around April 2th that year, my father told me by phone that my mother had been in the factory hospital for a week. I immediately took a 12-hour train back to Hanzhong to visit my mother in the hospital. It was about three o'clock in the afternoon. I went to the hospital and saw my father and mother joking. As soon as I entered the ward, my mother complained that I had asked for leave to go home again. I talked and laughed with my mother for a while. My mother took my hand and rubbed it, but her eyes looked at me.
I reached out my right hand and touched my mother's silky hair. My mother's hair was heavy and dark, and I loved to touch her hair ... I was bored for a while. I just remembered that my mother was ill. I suggested that I go to the doctor to ask about the situation, and my father followed me out. At the door, my father took me and told me quietly, "Your mother won't know anyone in a while."
I went to the doctor's office to see a young male doctor, who seemed to have graduated only a few years ago. He told me, "We initially suspected that your mother's illness was menopausal hypothyroidism ...", so I stayed with her. Let my father go home to rest, but my father insisted on not leaving. Said I was afraid I'd lose my mother. I think you just don't trust me, so stay. At dinner time, my father asked me to cook. He was guarding his mother in the ward. The hospital is a place I have been familiar with since I was a child. We had dinner together. About half an hour later, the three of us were chatting, when my mother suddenly looked at me fixedly and asked, "Who are you?" I was shocked and immediately replied: "Mom, I am Yan Shu!"
My mother replied, "What are you talking about? Is Yan Shu working in Xianyang? Who are you? " I really feel helpless, my mother doesn't know me! My father came to explain: "Xingping, this is your big girl Yan Shu coming back!" "
Mother turned her head, looked at her father and asked, "Who are you again?" My father teased my mother: "Who do you think I am?" My mother looked at my father blankly ...
There were only three of us in the ward, and suddenly there was silence. I was thinking, "What's wrong with my mother? So strange? How to treat it? ..... "A series of questions, which made me have a splitting headache, and I fell asleep against the hospital bed ...
I woke up and saw a healthy mother who remembered everything again. Looking at my mother's smile, I think it's a rare happiness for my mother to be awake like this! Thank god, just stay awake!
after a while, my mother went to the toilet, and my father followed. I think my father has become so meticulous at once? After a while, my father's cry came from the corridor: "Xingping, where are you going?" This way ... "Then I saw my father pulling my mother back, her mother's vacant eyes. Mother is confused again and doesn't know people and roads. My father told me: "every time she eats, she doesn't know anyone;" When you go to the toilet, you can't recognize the road when you come out. " In my father's story, fear began to attack my heart. A consequence of fear: "lost!" With a red exclamation point "Mao, Mao, Mao." Ring through my ears.
At the same time, my brain is running at full speed. I recall the knowledge I learned in the CT room of my uncle's hospital and chatting with the director of the CT room ... I began to suspect that my mother's illness had something to do with blood circulation. "Menopausal hypothyroidism" should not only be confused after meals, but also after toilets.
with this question, I immediately went to the doctor in charge, and he couldn't explain it clearly. I proposed to go to Hanzhong District Hospital for CT, and he agreed and prepared to contact the ambulance in Hanzhong District Hospital. It was suggested that we should pay for the ambulance and the inspection, and we immediately agreed. The director of internal medicine told me that I had contacted the ambulance and the CT room of the regional hospital. When I went for CT on Monday, I immediately discussed the plan with my father: split up. He took his mother to do CT on Monday; I returned to Xianyang and waited for the results, and was responsible for contacting the transfer to Xi 'an.
When I returned to Xianyang, I reported my mother's illness to my uncle and I will go to Hanzhong District Hospital for CT examination on Monday.
It's a long wait. What kind of torture is it to wait for a verdict on the illness of a loved one? People who haven't experienced it personally can't understand it. I wish I had special functions and omnipotent ability!
Finally, it was Monday, and I kept calling the internal medicine department of the factory hospital. Every time, I told me that the people who followed me had been waiting for the results and had not come back ... At the moment when I was in a hurry, I waited for my uncle's page, so I quickly called him back. My uncle told me that he had already called the CT room of Hanzhong District Hospital, and the results were: cerebral aneurysm; Moreover, he has found someone to arrange the inpatient beds in Xi 'an Central Hospital, and told me: "After arranging your mother's hospitalization, you will go to the southern suburbs to pick up the dean, who will take you to visit the director of brain surgery. The dean once assisted Sudan with me in medical treatment, and we have a good relationship. His hospital brain surgery is very powerful and he lives in their hospital. " .
Next, I have to let my mother leave the hospital in Hanzhong immediately and rush to Xi 'an. When I called the director of internal medicine in the factory hospital, she had not got the results yet. I told her the test results and asked her to agree to my mother's discharge immediately. I have contacted the hospital in Xi 'an. The director immediately said: people can leave the hospital immediately, without wasting time to go through the discharge formalities, and then settle accounts when they come back. The cost will stop immediately after leaving, without any delay.
On Tuesday morning, I began to raise the hospitalization expenses for my mother, whose unit is a large group and there is no medical treatment. My brother is still studying, and my sister has just joined the work. My father has already paid for my mother's hospitalization in Hanzhong, as well as my brother's tuition and living expenses. This hospitalization, there is no doubt that I have to take the lead. I went to the affiliated unit of the sales company to return my private shares, which are the welfare of the employees of my sales company. I will return them first with an annual dividend of 3% of the share capital. Then I took the only deposit at home.
now that I think about it, 1, yuan at that time was hard to scrape together. The family actually only got 5 thousand yuan, and there is still a gap of 5 thousand yuan. Embarrassed! I'm borrowing money from my uncle at night? Or borrow money from friends? Swinging back and forth for quite a while. Finally, I decided not to embarrass my uncle and borrow money from my friends. First of all, rich friends; Secondly, friends who have a good impression on me; Third, you have to be friends with friendship; For me, who has just joined the work for the fourth year, there are indeed some difficulties. I ran it through my mind quickly. Who am I going to borrow money from the next day?
after thinking about this, I felt hungry and began to cook a bite of food. Before I was finished, my two sisters-in-law suddenly came home to sell the family members of the director of Lingbao Office of the company and the director of Tianshui Office of Gansu Province. They sat down and cut to the chase and said, "I was entrusted by your big brother XXX to give you 5 yuan to give your mother an emergency hospitalization. You use it first, not enough. " I immediately got 1 thousand yuan at my disposal! They expressed the blame of the two older brothers: "You should tell them the news that you want to use money, instead of withdrawing shares privately. That was the stock that was ventured into at that time, and now it's just a dividend, but you have withdrawn the stock. What a pity that you can't go in if you return it! Say you and they are too stranger ... "I sincerely accept what they say, and I know their sincerity and kindness. I put my hands together and feel good about my life! Meet good people!
On Thursday, my husband came back early, took me to the railway station to meet my father and mother, and had a meal together. My mother seemed to know that she had a bad illness and looked very heavy. I joked with my mother for a while and went straight to Xi 'an Brain Surgery Hospital. After going through the hospitalization formalities, the hospital did reserve a bed and arranged for my mother to stay, my husband and I left.
we rushed to the southern suburbs to pick up the dean, and from the southern suburbs to pick up the dean, it rained all the way and rushed to the relatives' hospital of Xi' an Central Hospital in the northern suburbs. I remember that the car couldn't get in, and I had to walk a narrow road to shuttle between houses. The dean was already too old. In the water droplets with one foot deep and one foot shallow, the three of us arrived at the home of Li Yingshan, director of brain surgery. Director Li lives on the first floor. He is from Shanxi. He is a very charitable and rigorous person. He was deeply disturbed by the dean's rainy night visit. The dean's uncle said straight away, "This is the family of an old friend of mine. I don't talk to you as the dean, but as an old friend, please: this operation can only succeed, not fail. "
Since then, I have been in frequent contact with Director Li for half a year. Director Li arranged a comprehensive examination of my mother's body and found that she still had granular gallstones. Before brain surgery, I contacted the surgery department and had my mother's gallstone surgery. Later, I contacted experts from the Fourth Army to consult for three times. * * * With the discussion, the surgical plan was determined, and I, a layman, know the difficulty of the operation very well. The location and cross section of the mother's cerebral aneurysm are flush with the eyes. The depth is at the intersection nerve of the left brain and the right brain. I looked at the brain model, and Director Li showed me the location of the brain tumor, which made my head big. The operation in that place is full of nerves, and it is at the intersection of the left brain and the right brain. The operation risk is too great! The operation is really too difficult! It's too hard for the surgeon!
Before the operation, a color radiography of cerebral vessels was performed.
The day before the operation, a clean nurse came to shave her mother's head neatly and told her to go to bed early. Instead, my mother was too nervous to sleep, and neither could my father, nor could I sleep. Maybe mother couldn't come down to the operating table, and the knife was moved in that place ... In the double boiling, it was dawn.
that morning, when I moved my mother to the cart, my mother held my father's hand tightly, and my father was comforting her all the way. When I arrived at the door of the operating room, my father suddenly cried and told my mother, "Xingping, don't be nervous. Just go in and have an operation and come out. I will wait for you outside! " Mother looked at her father affectionately, and they held hands and said goodbye. I silently shed tears ... My mother's cart went in, and the red light in the operating room was on.
We waited anxiously outside. After an hour and a half, the operating room door opened and the operation could not be carried out. Mother's blood pressure was too high, with a high pressure of 21 and a low pressure of 18, and she couldn't come down. The operation time will be arranged separately.
knowing that the operation could not be carried out as scheduled, my sister-in-law took her parishioners and seven or eight aunts to pray in front of her mother's bed and climbed to the roof to pray. Looking at my sister-in-law and my brothers, I closed my eyes and prayed silently.
Later, Director Li asked me, "Are you a Christian?" I replied, "I'm not. My sister-in-law is. But I am familiar with the New Testament, a scientific book that integrates astronomy, geography, history, humanities and teaching people to be good. " He smiled and told me that he believed in Christianity. He asked me why I didn't believe it. I seriously replied: "I want to join the party in the future and dare not believe in religion." But it doesn't prevent me from being kind to others. This is also the highest purpose of Christian doctrine. " He smiled kindly and contentedly.
after learning about my mother's illness, a close colleague came to my home and advised me, "This operation is too risky. In those days, Xue Moumou's father got this disease in our factory, and he spent a lot of money, and finally he lost both his money and his money. If you spend money on your mother to eat and drink better, you can live your last days, and you won't be without people and money in the future. I am still in debt ... "I know she said this for my own good. I replied: "Thank you for your concern! I know you are good for me! In my mother's case, without surgery, people will definitely die soon, and blood vessels will burst and die. The operation has a 5% chance of success; There is a 5% chance of failure. I have to spend money, but I have a 5% chance of recovery. Even if the operation really fails, I will live a peaceful life in my life, with no regrets! "
manager y of the sales company arranged for me to take care of the coaching work of the startup staff of Zhuquemen office in Xi' an and go to work in Xi' an twice a week. It takes me two and a half days to handle the business of Zhuquemen office, and I have two and a half days each week to go to the hospital to take care of my mother or change my father's rest.
Later, the nurse came to shave her mother's head for fear that her mother would be nervous. As soon as she shaved her head, her mother knew that she would have surgery the next day, so she couldn't sleep. As a result, she didn't have surgery at all. She sleeps soundly during the day. Shaving her head more often makes her paralyzed.
For the second operation, the blood pressure was still too high to perform. Arranging an operation involved several departments and many people. Reflecting on the great influence of father and mother's farewell on mother's mood. Blood pressure rises so high, how to do surgery? I went to my sister-in-law's house to discuss with her, trying to hide the time of my father's third operation and isolate my father from my mother before the operation.
The day before the third operation, my sister-in-law called to call my father away. I signed the consent form for surgery alone. My hands were too shaky to write. I held my right hand with my left hand and signed it.
at 8: 1 the next day, the nurse pushed the cart to move the mother, and the unified caliber was to have a check-up. My sister and I followed the cart to the door of the operating room. My sister and I settled old scores with my mother: When I was young, did my sister and I add potatoes to the rice? There was no argument, but one person took a shovel and the other a spoon. There was a tendency to fight, and my mother came in and saw it. Without a word, I took a bamboo stick and beat Su Laoer and me, leaving marks on my legs.
My sister and I asked, "Mom, we didn't fight at that time, but you beat us with bamboo sticks. What do you say?"
Mother smiled and said, "What should I do? Why don't you two beat me up? " Sue and I joked with our mother, and then joked, "Forget it, you're mom, and it's only natural to hit us." We can't hit you. But you have to show your courage. If you go into the examination room for examination yourself, we will admire you. " Later, my mother bravely sat up from the cart and went down to the ground, and the nurse took her into the operating room.
The red light in the operating room turned on. One hour and two hours passed, but the operating room door was not opened.
two hours later, the nurse came out and arranged for me to prepare bread for the medical staff in the operating room. I went to buy a bag of milk powder, bought some bread and some ham sausages in the bakery, and entrusted the nurse to bring them in ... I knew the operation had begun. I began to feel afraid. My mother's operation failed. How can I explain to my father who was kept in the dark? ..... Five hours passed, and the lights in the operating room were still on; Six hours passed, and I started sweating on my back ... I kept asking my husband, "Is your watch accurate?" Husband replied: "It's on time, Beijing time. Don't worry, no news is good news. "
I saw the doctors who came out halfway. They were all very tired and their legs were heavy. I was not only worried about my mother's safety, but also guilty of giving doctors such a difficult field.
until 5: 3 in the afternoon, the green light in the operating room came on, and the operation lasted for nine hours. The door of the operating room opened and a doctor began to come out and said, "The operation was successful!" " My body went soft and I was in tears.
My husband made an arrangement with the head nurse in advance, and asked the surgical medical staff to go out for a light meal, and asked her to inform and arrange personnel. The doctors have worked too hard and are almost collapsed. My husband invited the medical staff to dinner, in order to thank them for their hard work and