How to cultivate self-cultivation

Cultivation is the foundation of personal charm, from which all other attractive advantages come. The ancients said: "cultivate one's morality, keep one's family in order, govern the country and level the world." Putting "cultivation" in the first place shows that good personal cultivation is the premise of success. Self-cultivation refers to a certain level of theory, knowledge, art and thought. , usually refers to people through hard work, self-discipline and constantly cultivate sentiment and form the correct way and attitude towards people. Moral cultivation refers to a person's cultivation in moral concept, moral realm and moral behavior. The correct attitude towards others. We should consciously cultivate good political and ideological cultivation, professional quality cultivation, moral cultivation and habits through study, improvement and work tempering. A person's level in ideals, thoughts, moral quality, cultural knowledge and professional skills. Including a person's temperament, personality, behavior, appearance and demeanor, feelings for people and things, and the quality shown by the way people do things. Self-cultivation is the embodiment of a person's comprehensive quality, which is influenced by congenital factors such as heredity, but most of it is gradually formed with one's own mental growth and acquired education in social life. Because of this, people are tempered by education and training. Talk about peace and self-cultivation. Good knowledge and cultivation, after a long period of training and uninterrupted self-enrichment, can get natural results. A person's demeanor can be said to be a comprehensive embodiment of a person's temperament, connotation and expressiveness. A person's self-cultivation can't be learned overnight, and it needs constant efforts to improve himself. When it comes to personal cultivation, the beauty of figure is better than the beauty of face, and the beauty of temperament is the highest beauty, and this temperament of people is inseparable from one's cultivation. Therefore, the ancients paid special attention to self-cultivation and thought that self-cultivation was the basic point of all success. However, in a highly developed society, people with low self-cultivation abound. There are still many people who lack self-cultivation. Some people litter and even spit. Some people even swear and don't pay attention to language civilization. It is very important for a person to improve his self-cultivation if he wants to gain others' appreciation, respect and even attract others' attention. Some people talk, some people gesture, some people even smile or say hello, and some people even answer the phone, which gives people a very comfortable feeling and can stand out from ordinary people. What matters is personal cultivation. Handsome appearance, bright face, only from my mother. Elegant and polite behavior is acquired. Many times, the day after tomorrow can make up for the congenital deficiency. The way to improve one's self-cultivation lies in continuous learning, self-improvement and paying attention to internal quality. Personal accomplishment refers to a person's self-education and self-shaping in all aspects according to the requirements of a certain society or class, which is the only way to achieve self-improvement. The main contents of cultivation are: ideological and political cultivation, moral cultivation, cultural cultivation, aesthetic cultivation and psychological cultivation. Personal accomplishment includes knowledge, life and professional attitude. Rich knowledge is the basis of knowing books and rituals. A person's knowledge is very important, and learning to be a man is more important. Be honest, fair, adhere to the established principles, be honest, seek truth from facts, keep promises, break promises and keep secrets; Professional ethics should have an open mind, dare to innovate, be unconventional, have team spirit, adhere to principles, be superior to others, be power-oriented, love their jobs and be dedicated, take the initiative to undertake work and responsibilities, pursue efficiency and effectiveness, and pursue perfection. A person should have a sense of pride and dignity for his motherland, hatred for acts that destroy and endanger society, a sense of mission and responsibility for promoting social development and economic prosperity, a sense of honor for the collective and a sense of friendship for others. Broad-minded, manifested in the ability to accommodate people and things. In particular, people who can tolerate opposition, personality differences, ability differences and age differences can respect the personality, labor and labor achievements of others and have an open mind. Be able to have a careful plan for major events; Be able to observe small things like the palm of your hand; Be able to handle emergencies calmly and calmly; Be able to face up to difficulties, draw inferences from others, have tolerance and boldness of vision. At any time, especially when you are alone, you should be careful in what you say and do, and you should not lose your integrity. A person's ability to "speak in language" is the result of language accumulation and repeated exercise. A person's thoughts determine behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determine morality, and morality determines fate. Moral character determines the success or failure of a person's development. Honesty is the foundation of doing things. People with strong personality will naturally make more mistakes if they do more and talk more. One should know one's strengths and weaknesses. Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. Self-improvement and high morality. A perfect life requires not only a healthy body and mind, but also a healthy mind and skills to make a living. In the long river of life, we should take the road of "transforming ourselves and then changing our lives". A person's personality plays a decisive role in the success of his career, the happiness of family life and the good interpersonal relationship to a great extent. Self-cultivation, like internal strength, is internal, a comprehensive reflection of all aspects of a person and a long-term accumulation and precipitation of a person's life. Speech reflects a person's knowledge and cultural taste. The more knowledge accumulated, the richer the cultural connotation and the higher the taste of the language. To make words lively, interesting and infectious, we must read widely and improve our literary level. Strengthening literary accomplishment is not only conducive to improving one's cultural quality and appreciation level, but also conducive to improving language accomplishment; If a person only has a beautiful heart, but does not pay attention to the beauty of appearance, is untidy and disheveled, it is still not perfect. Appearance includes figure, appearance, clothing, expression, etc. Tall and burly is beautiful, and small and exquisite is also beautiful; Thick eyebrows and big eyes are beautiful, and fine eyes are equally beautiful; Wearing a straight suit looks solemn, and wearing loose casual clothes looks chic, each with its own advantages; The smile is natural and charming, but the face is dignified and still moving. Under normal circumstances, the expression should be natural, the eyes should be gentle, don't frown and stare easily, but always be kind and smile. Men should be sincere and make people feel credible; Ladies should be kind and make people feel kind. Who likes a cold face? A friendly and humble expression is always so attractive and touching. As the saying goes, "Clothes make the man, and gold makes the Buddha". Three points for appearance and seven points for dress. Dress should be as fit, appropriate and pleasant as possible. Don't follow the trend, and don't blindly imitate others. Wear your own personality and style, whether it is dignified, elegant, concise, elegant or amorous feelings. Wear clothes and hats, and get what you need. Don't be stereotyped in style, and don't be particular about materials. Just be clean and flat. If you don't pay attention to the neatness of clothes, clothes that are crooked and wrinkled will give people the impression of being sloppy and lazy. Beauty, elegance, appropriate action beauty is higher than her appearance beauty. Words come from the heart, actions come from the heart. Pay attention to your voice, appearance, speech and manners, so that our words, actions and actions will radiate beautiful luster. "Stand like a pine, sit like a bell, lie like a bow and walk like the wind" means standing, sitting and walking. When standing, you should hold your head up, chest up, abdomen in, eyes straight ahead, stand up straight, stretch your shoulders, naturally droop your arms, cross your hands in front of your abdomen, or put your right hand on your left hand. Don't stagger, hunch over, or lean back, don't shrug your shoulders or shoulder high and low. Don't put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your waist when standing and talking to others. When seated, the movements should be light, soft, steady and slow, and don't panic and exert yourself. After sitting down, sit up straight, keep your upper body straight, put your legs together, put your hands on your knees naturally, or put them on the armrest of a chair or sofa, and don't lean forward or lean back. Take it easy when you get up, and don't stand up suddenly. Walking posture can often show a person's physical condition, mental outlook and personality. When walking, hold your head high, keep your eyes straight, reach the standard in stride and posture, and pay attention to rhyme. Manner is a silent language, which reflects a person's personal accomplishment from one side. People who pursue perfection should dress neatly and in harmony with age, body shape, occupation, season and place; Elegant, humorous, accurate pronunciation and beautiful language; Polite, respect the old and love the young, neither humble nor humble, courteous and thoughtful. . Etiquette can not only effectively show a person's upbringing, manners and charm, but also reflect a person's cognitive level, personal knowledge, self-cultivation and social value. In a society where science, knowledge, information and modernization are developing rapidly, no matter how modern one has knowledge, he will encounter the problem of aging or obsolescence in a few years. Today's society is a changing society, and people, things and things around us will change all the time, so we should change with constancy. Only by increasing our knowledge and enriching our cultural background can we adapt to today's society. The main purpose of self-cultivation lies in: continuous learning and self-improvement. As long as I am willing to work hard, nothing can beat me. When you are at the bottom of failure, don't give up on yourself, but reflect on yourself. As long as you have a goal in mind and don't give up the pursuit, you will eventually taste the sweetness. If you don't understand anything in your life, ask others humbly. Three colleagues must have my teacher. You should study more, think more, always think about yourself, and if you have, change. When you make achievements, don't be complacent, throw cold water on yourself and always keep a positive attitude. There is no shortage of gold, no one is perfect, and the land that has not been set foot on is always the most attractive. Self-cultivation should pay attention to internal quality. We all know that "Kong Rong lets pears". Kindness, integrity, friendliness, modesty and courtesy, pay attention to your words and deeds, speak in a civilized manner, behave in a dignified manner, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. People with cultural atmosphere will naturally reveal a feeling of elegance and gentleness between their words and manners. When we say scholarly family, it is not that door that can reveal the scholarly atmosphere, but that people who come out of this door can feel that scholarly atmosphere at a glance, and the word literacy flashes between gestures. Of course, this also includes manners, manners, speech and so on. Culture is a magical thing. It is not tangible. You will never feel anything when you look at it, but it can change you unconsciously. Maybe you won't feel that change so deeply yourself, but others will feel and find your change, your change and your amazing place. Educated people are people you want to associate with. It will be a pleasure to associate with such people, whether it is talking about the past or just talking about trivial matters. In such contacts, you will find that time passes quickly; On the other hand, if you associate with an uncultured person, you will be on pins and needles. Time passes too slowly, and every minute is a kind of torture. I believe this is not just my feeling! When I was a child, I always thought that I was a very educated person who was grinning while eating. When you grow up, you will know whether you have personal accomplishment, basically not by appearance, but mainly by personal virtue. The external expression determined by internal moral quality. By my side, I often find that people with beautiful appearance are not necessarily noble people, but people with average appearance often have good personal cultivation. But people are very strange, and they often like to judge a person by his appearance. Generally speaking, people can't become intimate, so they can only make superficial judgments based on their appearance. Therefore, in this case, people's appearance is particularly important, so many hypocritical people use this advantage to disguise themselves as beautiful and capable.