Thanks to his trust, he told me his past experience almost without reservation. As far as I can remember, he had a sentence that shocked me very much, he said, he now opens the job site, don't know what he is suitable for!
In fact, this uncle was in a pretty good situation some years ago.
He graduated from a second school of law in Beijing, and after graduation, he worked as a paralegal in a law firm in Beijing, following the lawyers to deal with all kinds of civil cases. After working for three years, he jumped to a guarantee company in Beijing to engage in legal affairs, responsible for drafting and reviewing company contracts and dealing with company legal affairs. After working in this company for two years, he went back to his hometown to develop a local guarantee company as the manager of the evaluation department, responsible for evaluating the guarantor and handling the mortgage of the counter-guarantee.
Just when he was doing well in this company, an invitation from his junior high school classmate made him give up his law-related work. The classmates let him quit his job to come out and start a business with him, do health checkup program (similar to the children's trace element test, business is mainly with the township health centers that do not have the equipment to cooperate), to give him 20% of the shares. This temptation is too great, he did not hesitate to join.
From then on, his life opened a new page, he turned from a wage earner into a boss.
Because of the policy dividend and the unsoundness of the regulatory mechanism at that time, in the first two years, the market was very good and made some money. But with the country's efforts to increase regulation of the medical industry, their company's business is more and more difficult to do, barely lasted two years after the closure of the company, he not only lost the original money earned, but also owed a butt of debt.
He came back to rest for a while to regulate himself. Later, because of the life forced, he did the liquor sales. But because of the current economic downturn, his business is not doing too well, think again, he decided to go back to his old job, looking for a job related to the law.
With the introduction of a friend, he decided to try the position of legal specialist in our company.
In the process of communicating with him, I found that he had left the legal profession for 9 years, and had been busy with business and socializing for so many years that he had neglected to study law, and he had not passed the judicial examination. It can be said that he is away from the law this circle has a distance, because he did not take the lawyer's license, he is currently applying for this post basically no competitiveness. What's more, I found ------
Because of the lack of accumulation, his profession is basically deserted;
Because of the lack of study, his knowledge structure is outdated;
Because of the lack of exercise, his body is blighted and seriously deformed;
Because of the lack of good financial management, he is pressured by the loan sharks;
Because the work does not quite
Because the work is not too much brain, his independent thinking ability degradation;
Because he did not give himself a reasonable position, he does not know how to go in the future ......
The most terrible thing is that when he is ready to start again and wants to find a stable job, he opens the recruitment website at the age of not confused, but he does not know what he is suitable for!
His encounter makes me sympathetic, but also makes me afraid, from his body I got a lot of wake-up call:
(1) the world of the beginning of the search for work as much as possible to find a job related to their own professional work, if there are no special circumstances, it is best not to frequently jump ship, unless it is in the unit there is no one worthy of their own to learn, and there is no longer the opportunity to exercise and growth.
(2) Not everyone is suitable for entrepreneurship, and not everyone can be successful in entrepreneurship, you have to have entrepreneurial "genes", but also the timing, location and people.
(3) think their work is very plain, want to start a business to get rich, but you do not know is that many entrepreneurs are envious of the stable work of you, like every parent has a "child of others" in mind, everyone in the eyes of others are the scenery.
(4) No matter what kind of career you choose in the future or to start your own business, remember, you must have a skill, to find their own advantages, which is often your life guys, such as good writing, write a good handwriting, fluent in English, strong communication skills.
(5) Regardless of whether or not you make a lot of money, you must not forget to learn. Things are unpredictable, maybe you will encounter difficulties one day, but if you keep the habit of continuous learning, you will soon adapt to that environment, and will soon stand up.
(6) In the young, to determine their own professional direction, it is best to get a certain amount of gold qualification certificates, such as lawyers licenses, certified public accountants, registered engineers and so on. These certificates may not be of much use at the time, but when you want to regain the profession, these certificates will add to your courage and confidence to start again. In addition, because of the young memory is better, active thinking and time is relatively full, but also easy to calm down, the examination of the relevant certificates is generally easier.
(7) If possible, a little less socializing, more exercise, your body hides your self-discipline, the body is the capital of the revolution is always the truth.
(8) You do not manage money, wealth does not care about you, learn the necessary knowledge of financial management, you can avoid the trap of financial crisis.
(9) Don't let yourself lose the ability to think independently because you want to take it easy. Always keep your independent thinking habits and improve your cognitive level.
(10) life encounters ups and downs, regardless of the waist rich or plain, sometimes really destiny, do not have to force. The most important thing is that you don't forget to live in the present.