We often quarrel at home, okay?

It's not terrible for couples to quarrel. The terrible thing is to hurt each other. The quarrel between husband and wife is not a bad thing, but a moderate quarrel between husband and wife. Not only will it not affect the relationship between husband and wife. It will enhance feelings. In fact, sometimes quarreling is also a kind of communication. If you are embarrassed to say it at ordinary times, you will say it when you quarrel. At least the other person knows why you are angry. But this kind of quarrel can't be at the expense of abuse and insult. That will greatly hurt each other's feelings. People who generally can't twist chopsticks can tolerate small things. Bigger problems should also be discussed calmly. Don't impose your ideas on each other. Seek common ground while reserving differences. Allow everyone to keep their opinions. Rationally handle the contradictions and problems between two people and their families. There will be much less fighting.

How to deal with the relationship between husband and wife! How to avoid quarreling between husband and wife? First of all, reflect on yourself and think about why you are angry. If a calm exchange of views can solve the problem, why go to war?

Imagine for the other party When a quarrel is about to happen, you might as well put yourself in the other party's shoes. You should think about why the other person is unhappy. When the war is about to burn, you might as well stay away and wait for the other party to calm down, then find out the reason and exchange views to avoid quarreling. When there is an inevitable quarrel between husband and wife, don't expose each other's secrets, but tell the truth. Never prove yourself right by revealing each other's secrets, or use this to make them yield. Otherwise, it will intensify contradictions, deepen differences and hurt feelings.

-Don't quarrel and compare with others between husband and wife, and don't compare with other people's husbands or wives. In that way, it won't solve any problems, but it will hurt each other's self-esteem.

-Don't involve relatives. The quarrel between husband and wife is purely a family matter. Don't involve other relatives. This is not only useless, but also makes the other person's good feelings for your loved ones disappear completely.

-Don't let outsiders judge when a husband and wife quarrel, don't criticize each other's faults in front of outsiders, and don't let outsiders judge who is right or wrong. This will make the other party feel humiliated and expand the contradiction.

-Reconciliation as soon as possible After a quarrel between husband and wife, reconciliation should be made as soon as possible. After a quarrel, whoever makes sense should take the initiative to apologize to the other party.