Tolerance is the supreme virtue in people's lives. It is not surprising that everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. In reality, everyone will have disappointments or failures, and what should you do when you face these difficulties and try to overcome them? Tolerance is a vast sea, which contains everything and can also resolve everything. Therefore, life needs tolerance, and she is a silent education.
To be tolerant of yourself is to work and live calmly. Only tolerant people's beliefs are more real. This mood should be enriched in his good works. Therefore, the greatness of tolerance lies in his heart, and true tolerance is always sincere and natural. Tolerance is a wise way to deal with the world. Suffering is a blessing, ignoring misunderstandings is a broad-minded and sincere attitude. It makes us realize that we are understood by others and others deserve our tolerance.
It is not weakness to tolerate others everywhere, but the art of treating others. Being kind to others is being kind to yourself. If you can't get along with others, you can't get along with yourself. Only by looking at life with a tolerant heart and understanding others, can you get a relaxed and comfortable life, live in joy and friendship, have less regrets and depression in your heart, and build a strong me in your heart. As long as you are truly tolerant, you will learn from the strengths of others and make up for your own shortcomings, and you will get a blue sky and smile at life.
As the saying goes, no one is perfect. You should know that people are not a one-way street. In this world, although people are walking their own way of life, they will inevitably collide with each other. In life, we will inevitably have frictions and contradictions with people. In fact, these are not terrible. The terrible thing is that we often don't want to resolve them, but let them escalate and make things out of control. This requires us to learn tolerance and understanding. Sincerely write a smile on your face and say sorry more. In fact, this is a kind of beauty. When we treat each other with a sincere and pure heart, the other party will certainly not be insensitive, so as to build a bridge of communication between heart and heart. Since then, we have also been treated leniently and achieved happiness.
Tolerance is a kind of beauty. When you do this, you are the embodiment of beauty. Whether a person can treat everything around him with an inclusive attitude is the embodiment of a person's quality and cultivation. Most people want to get the tolerance and understanding of others, but they can't do this because they always regard other people's shortcomings and mistakes as annoyance and resentment. As the saying goes, "the widest ocean in the world, the sky wider than the ocean, and the human mind wider than the sky."
The sky contains clouds, so it is attractive; Life is tolerant and regrettable, and we have a future. All this makes us happy, harmonious and successful, which is a colorful portrayal of a person's life.
Learn to be tolerant
Zhou Yihui, Class 6, Grade 2.
If there are no great people and noble people around you, don't give up the opportunity to learn from life, because at least there are many ordinary people and things around you. He will teach you a lot about being a man. In my memory, there are several fragments that I still remember.
On the day when the fifth grade of my primary school started, a new classmate came to the classroom. Her name is Jiang Tingting. She is a child of migrant workers who just transferred to our school from other places. I looked her up and down carefully. She is tall and thin, with dark skin and neatly tied ponytail behind her head. She has a standard oval face, slender eyes, a flat nose and a pair of small cherry mouths. Look at her skirt again. A short blouse. This dress has exposed her identity. The child of a migrant worker. I am thinking in my heart, how can our primary school let the children of migrant workers enter school? An inexplicable sense of rejection and disgust arises spontaneously. I really hate what happens next. The teacher arranged for her to sit next to me and ruthlessly transferred my former intimate deskmate to the back. In my opinion, this change is caused by that Jiang Tingting. My antipathy to this migrant worker's child has increased again. I suppressed my anger and watched helplessly as she sat beside me with her schoolbag on her back. In the days to come, I seldom talked to him and ignored him, but she often approached me on her own initiative. Sometimes when my correction tape is used up, she will silently put it in my hand. Whenever she helps me like this, I will be regarded as careful. Kiss up. Later, I gradually found that the children of migrant workers have good math scores, good logical thinking and worse Chinese. They often get the first place in exams and even become representatives of Chinese classes, which directly affects my status. You know, I used to be the best in Chinese in my class, but now I have been replaced by her, and my self-esteem has been seriously frustrated. Soon, at the school sports meeting, she won the prize for taking part in the 60-meter dash. Jiang Tingting became popular after several rounds of shooting, but my heart became increasingly depressed and dissatisfied. I thought a Shanghainese was worse than a foreigner, so my attitude towards her was even colder. I ignored her from my initial love to now, but she remained the same.
I changed her until that happened. This incident moved me and made me feel ashamed.
There are two keys in the class, one in the hand of the class teacher and the other in my hand. I am responsible for locking and opening the door. That day, I went to physical education class and returned to the classroom door. I rummaged through my pockets, but when I couldn't find my keys, my classmates crowded at the door, some clamoring for water, some impatiently kicking the classroom door, and some began to scold me. The head teacher happened to be in a meeting. There are no other keys. At this time, Jiang Tingting has rushed to the playground. I immediately chased her out and found her carefully along the playground, fumbling for the key. I can't help feeling grateful to see her so earnest. Finally, many good things happen. She found the key with a faint smile on her face. Gasping slightly, she handed me the key. I watched her sweat, and two lines of tears rolled down her cheeks. I am ashamed to face her. What really touches people's hearts is the generosity, tolerance and kindness shown by people's actions. How many people came with sincere help, and how many bright and pure hearts were burned by my narrow and extreme eyes.
I didn't like her dress and identity at first, but now I understand how stingy and vulgar my material care is, and how noble her character and quality are. As Mr. Lu Xun said, "I want to squeeze out the little things under the fur robe."
I admire Jiang Tingting's generosity and tolerance. I walked into her life again and got to know her heart. One day in the summer vacation, my grandfather and I went to the market to buy food. Suddenly I saw her selling vegetables in a stall. She smiled at the customer. While reporting the prices of various vegetables, she skillfully weighed and collected money quickly. When she saw me, she greeted me warmly. Later I learned that her father worked at the construction site and her mother sold vegetables at the market. Therefore, every holiday, she comes to help, but also to send meals to several lonely old people and disabled people. Those grandmothers and aunts praised her, and the children worked hard. She always said that she was very happy to study in Shanghai and was very grateful to the Shanghainese, so she wanted to do something for them. I finally understand that it is because of her hard life that she is filial to her parents and loves society, and it is also because her heart is full of love. Tolerance is not only a necessary virtue of a person, but also a necessary virtue of a society. Tolerance should be reflected everywhere in life, so that people can unite their hearts and society can progress harmoniously. I think learning to be tolerant is the truth of being a man, and it is also one of the principles on which people's speech and behavior are based in life.
Learn to be tolerant, and the child's road will be wider and wider.
Due to family difficulties, Lincoln had to stop studying and become a lumberjack when he was 12 years old. Every time, he wrote an "A" on the wood he cut down. But one day, he found that the wood he cut down was written with an "H", which was obviously that someone had stolen his labor. Lincoln was very angry. When he got home, he said to his stepmother, "It must have been that Henderson. I went to their house to talk to him. " My stepmother looked at Lincoln and said, "Don't worry, son. Let me tell you a story. " "Once upon a time, in a big forest, there was a man named Bambu. He hunts for a living and often sets animal traps in dense forests. Because the place where he installed them was a route frequented by wild animals, he gained something almost every day. One day, he went to collect them again and found them. This animal has been taken away by others. Bumble was very angry, so he drew an angry face on the paper and put it on the condom. The next day, he went to collect condoms and found a big leaf on them. There is a house in the circle, and there is a barking dog next to the house. Bambu doesn't know what this means. He thought: Why do people paint when they take pictures of my animals? He thinks it is necessary. So he drew a midday sun, and two people stood beside the trap. At noon on the third day, he came here again and saw an Indian waiting for him. They don't understand each other's language, so they can only talk with gestures. The Indian told Bambu that this is our territory and you can't set traps here. Bambu also made a gesture. This is my trap. You can't take my fruit. Both of them have strange expressions and look at each other happily. Bumbu thought that one more friend was better than one more enemy, so he generously gave the Indian the trap. Then one day, Bambu was chased by wolves while hunting and was forced to jump off a cliff. When he woke up, he found himself lying in an Indian tent. The wound is still covered with medicine given to him by the Indians. Since then, he has become a good friend of the Indians, living with them and hunting together. " After the stepmother finished the story, she smiled and said to Lincoln, "Do you think Bambu did the right thing?" "He did a good job, so he had fewer enemies and more friends." "Yes, son, you should learn to tolerate others, so that you can make your own. It is difficult to succeed. " "I see, mom." Lincoln nodded wisely. Lincoln remembered his mother's teaching. The virtue of tolerance paved the way for his later life, and he finally ran for the presidency of the United States.
Tolerance is a kind of love.
In a fiercely competitive society and a mercenary commercial times, tolerance and loyalty, like each other, have become useless aliases, giving way to the needlepoint's haggling over every ounce of wheat and mango. However, I still want to say that tolerance is a kind of love.
18th century French scientists Proust and Bessel are a pair of rivals. They argued about the law of "fixed ratio" for nine years, each holding its own word, and no one would let anyone. The final result ended in Proust's victory, and Proust became the inventor of the scientific law of "fixed ratio". However, he was not carried away by it and took it for himself. He sincerely said to his opponent, Bei Souris, who had strongly opposed him.
This is tolerance. Allow others to object, regardless of their attitudes, but fully look at their strengths and absorb their nutrition. This tolerance is a warm and transparent lake, so that everything is reflected on the lake, and the sky is gloomy and exposed to the water. This tolerance is touching.
Our life is becoming more and more complicated. The sky above us is not the brilliant golden yellow painted by Van Gogh, and the ground under our feet is not as flat as Tiananmen Square. Worry, sadness, and even things that can make us angry and unbearable may come one after another every day-just frowning, but it reaches my heart, but since the water is still flowing, although we use swords to cut it. When I say tolerance, I don't mean letting you give in without principle. The premise of tolerance is to those who can tolerate. The core of tolerance is love. Tolerance is not to deal with it, but to tolerate it, to resolve it heart-to-heart, and to moisten this increasingly sophisticated, materialized and snobbish rough world. Not nervous, not haggle over every ounce, not infighting, not intrigue. Even if it is difficult for us to become a deep lake like Proust for a while, we can at least do so.
Tolerance is a kind of love. Believe, haggle over every ounce, calculate, narrow-minded, heartless ... you may take advantage of it for a moment, or try to succeed, or your career will prosper, or occupy a good spring day ... but don't lose confidence in the power of tolerance. Love paid with tolerance will be rewarded one day in the future, perhaps from.
Tolerance is our own healthy electrocardiogram and a passport to the beauty of the world!
Tolerance is a blue ocean,
Na Baichuan, clear and white;
Tolerance is a vast sky,
Embrace the world, don't remember hatred and resentment;
Tolerance is brilliant sunshine,
Send you showers and winds;
Tolerance is the continuation of life,
The glory of life is only a moment;
Tolerance and generosity can transcend the limited self,
Tolerance,
The rain and dew are colorful,
A lifetime of tolerance,
The heart belongs to Gan Kun.
Learn to be tolerant
Shuttling through the vast sea of people, facing a small mistake, often a faint smile and a gentle apology bring tolerance and understanding, which is tolerance; In a person's life, it is often because of a trivial matter and a casual remark that he is not understood and trusted, but don't expect anyone to forgive others with the rhythm of others. This is also tolerance. The so-called "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" also means this.
Learning tolerance means you doubt again and again.
/kloc-victor hugo, the master of French literature in the 0/9th century, once said: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." Although Hugo's words are romantic, they are also instructive.
According to legend, one night, an old monk was walking in a temple when he suddenly saw a chair. When he saw it, he knew that a monk had gone out for a walk, which violated the temple rules. The old monk kept quiet and moved the chair. Later, a young monk did go out. When his foot landed, he realized that he had just stepped on the old monk instead of the chair, and the young monk suddenly panicked and was tongue-tied. But to the little monk's surprise, the master didn't.
In daily life, when an "opponent" who has no fate speaks ill of you behind your back out of inner ugliness, do you want to wait for revenge, or do you want to forgive your close friend for doing something that makes you sad unintentionally or intentionally? At this time, we should break up from now on, think calmly or be tolerant. This is good for both people and themselves.
Some people say that tolerance is a symbol of weakness, but it is not. Tolerance suspected of weakness is not real tolerance at all. Tolerance is a rare good situation in life-a realm that needs practice and practice. It causes a series of adverse physiological and chemical changes in the body, leading to increased blood pressure, accelerated heartbeat, decreased secretion of digestive juice and gastrointestinal dysfunction. And may be accompanied by dizziness, insomnia, dreaminess and other symptoms. Neuropsychological stimulation will affect endocrine function. Conversely, the changes of endocrine bacteria will increase people's tension, form a vicious circle and endanger physical and mental health. Some people who are too radical even lose their minds, causing great disasters, causing serious consequences and endangering their physical and mental health. Some people who are too radical will even go through a process of changing categories and purifying, which will make a new turn in interpersonal relationships and many troubles and troubles can be avoided or eliminated.
Tolerance means that you won't punish yourself for other people's mistakes.
Anger and sadness are the shadows of narrow-minded people. The root of anger is nothing more than the violation and harm of people or things who show differences. In short, they think others have done something wrong, so they are furious and evil comes out of their guts. Gnash one's teeth, anger from the heart. All these physiological reactions are nothing more than punishing yourself, but for the mistakes of others! Obviously not worth it.
Treat your enemies, enemies and opponents with tolerance, focus on the overall situation on unprincipled issues, and you will get the joy of taking a step back and making peace. The joy of mutual understanding between people, you must know that you are not wandering alone. In this world, we each walk on our own road of life and prevention, and it is inevitable that there will be collisions. Therefore, no matter how kind a person is, it will inevitably hurt others' hearts. If the wrongs are avenged, it can not only heal the wounds in the heart, but also bind the injured people in endless quarrels.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang was a rookie. Liu Bei called him "like a duck to water", but Zhang Guan didn't do it. Cao Bing suddenly attacked, and the two brothers sneered at Zhuge Liang, who took care of the overall situation and still valued them. As a result, Xinye won a great victory in the First World War. If Guan Guan and Zhang Brothers admire him. Tolerance is a kind of realm, which can make people leap to the aboveboard realm. Only tolerance can heal unpleasant wounds, and only tolerance can eliminate artificial tension.
Tolerance means you won't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss.
Tolerance first includes tolerance for yourself. Only those who tolerate themselves can tolerate others. Half of people's troubles come from themselves, that is, they are bound by themselves The TV series Growing Pains is all about troubles, but their tolerance for their only daughter and neighbors finally turned them into jokes.
All sentient beings have their own advantages and disadvantages. Being competitive will push a certain limit, and they are often tired of things outside their bodies, which will promote the pleasure of being a human being. Only by admitting that you are not good at some aspects can you foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and the light in your heart can be swallowed up by the fire of jealousy.
To be tolerant of yourself is to work and live calmly. This mentality is to enrich your good state. It is important to enrich yourself. Only those who are prepared can leave no regrets when the opportunity comes. Knowing men and keeping women is a good way to endure loneliness. Vigorous is certainly a portrayal of progress, but those who can achieve great things are by no means people who are keen on Muslim fame and fortune.
As the saying goes, "the prime minister can punt in his stomach." The ancients were kind to others, and the indoctrination of self-cultivation warned the world: if a person has measurement, his personality will be open-minded; If you dwell on trivial disputes, you will not only be elegant, but also be unhappy and indecisive all day long. However, you are always calm and tolerant of the world, and you can handle opportunities everywhere with ease, harmony and integrity.
Wei Zhi, an admonition official in the Tang Dynasty, was always easy-going, so he could seize every opportunity to respond to Longlin repeatedly. However, Emperor Taizong was tolerant and generous, and regarded Wei Zhi as his own gain and loss, which eventually created a peaceful and prosperous time known as "the rule of Zhenguan" in history.
If a word is dirty, it will be beaten; If something is abrupt, it will plant a curse, leaving a bad impression will lead to bad luck in life. If you are not tolerant, you will be called "the mind of a hen" by ordinary people. True tolerance should be to tolerate people's strengths, surpass talents, and be willing to be the ladder of others. This spirit will be praised by the world.
The process of tolerance is also a "complementary" process. If others have this problem, if we can face it squarely and give criticism and help in an appropriate way, we can avoid a big mistake. If they are at fault, they need not be discouraged and depressed. They should also tolerate and accept themselves, and strive to learn from them, draw on the strengths of others, make up for their own shortcomings, and once again raise the sail beyond work and life.
Tolerance means that you have a good psychological shell.
Tolerance can be a "spiritual tonic" for people who have no input and themselves. Learning tolerance is not only beneficial to physical and mental health, but also a necessary condition for winning friendship, maintaining family harmony, happy marriage and even successful career. Therefore, in daily life, no matter for children, spouses, the elderly, students, leaders, colleagues, customers, patients ... it often reflects a person's life experience, the art of dealing with people and good cultivation. To learn tolerance, we need to absorb all kinds of "nutrients" and always focus on improving our psychological structure and quality. Otherwise, a poor child who lacks the sunshine of modern civilization will be sneered at and dismissed by people.
Of course, tolerance is by no means unprincipled generosity, but a moderate generosity based on self-confidence, helping others and benefiting society. It must follow the legal system and moral norms. For the vast majority of people who can be educated well, it is advisable to combine forgiveness with restraint. However, we can't be soft on those who are rude and unreasonable and refuse to reform. In this sense, we should adopt the attitude of "principle for major events and style for minor events". We should be decent and indifferent, and learn to be tolerant.