For sexual reasons, the current family education is indifferent, and there is a tendency to turn family relations into scores and grades. Parents generally care about their children's grades, but they don't care about their physical and mental growth. In the education of parents to their children, the basic values are the same for both wealthy families and ordinary families, that is, they generally advocate "power" and "wealth", which invisibly transforms parents' power and family wealth into their children's social status. This "view of power" and "view of wealth" will have a far-reaching impact on children's growth.
From the point of view of personality, the "rich generation" and the "official generation" obviously don't want to be "richer than three generations" or "stronger than three generations". They want their children to become talents, but there are many problems in their family education.
First, parents spend less time with their children because of their careers and contacts, so they have the psychology of "compensation". They express their concern for children by meeting their material needs, thus repeatedly stimulating their material desires.
Secondly, parents do not restrain their words and deeds in front of their children. In order to show their "ability", they always show that money and power can solve everything and bring the rules of business and officialdom into the family.
Third, people around parents take care of their children in every possible way and do whatever they want. Even if his parents told him not to make public, the child felt that he was living in a "kingdom" where he could do whatever he wanted.