1. Concentrically condensed "Sanye Collection"
The authors of "Sanye Collection" are three: Tian Shouchang (Tian Han), Zong Baihua, and Guo Moruo. This book embodies the friendship of the three authors and the new ideas of the May Fourth Movement. After the publication of this book, a "three-leaf" craze started in society, which lasted for several years. This book was compiled by Tian Han through the correspondence between them. It is the crystallization of the friendship between the three of them. Take a look at how three like-minded friends cherish each other:
Zong Baihua’s letter to Tian Han:
“I have recently experienced a very gratifying thing that can reduce my countless sorrows. It gives me a lot of comfort, that is, I have another friend like you, a future poet from the East. I have written to introduce him to you. Do you already know that he is a poetry companion? Now I will send you his latest long poem and long letter, so that you can know his personality and poetic talent."
Tian Han received the request. After Bai Hua's letter, he was even more excited. He wrote directly to Guo Moruo with a bit of poet's innocence:
"I really like it! I am so happy! Many of the friends I have made are innocent and innocent. A man with beautiful thoughts and talents. Now I have met the "Future Poet of the East, Guo Moruo"! How can I not like it? How can I not like happiness!"
Zong Baihua, Guo Moruo and Tian Han, one was in Shanghai, one was in Fukuoka, and the other was in Tokyo, and they had never met. From now on, I will write to you one by one. From the letter, the mutual understanding gradually deepened. It turned out that they had the same experiences, the same ideals, and similar living environments. From then on, they naturally became close friends who shared the same thoughts, responded to each other, and sought each other.
Adapted from "The Story of Guo Moruo" by Chen Jie
Comment: Three like-minded literati, separated by thousands of mountains and rivers. What brings them together? It is their common pursuit, their common ideal, their common hobby, and the natural sympathy and appreciation that literati have for each other. Friendship is also sublimated in their common struggle and pursuit.
Scope of application: Friendship between like-minded friends requires mutual appreciation
2. Great love is speechless
In the 2006 World Cup in Germany, Ecuador played against Costa Rica . They maintained a two-goal lead over their opponents for 90 minutes. After a player from the Ecuadorian national team came on in stoppage time and scored the third goal of the game on a volley, the player pulled out a spider from his pants like a magic trick. Wearing a human mask, he quickly ran to the side of the court, roared to the sky, and left the field silently. Later, people learned that the Spider-Man mask belonged to his former captain Tenorio, who died more than a year ago due to a car accident. The captain's son is particularly fond of Spider-Man. He used to wear the mask after scoring a goal so that his son could see him in the camera. Inadvertently or unintentionally, Tenorio once said that if he could not go to Germany, no matter which player scored a goal, he would like to wear a Spider-Man hood to celebrate. Someone remembered his words and asked Tenorio's family for a Spider-Man mask at the former captain's memorial service and took him to Germany, brought it to the game, and wore it on his face. That man was Cavedes, Tenorio's best friend during his lifetime. It turns out that he deeply mourned his deceased friend in this unique way and fulfilled his wish silently.
Adapted from Yang Yaxiong's "Love Is Speechless"
Comment: Love is speechless, true love does not require too many words. But we know that Cavedes has always been thinking about the captain's wish and has been preparing for it. Even though he is only a substitute, he not only hides the hood in his pants, but also hides it in his heart, which also becomes the driving force for him to keep moving forward. . This is the power of friendship
Scope of application: Great love without words, sincere friendship, keeping promises, trust
3. Friends in need
Su Shi wrote a poem There is a sentence in "Ba Sheng Ganzhou" (posted by Shen Liaozi): "The poets are as close to each other as I am to you.
"This gentleman is Shen Liazi. He is a monk whose Buddhist name is Dao Qian. He is very distinctive in poetry creation. When Su Shi was an official in Xuzhou, the two of them often discussed Taoism and poetry together. Later Su Shi was demoted to Huang because of misfortune. When he was in Huangzhou, monk Dao Qian took the trouble to travel thousands of miles to Huangzhou and followed Su Shi there for several years. During these years, although Su Shi was an open-minded man, he was inevitably troubled due to the misfortunes in his official career and life. It was the monk Dao Qian who often stayed with him, chatting, playing chess, calligraphy and painting, which relieved Su Shi from a lot of unhappiness. When Su Shi was demoted to Hainan, many old friends who had been around him avoided him. He tried every means to send letters several times and wanted to cross the sea to visit Su Shi, but was finally dissuaded by Su Shi.
For information, refer to "Story of Song Ci" edited by Jiang Yong.
Comment: In Dao Qian's eyes, What does the stormy sea mean? In his eyes, Su Shi has long been regarded as a close friend who can share life and death, and can endure hardships. Su Shi also regards him as a close friend and a poet. Friendship is something that is hard to come by. What is a true friend? The person who is closest to you when you are in the most difficult time is your true friend. Only this kind of friend can last long, deeply and have many friends.
Scope of application: What is a true friend? Choosing friends to make friends in times of adversity
4. The power of friendship
"Shishuo Xinyu" tells a story like this: A man named Xun Jubo traveled far to see his friend's condition. When foreign troops attacked the city, everyone in the city had left. The friend advised Xun Jubo: " I'm dying, you should leave! But he said: "I came all the way to see you, but you told me to leave!" Could it be that I, Uncle Xun, did things that corrupted morality and were not in line with friendship? When Hu Bing arrived, he was surprised to see Jubo Xun and asked him: "Our army is here, and everyone in the city has fled. What kind of man are you, dare to stay alone?" Xun Jubo said: "My friend is sick. I can't bear to leave him and run away. I would rather use my own life to replace my friend's life!" Hu Bing was impressed by his righteousness and bravery, "Those of us who do not respect morality should not come to this moral city." "The army was immediately withdrawn. A city was saved.
Comment: The personal relationship between the two people brought peace to the entire city. This is the power of friendship! When friendship rises to morality, It is difficult for us to estimate its value. It is not only a manifestation of personal personality value, not only a display of personal personality charm, but when it becomes a social trend and a public orientation, even a city cannot replace it.
Scope of application: Friendship is invincible. The power of friendship and moral friendship. When friendship rises to morality
5. Song of Criticism
It is rare to be a critic and dare to criticize in person.
Ups and downs, honor and disgrace ***
It is rare to be criticized without mercy
After being blushing, your mind will be clearer. p>It is rare to be a critic who is generous and tolerant.
It is rare to be a critic who is calm and calm.
It is rare to be friends who are not afraid of dangers and hardships, and to be loyal to each other for a lifetime.
It is rare to be friends. He is a critical friend, not a peacemaker.
In the face of right and wrong, he dares to argue based on reason.
Comment: Friendship. Not all are sweet words, sometimes they are good medicine but bitter taste; friendship is not always a breath of fresh air, sometimes it makes people feel uncomfortable. Friends have an ugly appearance like Quasimodo and a beautiful heart like Quasimodo. It is difficult for a narrow-minded person to have such friendship, and a timid and insincere person cannot be a friend of others. It takes courage to accept friends, and it takes even more courage to be a friend of friends.
Scope of application: It’s rare for a friend’s loyal words to hurt your ears and help your actions. Friendship sometimes wears a Quasimodo-like cloak
6. Alan: I’ll push you from behind
After winning the championship in the last leg of the European training, Liu Xiang met his old rival and old friend Alan Johnson in the dressing area. Facing his former idol, Liu Xiang used his not very good English to communicate with Alan Johnson. Speaking of Liu Xiang’s extreme declaration of “12 seconds 85”, Alan Johnson curiously asked Liu Xiang: “12 seconds 81, do you think it’s okay?” Liu Xiang shook his head in surprise: “12 seconds 81 is too difficult, really. I think it’s possible for me to run 12.85 seconds.” Then Liu Xiang explained: “My explosive power is poor, and it’s always a little bit behind at the beginning...” Who knows, Alan Johnson said with a wicked smile: “Then I push from behind. Give it a try." Liu Xiang also laughed. In Alan Johnson's view, Liu Xiang has a very bright future. He said: "I have run 11 times in total within 13 seconds, and you only have 4 times now, but I believe you can definitely surpass my time. , at least you still have two chances this year!”
(Chengdu Evening News)
Comment: People who really know you, except your friends, are your opponents. Therefore, you must pay attention to your opponent, because he forces you to strengthen your own abilities, and thank your opponent, because he allows you to grow better. Once an opponent is transformed into a friend, he or she will have a precious friendship. Liu Xiang and Alan are the best examples.
Scope of application: opponents are also friends, and when you appreciate them, they become friends
7. Famous aphorisms about friendship
1. "It is enough to have a confidant in life." , the world should cherish it. -- Lu Xun's words to Qu Qiubai
2. No matter it is sentimental poems, beautiful articles, or leisure joy, nothing can replace the incomparable close friendship. - Pushkin.
3. Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little luster.
4. Anyone who has encountered a friendly heart and experienced the state of sincerity has tasted the joy of heaven and earth. --- Romain Roland
5. Be with you. You may forget those who have laughed with you; but you will never forget those who have cried with you
---Kahlil Gibran
6. When it comes to fame, Honor, pleasure, wealth, etc., are nothing but dust if compared with the passion of friendship. ---Darwin
7. Among all the happiness that wisdom provides to the whole life, The most important thing is to obtain friendship --- Boccaccio
8. Friendship is a kind of gentle and calm love, guided by reason, formed by habits, and formed from long-term understanding and *. It arises from mutual agreement, without jealousy or fear. ——He Mei
9. Zi Gong asked his friends: "If you give advice, don't stop it, and don't humiliate yourself." . " ("The Analects of Confucius? Yan Yuan")
10. When you listen to its song, you seek the voice of a friend. When you look at other birds, you still seek the voice of a friend; when you look at a human being, you do not seek the voice of a friend? God will listen to it. , peace and harmony in the end ("The Book of Songs? Logging")
Comments: Friendship occupies an extremely important position in human life; some people think that friendship is the salt of life and the wine of drunkards; some people think that friendship is the salt of life and the wine of drunkards. More beautiful than flowers, more precious than diamonds; some people even think that having friendship is the happiest thing in the world, and people who have friendship are the happiest people.
Scope of application: Flowers of Friendship, Taste of Friendship, Thoughts on Friendship
Liszt accepts free students
A girl is going to give a concert and says on the poster that she is a student of Liszt . The day before the performance, Liszt appeared in front of the girl. She was so frightened that she pretended to be for a living and asked for forgiveness. Liszt asked her to play the music for him and give him some guidance. Said: "Boldly come on stage and perform, you are now my student.
You can announce to the theater manager that the last program of the evening will be played by the teacher for the students. "Liszt played the last song at the concert
Peng Dehuai was magnanimous
Peng Dehuai, commander-in-chief of the third army of the Red Army, and more than 30 people inspected the terrain at the front, and ordered the soldiers to run while holding the red flag. While shouting to give way, only one soldier sat still. When Peng Dehuai saw someone blocking the way, the soldier stood up and punched Mr. Peng. Afterwards, he ordered the soldiers to come to see him. Mr. Peng. Mr. Peng immediately asked him to go back. The soldier knew that he had caused trouble and was afraid. Seeing that Mr. Peng didn't care, he was deeply moved. Later he said to everyone: "The commander-in-chief is really magnanimous!" ”
The Legend of Liuchi Lane
During the Kangxi period of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Yingguan, a native of Tongcheng, became a bachelor of Wenhua Palace and the Minister of Rites. His neighbor was another large household in Tongcheng, Ye Mansion, and the owner was Zhang Ying who worked in the same dynasty. There was a dispute between the two families because of the courtyard wall. Mrs. Zhang sent a letter to Zhang Ying. Zhang Ying was deeply worried when he saw the letter and replied to the old lady: "The letter from the house is only for the wall, so why not let it be three feet away?" The Great Wall is still there today, but Qin Shihuang is nowhere to be seen. "So Mrs. Zhang ordered her family members to move back three feet to build the wall. The Ye family was very moved and ordered their family members to also move the wall three feet back. From then on, the barriers between the Zhang and Ye families were eliminated and the friendship between the two families was established.
Generals and Legends
In the old Chinese era in 279 AD, Lin Xiangru of the State of Zhao returned to Zhao after guarding the wall. He made great achievements and was worshiped as Shangqing, ranking above General Lianpo. Lian Po believed in his merits and was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate him. When Lin Xiangru heard Lian Po's words, he often complained that he was ill and refused to compete with Lian Po for position. He was timid and fearful. Lin Xiangru said: "The King of Qin is so powerful that I am not afraid of him. How can I be afraid of Lian Po?" I think that the reason why the powerful Qin State did not invade Zhao State was just because of the two of us. Now when two tigers fight each other, one of them will be injured, which will inevitably weaken the power to resist foreign enemies. The reason why I avoided General Lian was because of my husband's family concerns first and then my personal vendetta! "This word reached Lian Po's ears. Lian Po felt very ashamed, so he went to the door with his clothes exposed and carried a bush to plead guilty. He said: "I am crude and low-minded, with narrow ambitions. I have offended the Prime Minister. If the Prime Minister can be so tolerant, my death is not enough. To atone for sins. "So we reunited and became friends of life and death.
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" The sea that embraces all rivers is great when it has tolerance, and the mountain is as high as ten thousand and has no desires, so it is strong.—— Lin Zexu 2. The brothers are here to overcome all the calamities, and forget the grudges with a smile. ——Lu Xun 3. Patience is painful, but its results are sweet. ——France Rousseau 4. The widest in the world is the ocean. The ocean is wider than the sky, and the sky is wider than the human mind. ——France Hugo
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p>5. If you don’t have a magnanimous heart, you are not a true hero. ——Russian Pushkin 6. People who are not tolerant of others are not worthy of being tolerated by others, but who can say that they do not need tolerance. ——Turgenev 7. Sometimes the moral shock caused by tolerance is stronger than punishment. ——Suhomlinsky of the former Soviet Union. 8. Only tolerance can tolerate people, and only kindness can carry things. Rendering
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People's hearts are not conquered by force, but by love, tolerance and magnanimity.
—— Spino 10. A great person has two hearts: one heart bleeds and one heart forgiving. ——Kahlil Gibran 11. Don’t blame others for their minor transgressions, don’t expose others’ secrets, and don’t remember people’s past evils—these three can cultivate virtue and also keep away harm. ——Hong Yingming 12. Be harsh as a warning, and be honest in everything. ——Xu Xuan
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13. Tolerance means respecting any beliefs of others. ——Einstein 14. Forgiving without forgetting is like burying the ax head in the soil and leaving the ax handle outside. ——American Basqueri 15. The magnanimous spirit is the greatest of all things. —— Owen?
Composition materials about setbacks
Idea tips
Frustration is inevitable on the road of life. We should not be discouraged when encountering setbacks. .
The setback itself is not terrible. What is terrible is the failure to recover after experiencing the setback.
We should maintain an optimistic spirit when dealing with setbacks, so that we can move from failure to success.
Even if you are in good times, you must be prepared for danger in times of peace and be ready to withstand setbacks at any time.
Famous Quotes
Seeds do not fall on fertile soil but on rubble. A viable seed will never be pessimistic or sighing, because only with resistance can it be tempered. ——Xia Yan
There are no rocks in the sea that cannot stir up waves, and you cannot become strong if you cannot withstand setbacks in life. --proverb.
Suffering is a stepping stone for genius, a fortune for capable people, and an abyss for the weak.
——[French] Balzac
Life is full of thorns, and the only way we can think of is to quickly jump over those thorns.
——[Fa] Voltaire
Failure is also what I need. It is as valuable to me as success. ——[Beauty] Emerson
Failure is the mother of success. ——As the saying goes
Suffering is the teacher of life. Through suffering, you can move towards joy. ——[Germany] Beethoven
Classic material
Frustration cannot stop the strong (Zhang Haidi is determined to become a talent)
Zhang Haidi has been severely paraplegic since he was a child. He was on the verge of death for the first time, and his body was considered weak. However, over the past 20 years, she has learned 4 foreign languages, translated more than 160,000 words of foreign language works, obtained a master's degree in philosophy, taught herself acupuncture techniques, and treated more than 10,000 people, making great contributions. Compared with Zhang Haidi, what should we healthy people do?
Be brave enough to use setbacks as motivation (Verne’s 16 contributions)
Jules, the famous French science fiction novelist in the 19th century. Verne's first work "Five Weeks in a Balloon" was submitted to 15 publishing houses in a row, but was not appreciated. It was only accepted after the 16th submission. American writer Jack. When London originally submitted his manuscript, no publisher was willing to publish it, so he had to work hard. Later, his "Northern Story" was picked up by a discerning Western Monthly magazine, and he became famous in one fell swoop. The famous Danish fairy tale writer Andersen's debut novel came out. Some people knew that he was the son of a shoemaker, so they attacked his work as "a continuum of words", "ignoring grammar" and "understanding rhetoric". But he was not discouraged, kept writing, and finally became famous. After the publication of "Idle Time" written by the British poet Byron when he was 19 years old, some people scolded him as "bloody" and said that he "expressed his feelings on a lifeless swamp." However, Byron did not retreat, but responded to the slanderer with better poetry.
Strive against adversity and seek happiness in suffering (Gao Shiqi fought hard against illness)
Gao Shiqi is a popular science writer in my country.
When he was studying abroad, during an experiment, a glass bottle containing a cultured encephalitis virus broke and the virus invaded his cerebellum. This left a legacy of physical disability. He endured the torture of the virus and completed the entire doctoral program in bacteriology at the University of Chicago. After returning to China, he dragged his half-paralyzed body to Yan'an to work. After liberation, his condition worsened and he had difficulty speaking and moving. He even needed help from others to open and close his eyes. However, he still created with an amazing spirit of hard work and wrote more than 1 million words of works. Someone asked him if he was suffering, and he smiled and said: "No! Because I struggle every day, and struggle is endless fun."
Suffering is also a wealth ("Father of Western Folk Songs" Wang Luobin)
Wang Luobin, the music master known as the "Father of Western Folk Songs" in China, has experienced hardships in his life, been in jail, had his wife and children separated, and has been in adversity with great psychological pressure for a long time. However, with an attitude that was "better than strolling in a leisurely garden", he devoted himself to the lonely smoke of the desert in the northwest, and composed many western folk songs such as "In That Distant Place".
After experiencing setbacks, you can be more angry (Pele and the reporter)
After Bailey became famous, a reporter interviewed him. "Will your son become a football king like you in the future?" Bailey replied: "No. Because he lives in a different environment than mine. My living environment was very poor in childhood, but I was in This harsh environment honed my strong fighting spirit and made me qualified to become the world champion. However, he lived an easy life and could not have become the world champion without enduring difficult training."
Faced with setbacks. Never be discouraged (Edison was not intimidated by fire)
A fire burned the laboratory to rubble. All of Edison's research materials and samples of sound films were burned to ashes. His wife was so sad that she cried: "Many years of hard work have been burned up in a fire. Now that you are old and weak, what can you do?" Edison was also very sad, but he would never let it go. Down. When he invented the electric light, he tested more than 7,600 materials and failed more than 8,000 times. He was still not discouraged and finally succeeded. The current fire also could not make him retreat. Edison said to his wife: "It doesn't matter, even though I am 67 years old, I am not old. From tomorrow morning, everything will start again."
A hero is one who can bend and stretch (Gou Jian, who is willing to work hard)
The State of Yue defeated the State of Wu in 494 BC. Gou Jian, the king of Yue, had no choice but to seek peace from Wu and wait for a comeback. Gou Jian first bribed the King of Wu and his ministers with beautiful women, gold, silver and jewels, and also used his wife as a hostage and worked as a groom for the King of Wu. Gou Jian also served the King of Wu with tea, meals, and urine. He finally won the King of Wu's trust and was released. After Gou Jian narrowly escaped death and returned home, he continued to pay tribute to the state of Wu while gathering troops for training. In the end, he led tens of thousands of elite troops, completely defeated the Wu State, and realized his wish to restore the country from humiliation.
Defeat setbacks with optimism (Newton and others faced setbacks)
In ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, because of extremely strong and effective optimism, there are many people who have overcome various difficulties and obstacles and achieved victory. . When Newton invented the theory of gravity, people all over the world opposed him; when Harvey invented the theory of blood circulation, people all over the world opposed him; when Darwin announced the theory of evolution, people all over the world opposed him; Bell When he first made a telephone, people all over the world laughed at him; when Wright first worked hard to make airplanes, people all over the world laughed at him. Speaking of Dr. Sun Yat-sen, when he first lectured on revolution and national salvation in Nanyang, there were only three people who listened. Many of these people are praised by the world for their optimism.
Extremely strong and effective optimism can enable people to defeat the confusion, blind obedience, callousness, terror, resentment and resistance in the world. And the greater the work, the more severe the resistance it will receive, which has become a kind of law. To deal with this kind of powerful resistance, the most important weapon is optimism. A person who lacks the spirit of optimism will inevitably be defeated by all kinds of demons.