What should parents do if sophomores are bored with school and rebellious (Yibai Education)
Parents: Ms. Yang Ms. Yang: Hello. Duty counseling teacher: This parent hello. Ms. Yang: I read your leaflet and thought it was quite good. However, I still feel that I personally come to see more assured, you here are working teachers, not with college students, right? Counselor: Yes, we promise that there are no college students among our teachers. All of our teachers are front-line teachers with rich teaching experience and cutting-edge information about the college entrance exams. Can you tell us about your child? Ms. Yang: Oh, my son is now in his second year of high school, in Beijing Xicheng District Experimental School, with medium grades. His problem now is that he has an aversion to school, he can't listen to anything I say, and he's specifically against me, and the same with his father, as if his parents are his enemies. Counselor: Does it mean that you usually control your child's study more at home? Ms. Yang: Yes, originally I was for his study, quit my job, just at home to take care of him, housework never let him touch. Although it is to accompany the child to study it, junior high school can still help a little, but he is now in the second year of high school, the study of the difficult problem I do not understand. The most I can do for him now is to make the meal in advance, wash the clothes and other daily chores. Counselor: Parents should give their children personality education and emotional communication. Professional subjects parents can not teach, more time with the useless, can only let the child lose the ability to learn on their own. The child should be managed, but not everything is managed. For example, learning, to help children develop good learning habits and methods can be, the specific content or to the tutoring organization is more appropriate, each can be. Ms. Yang: In fact, I still have quite a lot of expectations on his studies, but every time he mentions the study, he will be annoyed, and soon the college entrance examination, we do not dare to give him too much burden, sometimes I really do not know what to do. Counselor: In fact, children are likely to be resistant to their parents' demands, and what parents need to do is more psychological support. If you have any requirements for the child, you can through us in the process of counseling subtle conveyance to the child, and his learning progress and problems we can also be more objective to find, give help, and timely communication with parents, can be said to play a bridge role. This largely avoids unnecessary friction between parents and children. And our tutoring methods are also selected for different children's characteristics. Ms. Yang: What kind of tutoring is it? In fact, I just want someone to supervise him at the moment, of course, it would be better if he can improve his grades. Counselor: In your child's case, we recommend one-on-one tutoring. The advantage of one-on-one tutoring is that it takes into account the uniqueness and differences of the student, and does not cause too much pressure, and is a comprehensive service for the student. It helps him to improve his learning ability, change his learning habits, cultivate his interest in learning, deepen, consolidate and improve, and develop the ability to learn knowledge independently. Ms. Yang: Well, I'd like to try it first. Can I get a refund if I don't want to continue? Ms. Yang: Please don't worry, it's totally possible. If the number of lessons booked has not yet arrived and your child does not feel like it or does not need further lessons, we will unconditionally refund the remaining balance. In short, EBAY is fully committed to your child. Ms. Yang: Yes, thank you. Counselor: Thank you for your visit as well.