1. What is parent-child communication? Parent-child communication refers to the process of exchanging thoughts, feelings and needs between parents and children, which can promote mutual understanding and interaction and establish a healthy interaction model in the family.
2. The importance of parent-child communication. Promote children's mental health.
If children are in silence and bad mood for a long time, they will become depressed, lose curiosity and self-confidence, which is not conducive to their growth.
Strengthen family relations. Family is the harbor of affection. If family members communicate well, it will enhance the understanding and trust between family members and promote the harmony of family members.
3. Methods of parent-child communication
Need to listen. Listening is very important for children, because children are not very mature, and their understanding ability and IQ are not enough for adults. If parents can listen to their children patiently, they will feel more secure.
Talk in an encouraging way. Encouragement and affirmation are very important for children's growth. If parents often blame and criticize their children, their self-confidence and self-esteem will be affected.
4. Problems that should be paid attention to in parent-child communication. Don't interfere with children's thoughts and feelings, let children have their own thoughts and imagination. Don't lose your temper or blame the child, which will make him feel lonely and helpless. Don't praise children, it will make them feel that their parents only care about the results and don't care about their own progress.
Parent-child communication skills:
1, take the initiative to ask children about their behaviors. No matter what the child does, parents should not use their own ideas to speculate on the child's thoughts, but should take the initiative to ask the child why he did it, let the child open his heart and tell his parents his thoughts, so that parents can really enter the child's heart.
2. Think from the child's perspective. Don't always treat children with the authority of parents, but always treat children with appreciation and always stand in the position of children. Only in this way can children respect and trust you.
3. Understand the changes in children's adolescence. Parents should not be anxious because of this change in their children, but should fully understand and support this change and give positive guidance.