There is a saying that no one can empathize with a person's feelings.
With the use of the condescending oneself to fulfill each other, and can not get the result you want, and this fulfillment, but into the harm of their own sharp weapon. The reason is that in this world, there is not so much of a will to be more than the heart.
Don't put so much weight on people, and don't put so much weight on yourself. After all, the more you care, the more tired you are, the more you take into account, the more hurt you are.
No need to be reasonable in all things, and no need to be responsive in all things, the refusal to refuse, the ruthlessness of the ruthlessness.
When you are so concerned about other people, have you ever thought about who has been concerned about you?
Working, always put away their own angle to help others, others in addition to a perfunctory thank you, may not remember your good.
You always stand in the other people's point of view to consider, but what about others, whether they also stand in your corner to consider? Sometimes a lot of things, in retrospect, think about it but you are a person's one-man show, condescending to their own, may not be able to get cherish.
Life is realistic, not because you're more beautiful, only because of your repeated compromises and become more severe.
The person who is sincere to you, simply can't bear to hurt you, and the person who takes into account you will never let you be aggrieved.
The human heart is too complex, and is not genuine can be exchanged for genuine, you can not bear to hurt people, perhaps one day will come back to hurt you; you can not bear to make things difficult for people, perhaps one day will come back to make things difficult for you.
So put away your soft heart, do not have to accommodate anyone, do things with a clear conscience on the good, you are you, do not change yourself for anyone, pay more others always take for granted.
Kindness should come with a sharp edge. Don't just give and take care of this, take care of that, just don't know to take care of yourself. And don't be so accommodating, after all, no one owes anyone.
To think too much for others, the bitter is their own, life is just a few decades, should be happy every day.
For the rest of your life, leave all the goodness behind and live your own life. Studying medicine is such a benefit, because he does not distinguish between men and women, most of them are mostly girls, right?