In the process of children's growth and development, parents should not only pay attention to their physical development, but also pay attention to their psychological education. In the process of children's growth, parents must pay attention to observation and correct abnormalities in time. In recent years, many educators and mental health experts at home and abroad have studied together and think that children with general mental health have the following five important standards in life, study, work and getting along with others.
1. The mood is basically happy and stable.
Don't get angry often, don't break toys and other items for no reason, have normal daily life, fall asleep on time, sleep stably, and have no habit of sucking fingers or biting things to sleep: basically can listen to the reasonable instructions of adults, don't be picky about food, don't be picky about food, and don't often make trouble without reason.
2. Strong thirst for knowledge
I like asking questions and actively seeking answers. When studying or completing any task within one's power, he is focused, has a normal memory, loves to talk, has language expression ability consistent with his age, and has no stuttering; In life, I am willing to do what I can, but I don't rely too much on others' help, so I can seriously accomplish what others entrust me with.
get on well with others
Love to associate with small companions, have compassion and friendly behavior towards people, don't casually hit people and swear, and don't envy companions; I can live happily in the collective, and under the guidance of adults, I am willing to do good for the collective.
4. Be honest without lying
Say less unrealistic words; Don't take other people's things or damage other people's things without permission; Don't hide your mistakes, but admit them.
5. Have self-esteem and some self-confidence.
I take praise as my pleasure, and I am ashamed of criticism and accusation. I hope to do something popular instead of being scolded; Not too timid, timid, etc.