How to cultivate children's wisdom? Children are the continuation of the family, the future of the motherland and the hope of the nation. Therefore, what kind of person to train children into is the first important issue that every parent faces. See how to cultivate children's wisdom
How to cultivate children's wisdom? 1 Children's wisdom is given by God, which is everyone's idea. But in real life, children's wisdom depends on living environment and genetic factors. It is generally recognized that genetic factors account for the majority, while environmental factors only account for 40%.
Since ancient times, Qian Qian, a family with high IQ, has never stopped. Just like the well-known Bach musicians, as well as the families of Weber and Mozart, there are many musicians in the following fields. In addition, Zuhao, a famous scientist and mechanical inventor of Zu Chongzhi Zi Zuhuan in the Southern and Northern Dynasties, is also a grandson. They are also famous astronomers and mathematicians. The emergence of such a superior person in such a family for several generations just shows the role of innate and acquired factors in talent and talent.
Mom and dad will inherit a child, and it is very promising to pass on many talents to future generations. In this way, future generations will inherit the talents of their parents. Outstanding in some ways. Therefore, under the influence of the surrounding environment, if parents' talents are properly developed, it is likely to bring unexpected development to children's wisdom.
Secondly, the environment also has a great influence on children's wisdom. The acquired influence has a great influence on children's wisdom. Early education is always advocated by our parents. From pregnancy, the first peak of brain cell development is at 10 ~ 18 weeks, and the second peak is at 3 ~ 6 months after the baby is born. If you want your child to develop well mentally, you should first pay attention to the absorption of nutrients during pregnancy. The second is when you are breastfeeding after birth. These are of great help to children's intellectual development.
Seven points depend on hard work, and three points are doomed. This eternal famous saying. Others have studied many children with IQ above 140 for a long time. They found that these children have always maintained excellent talents when they grow up. The IQ of these children is mostly around 128, far exceeding the wisdom of ordinary children. There are also people who are born with mental retardation, and their children are also mentally retarded or unresponsive. IQ and EQ are not hereditary.
Emotional intelligence is a person's personality, temper, ability to do things, communication skills and so on. Children will be like their father in some ways and their mother in others. These are not necessarily.
It is best to cultivate children's wisdom from an early age. It was also indispensable from the beginning. Elders should teach children how to observe the good and bad things, and when they have different findings, opinions and ideas from others, teach them to speak out, make them and go further.
Cultivating children's wisdom is not to say that it can be cultivated at once. Teach children when they are very young. What is good and what is bad. Teach them what they know. To discover new things. Always encourage him and give encouragement to children's wisdom, which is the best motivation for their efforts.
How to cultivate children's wisdom? 2. Cultivate children's emotional intelligence.
In recent years, Ma Yun, who is enthusiastic about education, once said to President Yungu, "It is more important than anything to train children to know how to play with their families and classmates and have all kinds of healthy sports and activities. I promise, these children who can play, children who want to play and children who are willing to find someone to play will have a good future. This is the key to cultivating emotional intelligence. "
EQ refers to emotional quotient, or EQ for short, which mainly refers to people's qualities in emotion, will and frustration tolerance. As Ma Yun said, in today's society, versatile people are always very happy, so many parents and friends hope that their children can have higher emotional intelligence.
The research of children's pedagogy shows that the emotional experience before the age of 6 has a long-term impact on people's life. At this time, the child's emotions are in the initial stage of instability, and the self-control ability of emotions has not yet formed. There is no positive correlation between children's emotional development and their age, which requires the correct guidance and education of parents and teachers. This process can be mastered through learning, just like the development of children's cognitive ability.
Emotional intelligence ability can be improved through cultivation and exercise. It is not difficult for parents to find the right way to accompany them scientifically and cultivate a sunny, lovely, positive and enthusiastic baby.
Try to give vent to the "bad-tempered" baby.
Children are "little bullies" at home and out. When something goes wrong with them, they will fly into a rage at once. For children who can't control their "negative energy", parents can guide their children to vent their emotions through games and appropriate sports, such as taking their children to outdoor activities or teaching them to talk to their favorite companion dolls. However, after children vent, adults need to talk to children about some positive things as much as possible, so that children's emotions can be calmed down and children can re-recognize the beauty in life.