The so-called living environment is the sum of all kinds of relationships on which people's social practice depends. Treating the living environment scientifically is mainly to promote self-physical and mental harmony, personal harmony with others, personal harmony with society, and harmony between man and nature.
Living environment is a very broad concept. It is very complicated and closely related to every member of society. As the main force of talents in the times, college students should not be ignored in dealing with the living environment, because it is related to the future of the nation and the status of the country.
College students not only have dreams and pursuits, but also have some conceit, worry, fear and confusion.
Facing the complicated social environment, college students should have a reasonable psychological orientation.
College students are a group with high IQ, which means they have a sense of superiority. When they are looking for jobs and choosing jobs, they can't find a good job. Some of them simply stay at home and become old people. When college students are full of confidence in themselves and look forward to the future, it is very important to evaluate and estimate themselves correctly. First of all, young college students are a capital. Secondly, they lack experience, your major and so on.
Reasonably adjust your employment orientation that is inconsistent with reality, such as comparing with others and saving face. In short, let your career choice goals be consistent with your psychological orientation, don't be an excessive idealist, but cultivate the ability to start from small things in a down-to-earth manner.
Starting from small things and moving towards the peak of success step by step, college students can overcome the common fault of aiming too high in the face of setbacks, make a correct self-evaluation, and have a correct grasp of their majors, work specialties, advantages and disadvantages.
2. Pay attention to harmony and treat the living environment scientifically, which are indispensable.
Promoting self-physical and mental harmony and psychological maturity will lay a good psychological foundation for college students to succeed, but in the process of maturity, it is inevitable to stumble and have psychological problems of one kind or another, and establish correct values; Master scientific methods to deal with psychological problems; Regulate emotions reasonably; Actively participate in collective activities, enhance interpersonal communication, and promote the harmony between individuals and others. The relationship between individuals and others is essentially a manifestation of social relations, especially social interests. To survive, human beings must first meet various needs. Any demand is based on certain production relations, and under certain objective conditions, the demand of certain objects must go through certain social relations. The key is to handle the interest relationship between individuals and others, promote the harmony between individuals and society, correctly understand the unified relationship between individuality and sociality, personal needs and social needs, personal interests and social interests, personal freedom and social responsibility, promote the harmony between man and nature, correctly understand the interdependence between man and nature, scientifically grasp the transformation activities between man and nature, and deeply understand the relationship between man and nature.
3. Good communication skills are very necessary, and good interpersonal relationships.
Success = (effort+opportunity) * interpersonal relationship. If you want to succeed, you must integrate into your own unit, group or work unit as soon as possible, do your own job well, and be accompanied by your role. Working in harmony with others and communicating perfectly is a basic ability, but quite a few college students have not mastered it in traditional learning, so you must study again.
If a person wants to be accepted by the collective, he must have a sense of collective honor, at the same time, he must respect others and accept collective values. He must never have personal heroism, let alone arrogance.
Some people say that college students eat professional meals before the age of 28, and they rely on their contacts to eat after the age of 28. This invisibly emphasizes the importance of interpersonal relationship, which is the need of a capable society, and everyone needs interpersonal communication in life. After all, people are social people and can never be divorced from society, nor can they be divorced from society.
When dealing with people, we should follow four principles: equality, honesty, tolerance and mutual assistance. Interpersonal communication is the communication and influence between different subjects. In other words, both parties have subjective and reasonable interests, which determines that you should be not only selfish but also altruistic in the group. Be sure to return. Follow the four principles to form an invisible personality charm.
4. College students' necessary practical ability
Action is above everything else. Today, some outstanding talents in China suddenly feel that their ability is not as good as that of a mechanic when they arrive at a foreign-funded enterprise. This shows that the current college students should lack practical ability and lose many opportunities and challenges. We want academic qualifications, but not just academic qualifications. We should pay more attention to our practical ability. With the development of society and the change of labor market, our concept of simply emphasizing education and diploma will change, and the concept of paying equal attention to education and skills [practical ability] will be accepted by society.
The idea of paying equal attention to education and skills will be a trend, and we must have good practical ability, that is, good practical ability.
5. Have a normal heart and mentality, and be good at dealing with setbacks.
Being brave in the face is a mentor, because setbacks and bumps are indispensable on the road of life. When a college student enters the society from school, there will be a lot of maladjustment, and the pressure and frustration of work will produce an unbalanced mentality. How to find a balance in his mind? You need to adjust yourself and face it bravely.
Treat people who are dissatisfied with you objectively, and don't complain, because complaining can't solve the problem. Only by facing up bravely and learning from setbacks can we gain wisdom. Only in the future can you make great progress.
6. Have a skill and give full play to your strengths.
People say that you should know everything, say everything, and resolutely oppose knowing everything and letting go of everything. This shows that a skill is necessary. If a person compares his own shortcomings with the advantages of others on the road of life, he will definitely feel inferior and inferior to others.
Give full play to your strengths, because managing your weaknesses will devalue your life. Give full play to your advantages, your inspiration and your creativity, and be a successful person.
7. Correctly handle competition and cooperation.
Correctly handle the relationship between competition and cooperation in society, so as to be both brave and good at competition. Facing the ever-changing competitive society, college students should enhance their sense of competition, master more scientific knowledge, improve their humanistic quality and improve their ability to participate in competition.
A correct understanding of competition can arouse people's enthusiasm, give play to people's potential, and benefit the society and the country. In today's increasingly globalized technology and economy, competition is crucial. Correct competition must be legal and moral competition.
Correctly understand cooperation,
Cooperation is a coordinated activity of some groups for common interests, and the strength of one person and one group is always limited. As the saying goes, "When people gather firewood, the flames are high." The real great strength lies in unity and cooperation, and unity has the strength to win. The content of modern science and technology is complex, interdisciplinary and precise, which requires college students to have a healthy mentality, good quality, unity and cooperation spirit and organization and coordination ability.
Correctly handle the relationship between competition and cooperation, which are accompanied and unified with each other. Formally speaking, competition and cooperation are opposites. Specifically, we should deal with the relationship between individuals and collectives, individuals and others, protagonists and supporting roles.
8. Establish a correct outlook on life and the world.
Facing the country, facing our party and country, we should have the belief that "I am a brick, and the party can move east, west, north and south"
"When choosing a career, the main criteria we should follow are human happiness and self-improvement. Only by working hard for the perfection of contemporaries can people achieve their own perfection. " Marx, a great capitalist mentor.
There are four different types: first, those who beautify others, gain fame, bring honor to their families and show off their neighbors; Second, those who fight for themselves and think about their bright future all the time. These people have not lost themselves, but they are too selfish to achieve great things; Third, people who live for others are full of dedication and sacrifice, which is praised by history.
9. Strengthen moral cultivation and enhance legal awareness.
Today's society is a society ruled by law, and all rules can't be Fiona Fang, but rules can't be separated from moral maintenance. With the globalization of science, technology and economy in today's society, good moral cultivation is essential in terms of legal awareness. Morality is a superstructure category, a special social ideology, which is maintained through social forms, traditional habits and people's inner beliefs, and is a psychological consciousness to evaluate people's behavior. The sum of principles, norms and behavioral activities. Laws are formulated and recognized by the state, enforced by the state, and the sum total of behavioral norms with universal binding force and strict procedures is the embodiment of the will of the ruling class.
Morality+law = orderly social environment, which requires the efforts of every member of society, strict demands on themselves, conscious compliance with laws and regulations, and maintenance of social morality, which will make our society more harmonious, our country more prosperous and strong, and make our nation rise again in the forest of nations in the world.
In a word, college students, as a new force of the times, are also outstanding young people of the times. Mao Zedong said, "You are the sun at eight or nine o'clock in the morning". Facing the complicated social environment, the above discussion is necessary, but it is far from enough for a college student to have these abilities. Promising college students should arm themselves and meet the challenges of the times at any time.
"A gentleman should strive for self-improvement." College students dare to face the society and challenge it.
2. Individuals and society depend on each other and restrict each other.
People have many attributes. To sum up, human attributes can be divided into two categories, natural attributes and social attributes. Social attribute is the most important and fundamental attribute of human beings. Human social life is an organic whole composed of activities from all walks of life, and any individual's activities will always have one kind or another influence on social development. Personal activities and social development are interrelated and mutually restricted. Personal activities play a dynamic role in social development. All normal individuals always have to undertake certain tasks in social life and engage in such conscious and purposeful activities in their posts, thus leaving their own marks in the process of social and historical development. Social development can only be achieved through the conscious efforts of all members of society. The history of the development of human society shows that: first, individuals and society are interdependent and inseparable. Society is composed of countless individuals. Man's survival is inseparable from society, and man's development needs various conditions provided by society. The existence and development of any society is the result of all individuals and their collective efforts. The sum of all individual activities constitutes the overall movement and development of society. Second, we should correctly understand and handle the relationship between individuals and society. Individual activity is not only a natural life process, but also a historical social practice process. In this historical process, everyone does not exist in isolation. All his activities are faced with the relationship between individual and society. Therefore, correctly understanding and dealing with the relationship between individuals and society is not only an important condition for individuals' normal activities, but also the basis and premise for making life choices.
Building a harmonious socialist society conforms to the basic principles of Marxism and the scientific assumption of Marxism on socialist society. Realizing social harmony and creating a bright future is always the social ideal pursued by human beings, as well as by Marxist political parties including the Communist Party of China (CPC). Building a harmonious socialist society is related to the fundamental interests of the overwhelming majority of the people and to consolidating the social foundation of the party's governance. Realizing the historical task of the party's governance is related to the process of building a well-off society in an all-round way, to the prosperity of the party's cause and to the long-term stability of the country. A harmonious socialist society is one characterized by democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature. To realize these characteristics of a harmonious society, we must deal with the relationship between people and society, promote the harmony between people and society, especially adhere to the values of collectivism and establish a correct world outlook.
Second, adhere to the values of collectivism
China is in a new period of building a well-off society in an all-round way and accelerating socialist modernization. We are carrying out reform and opening up under the background of economic globalization and political multipolarization. People's ideology is influenced by market economy and other factors, showing the characteristics of diversification. The dominant position is the collectivist values centered on serving the people. However, a few people have developed wrong values such as money worship, hedonism and extreme individualism. The former is the value advocated and pursued by our country at this stage, while the latter is the value that we must resolutely oppose. How to correctly understand the values existing in social life and make correct choices is an important theoretical and practical problem that must be solved in building a harmonious society. The essence of socialist economic and political relations requires us to establish and practice collectivism values, adhere to collectivism value orientation in behavior choice, and insist on collectivism values, requiring people to "have others in their hearts, collectives in their hearts, and countries in their hearts".
We should correctly handle the relationship between individuals and others. In social life, everyone always has one relationship or another with others. Only when people care about each other, support each other and seek common ground while reserving differences can a good situation of unity and harmony be formed. On the other hand, if people always think about problems and do things from their own interests, they are mutually exclusive and do not give in, which is not conducive to unity and will affect the normal development of work, let alone create anything. First, we should respect people. We should respect others. We should not be self-righteous, conceited and indifferent to their situation. We should be sympathetic and considerate, which is the basis of respecting people's thoughts and feelings. Without this ideological and emotional foundation, it is impossible to show respect for people in action. Respecting people includes respecting others' personality, labor, feelings, hobbies, interests, personality, religious beliefs and national habits. The contribution and division of labor are also different, but they are equal in personality. Everyone should respect each other and treat each other as equals. Second, be tolerant of others. In order to promote the harmony between man and society, we need everyone to be more tolerant. To be tolerant of others is to be broad-minded and tolerant of others. People who are tolerant can often correctly treat the contradictions and difficulties encountered in progress, turn contradictions into harmony and hostility into friendship, so that when we talk about tolerance, we don't mean unprincipled concessions and compromises, let alone at the expense of the interests of the party and the people. It is to seek common ground while reserving differences and live in harmony on the premise of consistent fundamental interests. Third, we should take the initiative to care for others, regard others' difficulties as our own, enthusiastically help laid-off workers, farmers and other people in urban and rural areas who have temporary difficulties in working and living, and effectively solve their problems.
We should adhere to collectivism and oppose individualism. The basic content of collectivism is to put national interests and collective interests first, and to unify individual interests with national interests and collective interests. However, some people unilaterally emphasize personal interests, advocate the supremacy of individualism, and even wrongly advocate "maintaining individualism" and replace collectivism with individualism. In real life, there are so many shameless and immoral people. Instead of using the power entrusted by the people to seek benefits for the people, we use the power in our hands as a means to seek personal gain and collect money, and practice favoritism and graft. This practice is very harmful and the people hate it. Therefore, to adhere to collectivism, we must resolutely oppose individualism.
We should take the overall situation into consideration and oppose small collectivism. Taking the overall situation into account is an important embodiment of collectivism, which means that the words and deeds of individuals and collectives should take the fundamental interests of the people as the starting point. Taking the overall situation into account is the premise and foundation of realizing our cause and an important guarantee for our cause to win continuously. It is small collectivism or departmentalism to care only about local interests and ignore the overall interests. Small collectivism is an extremely narrow individualism in essence, and its spread will distract people's attention. It will lead to social instability and hinder the smooth progress of socialist modernization. The fundamental way to overcome clique ism is to firmly establish and conscientiously implement Scientific Outlook on Development, use Scientific Outlook on Development to guide the overall economic and social development, and establish the idea of "playing a game of chess" throughout the country. While promoting the development of various regions and departments, we should pay more attention to the all-round, coordinated and sustainable development of society.
Third, establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values.
In building a harmonious socialist society, we must establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values in order to deal with the relationship between individuals and society.
World outlook is people's fundamental view of the whole world and the relationship between people and the world. Marxist world outlook inherently contains scientific understanding of man and life, which is a scientific theory about man's essence and value, life purpose and ideal, and about man's self-development, self-creation and self-realization. It is both a scientific world outlook and a scientific outlook on life. Historical materialism is an important part of Marxism. Starting from the basic viewpoint that man is the sum of all social relations, this paper correctly answers the basic question of life: the relationship between individual and society, and holds that the real value of life lies in its contribution to society. The value of a person's life can only be realized correctly through the relationship between the individual and society and others.
Personal contribution to society is the basic guarantee of social development and progress. Social development and progress are always based on the development of certain material wealth and spiritual wealth. In order to meet the needs of individual survival and development, society must first create these wealth. Therefore, every member of society is required to take due responsibility, work creatively and make more contributions. If everyone just wants to get something from society but doesn't contribute to it, this society can't exist and develop, and so can individuals.
Personal contribution to society is the basic symbol of life value. Why do people live? Where is the value of life? The value of life is the unity of two contradictory aspects, that is, the unity of individual's responsibility and contribution to society and society's respect for individual's contribution. Among them, individual's responsibility and contribution to society is the main aspect of contradiction, and society's respect or return to individuals is the secondary aspect of contradiction. The essence of things is defined by the main aspects of contradictions, and the value of life is mainly determined by the individual's contribution to society. Therefore, society's respect and satisfaction for individuals must be based on individuals' contributions to society. Although the value of life must take into account the respect and satisfaction of society for individuals, its main measure still depends on the actions of individuals and what individuals have done for society. Therefore, in order to realize the lofty value of life, the first thing an individual should do is to actively contribute to social development.
Individual's contribution to society is various. In all fields of social life, such as economy, politics, education, science and culture, everyone's contribution to society and people is the embodiment of life value. With the development of human society, thousands of individuals in Qian Qian have contributed to material civilization, political civilization and spiritual civilization, and promoted the progress of social history. To measure a person's life value, we should not only look at his contribution to society in material civilization, but also look at his contribution to society in spiritual civilization and ideological morality. As for which aspect of his contribution is greater and more outstanding, it varies from person to person. In the new historical period of reform, opening up and the development of socialist market economy, some people forget profits and righteousness, and money is supreme, falling into the quagmire of money worship, hedonism and extreme individualism values. Many people adhere to correct values. Zheng Peimin, Niu Yuru and Ren Changxia. It is an outstanding representative who adheres to the correct world outlook, outlook on life and values. From their extraordinary deeds, we can clearly see their spiritual strength and their shining life value. Their advanced deeds and noble sentiments have educated and inspired countless people to work hard and forge ahead in their posts, created more and greater material wealth and spiritual wealth, inherited the life value of advanced figures and promoted the construction of a harmonious society.