlai
The saddest thing for a person is the death of conscience. —— Guo Moruo
We should be enthusiastic about doing things according to morality, not talking about morality. -democritus
Reason is higher than mind, and thought is more reliable than feeling. Gorky
People should be open-minded in wisdom, innocent in morality and clean in body. -Chekhov
Conscience is determined by people's knowledge and all lifestyles. Marx
I firmly believe that only a moral citizen can make an acceptable salute to his motherland. -Rousseau
Consciousness is the mother of progress and inferiority is the source of degeneration, so consciousness and inferiority are indispensable. -Zou Taofen
Knowing shame is almost brave. Confucius
It's not that I can't see righteousness, but that I'm afraid I'm not brave enough to see righteousness. -Xie Juezai
Be careful, even when you are alone, don't speak ill or do bad things, and learn to be more ashamed in front of yourself than others. -democritus
Quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality. -Zhuge Liang
A gentleman worries about Tao but not poverty. Confucius
Poverty has no flattery, wealth has no arrogance. -Zigong
Strong is frugal, poor is not poor. -Xun Kuang
The extravagant and lazy are poor, and the thrifty are rich. -Han Fei
A gentleman's journey is quiet to cultivate one's morality, frugal to cultivate one's morality, indifferent to one's ambition, and quiet to a great distance. -Zhuge Liang
Luxury is frugal, but fierceness is in sight. -Bai Juyi
Don't think about being prepared for danger in times of peace, and refrain from extravagance and thrift; Swargen seeks wood for luxury, and the source of the plug wants to flow long. Wei Zhi
Looking at the countries and families of former sages, they became thrifty and extravagant. -Li Shangyin
The overlord takes the two rivers alone, and the descendants fall into a hundred cities. After the success of luxury, what is the double danger? -Wang Anshi
What is wasted is more desire. If a gentleman longs for more, he will read Mu Fugui, and he will waste his way and get into trouble soon. -Sima Guang
People who scrimp on food and clothing on weekdays can easily tide over the difficulties when they are poor; People who are extravagant in abundance will die of hunger and cold in poverty. Sadie
Luxury always follows fornication, and fornication always follows luxury. -Montesquieu
Be kind to others and be close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
There are brave people in the world who are not surprised when they face it suddenly and are not angry when they don't supplement it. -Su Shi
We should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but when others hurt ourselves with words, we should also bear it. Liu Shaoqi
Politeness makes people the golden key. Juan Antoniode
Threatening remarks are not necessarily justified. Sadie
Politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. John Locke
Politeness makes polite people happy, and also makes people who are treated politely happy. -Montesquieu
Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings. -Merrimi Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most precious. -Gonchard
Spleen bees sip honey from the flowers and thank the campers when they leave. The grandiose butterfly thinks that flowers should thank him. Tagore
A story about civilization
Kong Rong gave up the biggest pear.
Kong Rong (153—208), a native of Lu (now Qufu, Shandong), was a famous writer in the late Eastern Han Dynasty and one of the seven sons of Jian 'an. His literary creation was highly praised by Wei Wendi Cao Pi. According to historical records, Kong Rong was not only very clever when he was young, but also a typical example of paying attention to brotherhood, mutual help and friendship.
When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let the big one be eaten by my brother! "
At an early age, Kong Rong learned the truth of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family. Since then, Kong Rong has spread the story of pears for thousands of years, becoming a model of unity and friendship.
Standing outside the door on a snowy day, waiting for Cheng Yi (Cheng Yi) to wake up and teach-respect the teacher and emphasize the road.
The story of "Snow at the Gate" comes from "Biography of Shi Yang in Song Dynasty": "I met Cheng Yi in Luo, when I was forty years old. One day I saw H, and I sat with Youzuo. By the time I felt it, the snow outside the door was already a foot deep. "
"Pear in Cheng Menxue" is about Shi Yang and You Zuo, scholars of the Song Dynasty, asking Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi for advice. Shi Yang and You Zuo studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they will go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy.
According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and they happened to meet Mr. Cheng, who was taking a nap with his eyes closed. At this time, it began to snow outside. Eager to be a teacher, the two men stood aside respectfully and said nothing. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yi slowly opened his eyes and saw You Zuo standing in front of him. He was startled and said, "Ah, ah! Are they still there? " At this time, the snow outside has accumulated more than a foot thick, and He Youzuo doesn't look tired and impatient.
This story, called "Cheng Menxue Pear", was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, people often used the idiom "Cheng Menxue Pear" to express that scholars should respect their teachers and study sincerely and firmly.
Ceng Zi avoided the seat.
"Ceng Zi is not at his seat" is a very famous story in the Book of Filial Piety. Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. " Here, "avoiding seats" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.
Sean is a master.
Sean was a strategist of Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Western Han Dynasty. His ancestors were Koreans. After Qin destroyed Korea, he decided to avenge South Korea. Once, because of the attempted assassination of Qin Shihuang, he was hunted down and took refuge in Xiapi.
Sean has nothing to do next time. One day, while walking on Xiapi Bridge, he met an old man wearing a coarse cloth and a short coat. He walked beside Sean and deliberately dropped his shoes under the bridge. Then he turned to Sean and said, "Son! Get off the bridge and pick up my shoes! " Sean was shocked and wanted to give him a beating, but when he saw that he was an old man, he held back his anger and picked up the shoes under the bridge. The old man ordered again: "put on your shoes!" " "Sean thought that since he picked up the shoes, he might as well put them on, so he knelt on the ground and put them on himself. The old man put out his foot and asked Sean to help him put it on. Then he left with a smile. Sean has been watching his whereabouts with surprised eyes. The old man walked down the corridor, then turned to Sean and said, "You are a child who can be trained to be a successful person. Meet me here at dawn in the morning five days later! " Sean knelt down and said, "Yes." At first light on the fifth day, Sean arrived at Xiapi Bridge. Unexpectedly, the old man was already waiting there. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why are you late for your date with the old man? Come back the next morning on the fifth day! " Say that finish and left. On the morning of the fifth day, as soon as the chicken crowed, Sean rushed over, but the old man was waiting there again. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why did you fall behind me again? "Come early in five days!" Then he left again. On the fifth day, Sean arrived at the bridge before midnight. After a long wait, the old man came. He said happily, "Great." Then he took out a book, pointed to it and said, "If you study this book carefully, you can be the emperor's teacher!" " ! In ten years, the world will change and you will be rich. In the next 13 years, you will see a piece of Yellowstone at the foot of Gucheng Mountain in Hebei County. "The old man said and went away.
At dawn in the morning, Sean took out his book and read it. It turned out to be Sun Tzu's Art of War (assisted by Zhou Wuwang)! Sean cherishes it very much, often reads it carefully, and studies and studies it repeatedly.
10 years later, Chen Sheng and others rose up against the state of Qin, and more than 100 people responded. Pei Gong Liu Bang led thousands of troops and captured some places west of Xiapi. Sean joined him and became his subordinate. From then on, Sean often made suggestions to Pei according to Sun Tzu's Art of War. Pei thought it was very good and often adopted his strategies. Later, he became Liu Bang's strategist who strategized and won thousands of miles. After Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor, he was named Liu Hou.
Sean will never forget the old man who taught him the art of war. 13 years later, when he followed Liu Bang through Jibei, he saw a yellow stone at the foot of the ancient city mountain and took it back, calling it "Huang Shigong", which was a treasure and sacrificed on time. After Sean died, his family buried Yellowstone National Park with him.
Send goose feathers a thousand miles away ―― Small gifts send distant feelings.
The story of "sending goose feathers a thousand miles away" took place in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, a minority leader in Yunnan expressed support for the Tang Dynasty and sent a special envoy to let Mian Bogao contribute swans to Emperor Taizong.
When passing by Mianyang, kind Mian Bogao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan soared into the sky. Mian Bogao was busy reaching for it, only pulling out a few goose feathers. Mian Bogao was so anxious that he stamped his feet and beat his chest, crying bitterly. His entourage advised him, "It's no use crying because it has already flown away. Let's think of a remedy. " Mian Bogao thought, also can only be so.
In Chang 'an, Mian Bogao met with Emperor Taizong and presented a gift. Emperor Taizong saw that it was a delicate satin bag and opened it. At first glance, it is just a few goose feathers and a poem. The poem says: "Swan pays tribute to Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. Mianyang River lost its treasure and fell on the ground crying. After the Emperor of Heaven, Mian Bogao was spared. The ceremony is light and affectionate, and the goose feathers are sent thousands of miles. " Emperor Taizong was puzzled, and Mian Bogao immediately told the story. Emperor Taizong repeatedly said, "What a treat! It's commendable! Send goose feathers a thousand miles away, and the ceremony is light and affectionate! "
This story embodies the precious virtue of the giver's honesty. Today, people use "a thousand miles to send goose feathers" to describe the gift as thin, but the affection is extremely deep.
Poetry about civilization
etiquette
Although it is important to study first,
Politeness is better.
Abide by the school rules,
It is polite to see the teacher.
The students are friendly to each other,
Friendship is held tightly by small hands.
Take care of public property, rest assured,
Establish a new style. I can do it.
Civilized riding song
Remember, class,
Line up when you get on and off.
Get in the car, don't run around,
Prepare small change for the ticket.
In the carriage, don't shout,
Quiet and orderly.
If you have a seat, don't grab it.
Take care of the elderly and children.
When you get off the bus, it is not crowded.
It's easy to fall if you delay time.
Civilized and polite,
Go to school happily.
A little common sense of civilization
1, advocate respecting the elderly and loving the young.
Respect for the elderly: ① respect and protect the legitimate rights and interests of the elderly, and prohibit discrimination, insult, abuse and abandonment of the elderly; Respect their living habits, understand their spiritual requirements, and create a harmonious and friendly family atmosphere; (3) Care and consideration for the elderly, especially pay special attention to care and help the elderly.
Love children: ① Strengthen the education of loving the motherland, people, labor, science and socialism;
(2) Organizing and participating in various moral practice activities; (three) to safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of minors and create a healthy and upward environment; (3) Prevent and overcome doting on children and guide them to grow up healthily.
2. Polite expressions: Please, hello, thank you, sorry, goodbye. Civilized and polite cross-language is the lubricant of harmonious interpersonal relationship and the concrete embodiment of Chinese spiritual civilization.
3, do civilized medical care
① Abide by hospital rules and regulations and maintain normal order;
2 consciously queue up for registration and actively cooperate with doctors;
③ Respect the doctor's work and don't insult, abuse or beat the medical staff;
④ Don't smoke, spit or talk loudly in the hospital.
4. Civilized shopping
(1) Observe the order of the shopping mall, do not crowd or bump, and do not make any noise;
(2) Take good care of the goods in the mall and handle them carefully when choosing;
(3) Don't take advantage of petty gain and go to the mall to steal things;
(4) Polite language and civilized language.