I remember an interesting joke that said: Contemporary college students are excellent if they have virtue, dangerous if they have talent without virtue, defective if they have virtue without virtue, and useless without virtue! Admittedly, the school only gave us knowledge and skills, but it didn't give us how to be a person and how to be a virtuous person. It's like we are apples, and the school polishes and waxes them repeatedly for us to make them look bright and colorful and mouth-watering. Apples with uneven red appearance can't be guaranteed, but the inside has rotted and festered, or a fat bug has grown in the core. I think everyone treats rotten apples the same-throw them away, even if they are red, even if they have an appetite. So what are the psychological problems of college students? What are the specific performances? What are the hazards and solutions? Everybody, listen to me slowly ~ ~
The first common problem is irritability and weariness of learning. The concrete manifestation is skipping classes, being not enthusiastic about anything, doing nothing all day, but constantly complaining: "It's so boring ... it's so boring ... I don't want to go to class ...". There are many reasons for this phenomenon, such as: I failed in the exam and went to a university I didn't like, so I was tired of learning and the world. For example, I don't like my major and I don't like taking professional courses. However, I think the most common thing is "pure irritability", that is, being agitated because you want to be agitated. It is a kind of nihility, pure and unprovoked irritability. In the vernacular, it means "Left". I think this is a kind of emotion peculiar to post-80s and post-90s. We are tired of learning, we are tired of the world, we hate everything, and we are always in a mess, which makes our hearts restless. This is the general mood of a new generation of college students. Some people just have intermittent attacks, while others have them all the year round. I think this disease is incurable, because its inducement is unprovoked and the pathogenic factors do not exist. It's like you want to blow up the foundation of a building, but it's a castle in the air-there is no foundation, and you don't know how to put the bomb on it unless you drop it. I think this "dropped bomb" may be time, and it may be a manifestation of adolescent agitation. It will be fine when it matures. But this psychological side effect is far-reaching and lasting, and its destructive power and lethality are extremely strong. It destroys students' self-motivation, blurs their goals and makes them lose their sense of direction, thus making them learn nothing in college and lead a mediocre life. After graduation, they suddenly found that they had accomplished nothing, and the employer didn't want them, and maybe they couldn't even find the object.
The second psychological problem is to keep up with the trend, like famous brands and luxury goods, which must be something that others have. As the saying goes: the meat in other people's bowls smells good, foreign monks can recite scriptures, and other people's daughter-in-law is beautiful! Although this is only a joke, it fully exposes the psychological problems of most people. The values of college students may not be perfect, so there is a simple method-what most people insist on is right! What most people have, I should have! Uncle Lu Xun once said: "There is no road in the world, so many people will become roads". This sentence may not be appropriate here, but what I want to say is the common phenomenon of following the trend in universities: Dear, come and buy a children's hat? You see, many people wear them, and they are so popular ~ ~ Honey, do you want to buy an iphone? This year is the most popular, and many people buy it ~ ~ However, some college students, regardless of their own aesthetic point of view, regardless of whether they need it or not, regardless of a few cents in their pockets, decisively buy it first! Anyway, many people buy it, and I won't suffer, which is wrong. College students should have their own independent judgment, which should and which should not be.
Of course, there are still a few people addicted to the internet, especially boys. They go out at night, they fight to death, they lead a drunken life, they spend money like water ... have you stopped eating and sleeping, washed your face and brushed your teeth for the upgrade of the game? Have you ever spent a lot of money on equipment for your game? Didn't you give up every minute of the game for surfing the internet? If you have all the above symptoms, congratulations, you have successfully developed Internet addiction, you can't extricate yourself in the virtual world, and you have invested more and more money. Upgrade! Upgrade! ! Upgrade! ! ! This kind of problem is similar to that of drug addicts, which needs to be overcome by self-control and willpower, and even compulsory means, and the cure period is long.
Some people say that college is the holy land of love, but the opposite direction is also the gathering place of lovelorn. Some college students can't bear the grief of lovelorn, and can't adjust their emotions well, which leads to unintentional things and even life can't take care of themselves. But a small number of people live in the shadow of their own sadness. They don't want to get rid of it, but they don't want to get rid of it They feel sorry for each other all day. In fact, the impact of lovelorn love is far from so deep. This is also a typical performance of "doing" after 80 s and 90 s.
It is common to invite people to dinner in universities, but some people invite people back and forth to save face. "When you treat me, please pay for your bag and eat until your stomach cramps." This is actually another manifestation of vanity. In addition, there are common psychological problems, such as squeezing juice for the elderly, rebellion, disharmony in family relations, and thinking that parents are born to owe him money and contribute to him. Such a child should really let him experience life, cut off the source of life, experience the hardships of his parents, and make money is not easy.
In fact, there are many psychological problems among college students, and the outstanding problems are also typical. This requires the correct guidance of social forces and the unremitting efforts of college students themselves. What I wrote may only be the tip of the iceberg, and we need to dig and destroy the huge underwater ice together. I am willing to work with Jun * * *, and I am willing to use this document!