1. Family relationship. Children who grow up in a harmonious and friendly family are very different from those who grow up in a violent family. The most typical point is that children who grow up in a relaxed environment are friendly and peaceful. Children who grow up in violent families tend to be extreme to people and things, resulting in inferiority complex.
2. the dedication of maternal love. Mothers are the main caregivers, and children before the age of three will feel extremely insecure if they don't get enough maternal love. Without a mother since childhood, because of the lack of maternal love, my personality will be sensitive, paranoid and withdrawn, eager to be loved but not knowing how to love.
So how can parents protect their children's mental health? Here are some points:
1. Establish a sense of security for children. When the original rhythm of life is disrupted by epidemic prevention measures, parents should fully explain and communicate with their children, so that children can know the significance of prevention and control measures and follow-up arrangements.
2. Be good at observing and accepting children's emotions. Children's irritability is a normal stress response. In the face of children's bad emotions, "acceptance and understanding" is the best way for parents to care for their children. Parents can guide their children to express their emotions by drawing pictures and writing diaries.
3. Create a comfortable living environment. Parents can work out a timetable with their children to arrange the life, rest, rehabilitation training and entertainment of the whole family, so as to make the rehabilitation life at home more healthy and orderly.
4. Arrange rich home games. When children's outdoor activities are reduced or cancelled, parents can arrange rich indoor activities for their children to help them adjust their pace of life, such as singing, playing chess, drawing and playing games with their children.