People in their daily lives will always be more or less in contact with a few phrases of the proverb, the proverb is full of life wisdom of the language, it is also a summary of the wisdom and experience of the old ancestors, although it seems to be plain and simple, but when you read by heart, will be able to realize a lot of life truth.
It can be said that the countryside of the proverbial all-encompassing, involving all aspects, there are a lot of sayings are about the husband and wife life of the maxim, to know that the marriage is almost everyone will go through the thing, whether it is a little girl or a little boy, from childhood will have a good expectation of love, so in the countryside there are a lot of about the husband and wife between the proverbial circulating.
There is a saying in the countryside that "loving couples don't go all the way", and many people wonder why couples who are too loving are likely not to go all the way together. Isn't it true that the more you love, the better you are? This saying certainly has the meaning of the old ancestors themselves, which is based on their experience, at first glance may sound contrary to common sense, but this contains some of the old ancestors of the future generations of caution.
The meaning of this sentence can be understood as too much love couples are always not long, this is because everything has its scale, to be impartial, just right is the best, too much is not enough, love is the same.
Couples who love each other too much will produce obsession, both want each other to be their only, all want to ask for, take possession of their own, ignoring each other's feelings, so that after a long time, couples will have irreconcilable contradictions, once the contradiction develops to an irreconcilable point, then their love will come to an end.
There is another kind is too much love between the couple will be mutual humility, two people can not always be happy, they will always have contradictions and conflicts, some couples because too much love for each other, so in a lot of things are tolerated, however, the one-track minded to tolerate will only make the contradiction of the pressure, and ultimately outbreaks, do not look at the surface of the family of a lot of people and the beautiful, in fact, couples in the heart of a lot of dissatisfaction did not! The first is to make sure that you have a lot of money to spend on the project.
This sentence also means that the relationship between husband and wife need to be preserved in time, as many people now spit, boys in the pursuit of girls before are all kinds of enthusiasm, hush-hush, and so on chasing to get married, the two began to life problems, many girls will complain, why the boys are no longer considerate, this is because the two have a sense of distance before the marriage, the two sides keep each other a good imagination. A good imagination, so the love between the two is still fresh state.
When couples get married after the honeymoon period, always fall into a state of mutual dislike, because you will find that the other side is not as perfect as they imagined, although on the surface of the husband and wife are y in love, but the two sides will also produce an indescribable sense of fatigue.
This is why those couples who seem to often quarrel a little, but can live happily ever after, those who never seem to quarrel loving couples but not long, this proverb at first glance seems to have no reason, a careful taste found is really too right.