As Balzac, a psychologist, said, "The happiness of marriage is not entirely based on prominent status and property, but on mutual respect. The essence of this happiness is humility and simplicity. "
How to promote a good marriage? First of all, we must grasp one thing-love is exclusive, and no one or anything is allowed to get involved.
Therefore, the cleaner couples get along with each other, the more comfortable they are.
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The room is clean and less sick.
No matter who you walk into, one of the impressions you get is whether it is clean or not. No matter how expensive the lamp is, as long as there is thick dust on it, it is cheap.
There are many stains on the sofa with tens of thousands of dollars. If you sit down, your pants may be polluted. If you touch them with your hands, you will get greasy things. So, you can only sit, and even sitting is fidgeting.
What's more frightening is that you will smell a strange smell and seem to drive you away and leave as soon as possible.
Unclean food directly leads to gastrointestinal discomfort and affects appetite.
A good family must be clean, even if it is very shabby furniture, it will give off a faint smell of soap, and the small room is very bright.
A good family atmosphere will make family members healthier and feel the power to go home quickly.
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Clean mouth, few contradictions.
I read a joke: a couple had a contradiction and had a fierce quarrel.
The wife suggested, "I have two plans to end this quarrel." First, we all admit that I am right. "
The husband asked, what about the second one?
The wife said, "We all admit that you are wrong."
Smart couples don't argue about right and wrong. No matter who is wrong, it doesn't matter, and who is right, don't be complacent.
Mouth is used for talking, kissing, eating and drinking, and making expression packs.
Quarrel, not as good as. Every time, you can do this, there will be no contradiction between husband and wife, and all the words will become warm.
If you don't argue, argue, nag, complain, and keep your mouth shut, the contradiction will be reduced by 60% or more.
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Clean relationship, less doubt.
Ji Xianlin is known as a master of Chinese studies, an academic leader and a national treasure.
In the face of praise, he said flatly, "I'm just an ordinary person."
It is true that no matter how good a person gets along with each other, he will eventually be rewarded. He is just a parent and a lover.
/kloc-Ji Xianlin, 0/8 years old, accepted the matchmaker's words and parents' orders and married Peng Dehua. Since then, he has been kind to his lover wholeheartedly, although they have different levels, it is difficult to communicate and they don't care.
While studying in Germany in Ji Xianlin, he fell in love with a local girl, irmgard, but he ended it rationally. It was not until his dying years that a director dug deep into Ji Xianlin's love story that he learned that the German woman who had never been married was waiting for Ji Xianlin's return.
In any case, holding your hand and growing old with your son is the purest relationship.
Love that rocks the boat looks particularly romantic, but it actually hides a lot of invisible dirt. The rift in marriage always expands rapidly when superfluous love appears.
Also, complicated interpersonal relationships can put marriage in danger.
Smart people tend to clean up relationships and kick away redundant people and feelings.
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Hands and feet clean, don't worry.
In Zhengzhou, Henan Province, there is a 96-year-old grandmother who has been a street vendor for 30 years. She said: "it is not difficult to get money from the right path; Money comes in the wrong way, no matter how easy it is. "
Many couples, in order to get rich, are opportunistic and even do unnatural things.
For example, by cheating relatives and friends of money, enrich themselves; Make quick money by stealing chickens and dogs. If you have money at home, disaster will come, everything you have will go up in smoke, and you will even be heavily in debt.
"You don't do anything wrong during the day, and you're not afraid to knock at night." We can imagine what it's like for a couple to have trouble sleeping at night. Perhaps, soon, the good days will come to an end.
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Clean heart, less disaster.
Some people say, "thinking is a person's greater internal friction."
My heart hurts, but I can't find an exit. It's like a pile of things that are not dry and wet. They are lit inside, but they can only smoke, and there will be no open flames.
The smoke is getting bigger and bigger, which makes people around you cough, can't cook, can't boil water, and can't even emit warmth.
If husband and wife get along with each other, if their ideological motives are not pure, they will certainly not be comfortable. Perhaps, love has become an emotional card, and once the goal is achieved, it will go their separate ways.
For example, a poor boy fell in love with the daughter of a rich family. He tried to get married and then went through a lot of troubles in divorce. On the day of divorce, he was very happy because he got a large fortune.
Clean up redundant thoughts and simply love each other, so that the older you get, the more inseparable you will be.
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Concluding remarks. Yue Ming in the Ming Dynasty wrote: "In this dirty world, people who can spend their lives cleanly are admirable."
The more complicated and changeable, the more precious pure love is.
As a man, you may not be romantic or earn a lot of money, but you should have a sense of responsibility and be able to lead the future of your family. When he has a successful career, he can still hold the hand of his bad wife and go straight ahead.
As a woman, I don't ask for too much money, and I don't want a house, but I must be careful, diligent and filial to my parents, and I won't leave no matter how depressed my husband is.
Life is a long road. It is not easy to meet someone and walk into the marriage hall with you. Don't let dirt become an invisible high wall, blocking the space for holding hands.
Couples who get along well have a sign of loyalty.
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The above are the ten principles related to the relationship between husband and wife, which are about the sharing of marriage. After reading the marriage, it depends on the efforts of two people. I hope this will help everyone!