I'm now 2 times in the smooth labor, put together a good word, the future is not born, the first child is from the contraction to birth just 12 hours, the beginning of the pain in a few minutes before the pain is a little bit, are slight, I also walked a few kilometers, nothing affects the back of more than 10 o'clock began to can not stand it, the feeling that the waist to break, can not stand, can not lie down, the hand has been grasping the things that are tightly gripping the hand is grasping out of the callus! I can't eat, I can't eat. Eat also can not eat, has been hmmmm, eleven o'clock only opened three fingers, has been grasping the edge of the bed to four o'clock before entering the delivery room. The doctor just went in and ignored people, and then let push, and do not know how to blindly push, really can not go to the cesarean section. Because my umbilical cord was wrapped around the neck three times, the doctor examined it and couldn't make a cesarean section because the position of the fetus was too far down, so I had no choice but to master how to push by myself. The pain was numb, and I didn't feel the lateral incision at the back, so I was relieved when the baby came out. Because I had anesthesia for the stitches, I didn't use it for the second one, and it didn't really hurt much anymore, but I felt so scared when I pulled the thread. It took just over three hours for the second child to be born from contraction to contraction, and the baby was born within half an hour from home to the hospital. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on a new one.
Are you a mom-to-be?
Don't be intimidated by the birth of a child, as long as the child is not 7 pounds, can be born quickly.
I gave birth to my baby by going through labor.
When my eldest was still in my belly, I asked the doctor how many pounds he thought it would be, and he said six pounds, three taels.
My thought was to go up to seven pounds and have a cesarean.
After listening to the doctor, I thought it was far from 7 pounds, so I just gave birth to it myself.
Because it was my first child, the labor process was quite long, but after I got on the delivery bed, I was out in an hour.
It was a quick labor and I didn't feel much pain.
Because the first baby was born normal, when the second baby was about to be born, the doctor asked how many pounds the first baby was, and after I told him, he said that this one was going to be very small.
I knew that the second baby would be born faster than the first, but without experience, I did not expect it to be so much faster.
The analogy is that the oldest took 10 hours, and the second one was born after a quick trip to the bathroom.
You can say that giving birth to the second child didn't hurt at all.
If the baby is small, a normal delivery is good for the mother's body to recover.
If you would like to have a second child, the first child is cesarean, and the second child can only be cesarean.
How does the doctor suggest, listen to the doctor.
Glad to answer this question! I've had two babies by birth, and I have a little experience to share. There are three stages of labor, the first and second are difficult, after the first and second, the third stage of labor will be like a weight off your back, you will have a sense of relief that you have finally made it through, and a sense of happiness will emerge, that is because the baby that you have longed for and carried for ten months is right in front of your eyes, within reach, and it is really a mixture of feelings.
Having a normal baby is a mixed bag, but it's a hopeful kind of pain, pain and happiness. It's a pain in the ass, but it's a hopeful pain, and it's a blessing. As long as you think about seeing your baby with your own eyes, you'll get over the pain. You will be able to give birth to your baby safely, and you must have the belief that enduring the pain requires a sense of well-being - the baby - to support you. This power is very strong, almost all mothers who have a normal delivery have survived under this belief. The moment you see your baby, the tormenting pain is really nothing, in your eyes, the baby is your world.
The pain will vary from person to person and from body to body. (1) The first stage of labor to open the mouth of the uterus: red, water breakage and regular labor pains, which is a sign of pre-labor, with the gradual increase in labor pains, the mouth of the uterus will slowly be opened, generally from a finger (about 1 cm) to three fingers when the mouth of the uterus is open the mother can still tolerate, after the four fingers of the labor pains will become more and more painful. (2) The second stage of labor, the fetus is delivered, the mouth of the uterus is opened to 9 fingers, and the mother goes to the delivery bed to give birth. The opening of the uterus to 9 fingers to 10 fingers is the top of the labor pains, which is very painful, and how can one say "pain", but the baby will be delivered when the mouth of the uterus is opened to 10 fingers after she goes to the delivery bed. (3) The third stage of labor, the delivery of the placenta, before the delivery of the baby is the most painful moment, after the delivery of the baby, the placenta will also be delivered, the end of the labor, the happy moment to come, you will have a kind of a sense of relief, sighing finally get over it.
It is important to note that the birth of a child must go through three stages of labor, but for each pregnant mother, the birth of the feeling is different, because each pregnant mother's physique is different, the pain will also be different, some people do not feel the pain on the birth of the birth of a very fast. Some people have to be in pain for dozens of hours before they can give birth to their babies. In addition, the pregnant mother's own conditions, pelvic bone wide, strong labor force, on the delivery bed will push, coupled with the appropriate size of the fetus, the smooth birth of the child will greatly shorten the process of labor, shorten the process of labor, the natural crime will be less. Therefore, in order to give birth quickly and suffer less pain, when pregnant, in addition to regular activities to exercise, but also pay attention to a balanced diet and monitor weight. Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Every life comes hard. It feels good to be a mom! I hope my answer will help you.
I still vaguely remember the pain of a normal labor, well ...... it's just too much to recall
I'm a mom of a 4 month old baby, let me tell you a little bit about my normal labor process!
The first stage of labor is the opening of the uterus. Our due date was the 27th, and my usual great-aunt was surprisingly punctual, and everyone said that those whose aunts were punctual were also more punctual in their due dates. I also believed it. 4:00 am on the 20th, I woke up as usual to go to the bathroom, but when I woke up, I felt like I was having my period, and then I went to the bathroom and saw that I was really seeing red. But there were no other symptoms yet, so I just did what I was supposed to do. By 6pm, after dinner, I was going to go out for a walk as usual. I wanted to have a normal labor, so I had to go out for a walk every day, but then I felt a little bit uncomfortable in my stomach, a little bit like I was having pains from my aunt or the kind of discomfort that comes from having a tummy ache. The family also happened to come to the guests, I can still accompany the chat and so on, and then as usual, shower, play with the phone, sleep, because they say that the first child is not so fast. It lasted until about 11pm when the pain got worse. I was ready to get a good night's sleep, I guess tomorrow is a big battle. Pain to sleep ah, ten minutes to come a bit, they are really sleepy, hard to sleep, want to fall asleep, let him pain to go, it should not be so painful, not at all, the pain woke up, no pain on the second sleep, and then woke up with the pain of ...... so simmering, every time you fall asleep for a while, feel like sleeping for a few hours a, in fact, only about ten minutes! The first thing I want to say is that I'm not going to be able to get through the night, but I'm going to be able to get through the night! Finally, to 5:00 am, can not help it, get up, and the interval is getting shorter and shorter, to the second half of the night, basically only 8 minutes or so. Previously the obstetrician told me that the first child will be slower to open the mouth of the uterus, so do not rush to go to the hospital and so on, it is better to be comfortable at home (because it is a small county from home to the hospital is only 10 minutes, so so calm), can be about 5 minutes once and then go to the hospital. I just thought it would be less confusing to eat breakfast and wait for the hospital doctor to finish his shift. Not according to your plan at all, after waking up on the couch in pain, do not want to move, breakfast is in no pain in the gap in the paralyzed finish. To 7 o'clock I really can not stay up, began to rush to the hospital. When I got to the hospital, the doctor said that the third finger was already open. I was a little happy, because before the Internet a lot of people are in the hospital pain for a long time did not open the mouth of the uterus, my girlfriend is also in the hospital for a day and a night, the mouth of the uterus did not open a little, can not stand it, cesarean section, and the first three fingers is the slowest opening. The first three fingers were the slowest to open. Then they went through all kinds of tests and directly pushed to the waiting room. Into the waiting room, I have been in pain to bend over and slowly move in, the interval of about 3 minutes, the nurse asked me to sit down when the pain is not that ball, and then count the fetal movement, I promised, but just to the waiting room to lie down on the bed and ready to rest a little. Pain and aggravated, and time is also short, pain to grab my sister's hand, wet, on the analgesic pump, but also do not feel the role of the entire waiting room are my "pig squeal", to 11:00 like, officially enter the delivery room. The first thing you need to do is to take off your pants, and then disinfect them. I'm not going to talk about it, but I'm not going to look at it.
The second stage of labor is the beginning of the push to give birth. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, but I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one, and I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get one. The first time the water breaks, the child may also feel that the inside can not stay, to hurry out of it. I felt like my lower abdomen was going to explode. The midwife told me to push when it started to hurt, and to rest if it didn't. This is not resting, it's just giving you some time to catch your breath. As I was giving birth, I was screaming to the nurse that I was going to die. The pain was indescribable. As I was giving birth, I asked the nurse, "How much longer is it going to take? The whole body wet even hair are not a dry, so what to say before giving birth to a baby wash your hair and take a shower, sitting in the month can not wash, are all in vain, and so you smooth to finish a baby, what blood ah, sweat ah, tears ah, potion ah, all over the ...... finally saw the nurse called the doctor in, I saw the hope that know it is going to give birth to, I know that it is going to be born. Continue to make the last strength. Originally I was thinking, by the way tearing will be how painful, and so I really gave birth to the moment, the lower half of my body has been painful to numb, just on top of that bloated a little, the child came out. The whole pain disappeared instantly, I finally came to life! 12:30
The third stage of labor for me has no feeling, after my baby was born, I too enjoy that no bout of comfort, with the doctors and nurses to go to the whole. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on the way to the next stage, but I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on the way to the next stage, so I'm sure you'll be able to get a good deal on the way to the next stage. So I got through the process of opening three fingers at home before I got to the hospital and was praised for it. However, the official delivery was really painful. Thinking about the birth of children in the past, it was really painful, no one taught you how to push, and there are not so many medical equipment to reduce pain, so I feel happy. And now there is a painless delivery, have the conditions or can choose, after all, around me with the use of all think it is still very good, I am because I go to the hospital late, and in the county hospital, medical conditions are still not so perfect, anesthesiologists have to be invited from the higher hospitals, it is more troublesome. I hope that we can all not incur any crime, you can be smooth and smooth birth of the baby! [
I'm a mother of two, and both of my children were born to me, but I didn't have to go through a lot of pain because I chose to have a painless labor during the birth.
Nowadays, the state is calling for the popularization of painless delivery because it really alleviates the pain of the mother greatly. If you are also a mom who is about to give birth, it is recommended that you choose painless labor when giving birth, and the cost is not too high, usually around 1,000 to 2,000 yuan.
General open to three fingers, you can play painless, the first three fingers of the process of opening the finger is generally different from person to person, the first-time mothers almost 3 to 4 hours it!
When the paroxysm comes, it is like the most painful time of menstruation, and I remember that I grabbed the railings of the bed with both hands and gritted my teeth, but I was still able to endure it. After the painless injection, you basically can't feel the pain anymore, just like the vague pain in your stomach when you first get your period.
I hope my answer can give you a reference, I hope you have a safe and smooth labor!
Hi, I'm mom Tatsu and I'm happy to answer your question.
There are 3 stages of labor, how painful is each stage?
I've had two babies, both of which were normal births, and I didn't have much experience with my first baby. I remember when my first child was born, it was 5-6pm at night, and there was nothing special about it, it was just a pain in the back, and I had tears in my eyes! The pain could last for almost three hours, and then it got better. I remember that it hurt a lot? My husband went to the doctor, who said there was nothing wrong and that the baby would not be born today. He didn't check if the uterus was open or not. Finally, at nine o'clock in the evening, I felt that something was not right? Then let the doctor must give check check, the doctor is not very willing, said it can not be so fast, the results of the open almost three fingers, so, at 12 o'clock in the evening, I gave birth to my big baby. In fact, it is possible that I am not very sensitive to pain nerves, not that kind of pain, but the back pain is a little bit unbearable. When it came to this little baby, well, I guess it was 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning when it was a bit uncomfortable, but I felt so sleepy at that time, so I slept, and then in the morning when it was more than 6:00 am to 7:00 am, and my husband said that I said my stomach is not comfortable, and then it does not hurt. It was so hard! Because at that time also to the due date? Originally intended to go to the next two days to check it, and then my husband said to go to the hospital to see it, I do not slow down still at home ah, I said nothing and no pain, how can give birth to ah? I don't want to go yet. In the end, my husband could not resist, and then we went to the hospital, to the hospital when it was 8:30 it. Go to the hospital, and then look for the usual to me to see the doctor well, the doctor directly to the green light to let go to the delivery room, said that look at me should be close to labor, and then come to the delivery room a check, and then the mouth of the uterus is almost fully open. The doctor gave my husband a good time and said that the last nine o'clock when it was finished, and then my husband was baffled. At that time, nothing to take, are now buying, let my mom send, hey, my God, do not mention, so embarrassing Oh, I actually did not think I could give birth to no more pain, and then just like this birth, I suspect I gave birth to a false son. To this day, my husband jokes about me. In fact, at that time, I felt that the child moved a lot and did not hurt, I did not think, is to be in labor, I am not delicate. So much so that when I got to the hospital, the doctor said that my husband didn't take it seriously. There are times when I feel that I give birth to children are very comedic type.
Pregnant mothers in the process of labor pain is equal to an adult directly break 20 or so bones, as a birth of a baby mother, private think that this description is not correct at all, that is broken full of bones of the pain, OK?
There are three stages of labor before the actual start of labor, and these three stages of labor are not the same level of pain, and not only that, there may be other people mocked "not just say a child? Women are supposed to give birth to babies.
I was so angry that I didn't have the strength to argue with him, otherwise I would have made him knock out his own bones and come back to me, not 20 of them, but just one of them.
The pain of the first stage of labor is actually from the pain of the opening of the mouth of the uterus, in fact, along with the new anesthetic drugs as well as anesthesia technology updates, labor analgesia technology has actually been a great change, pregnant mothers can go to the hospital in advance to prepare for the birth of the hospital to consult, to alleviate a certain amount of pain in the labor and delivery of the baby in the uterus is the best, most obvious The most obvious is that it allows the pregnant mother not to have to use up too much strength in the first stage of labor, and this retained strength can help the pregnant mother have a better delivery in the second stage of labor.
The first stage of labor is mainly caused by uterine contractions, which are manifested as abdominal pain, back pain, intestinal pain, etc. In the middle and late stages of labor, due to the cervix flexion and extension, there will also be pain and pain in the lower sacral region, the anus, and even the root of the thighs, and the mother can only regulate the breathing, distraction, and relieve the pain and pain. The mouth of the uterus opens at a normal rate, only as soon as possible to enter the second stage of labor, in order to end the pain as soon as possible, but unfortunately for first-time mothers of the first stage of labor varies from person to person, but lasts for about 20 hours of pain, is very common.
The pains of the second stage of labor are mainly labor pains, the key is concentrated in the birth canal and the vulva, it is due to the enlargement of the birth canal and perineum or equipment for assisted labor, and it is usually necessary to relieve the pains by medical means, such as analgesia in labor or local anesthesia.
The pain of the third stage of labor is the persistent pain in the placenta and the subsequent perineum and the birth canal brought about by the delivery of the baby, especially the uterine contractions after the delivery of a transient woman is the most difficult pain, and also lasts for a long time, a few days in the case of a short, long as the unit of calculation of a week, but of course, pregnant mothers do not deteriorate in the case of trauma, usually does not need to be dealt with, and can be rested.
October, every pregnant woman is not easy. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots, and then you'll be able to get your hands on a new pair of shoes or boots.
So, if you choose to give birth to a baby, do you really understand the whole process? You'll be able to get the best out of it, and you'll be able to get the best out of it. Do you know how to minimize your pain? And do you know if a normal birth is right for you?
Before you go into labor, it's important to know what to expect, so you can be prepared for the pain and the problems that can arise.
The whole process of labor is divided into three stages, each of which is different, and so are the things you should pay attention to.
? The first stage of labor: the latent and active phases of labor
The first stage of labor is actually divided into two phases, the latent and active phases.
The incubation period is usually 8 to 16 hours, but of course, the length of this time varies from person to person. And during this time, the contractions are gradually intensified and the cervical canal disappears until the opening of the uterus to 3 centimeters.
The duration of the active phase is relatively shorter, usually 4 to 8 hours. At this time, the cervix dilates and the uterine opening will progress from the initial 3 centimeters, to full opening.
★ Key tips for the first stage of labor
Pregnant mothers in the first stage of labor should remain calm, do not be irritable, but also firm confidence in natural childbirth. In addition, moms should not yell too much at this point because of the pain they feel, but try to save their strength for the second and third stage of labor that follows.
? Second stage of labor: a critical stage in labor
The second stage of labor is the critical stage in the birth of the baby, when the membranes break down naturally and the contractions stop for a while. But then the contractions start again and become more intense.
When the baby's head reaches the exit of the pelvis, the whole body comes out with just a little push. Normally, this labor takes about 2 to 4 hours. If you are a mom who has given birth to a baby, the labor will be faster.
★ Key Tips for the Second Stage of Labor
After the contractions have stopped, expectant mothers have to relax and then follow the doctor's instructions to exhale and inhale normally and push correctly, in order to better reduce the pain, and also deliver the baby quickly and smoothly. One more thing to keep in mind is that you should never push too hard to avoid tearing your lower body.
? Third stage of labor: the placenta is delivered and the birth is complete
After the first two stages of labor, the third stage is relatively safe and easy. At this point, the fetus has been successfully delivered and is just one step away from completion of labor.
At this point, all you have to do is hold your breath a little longer, and the placenta is removed and delivered. If things go well, this stage can be completed in just half an hour.
★ Tips for the third stage of labor
In the third stage of labor, do not rush, but slowly peel the placenta out with the help of medical staff. And when you return to the ward after a successful delivery, you should also pay more attention to your postpartum reaction, and inform your doctor if you feel uncomfortable.
In the birth of the baby moms choose to give birth to the baby moms know very well, this pain is how intense, so when the birth of the baby moms, the heart will inevitably have a sense of fear.
In this regard, many mothers-to-be have asked the question: how can we shorten the labor process and minimize the pain of labor?
When it comes to delivering your baby, if you want to shorten the labor process as much as possible and reduce the pain of delivery, try these three scientific methods.
◆ Proper posture, accurate force
During labor, it is recommended that you pull on the handrails of the birthing bed, pull hard on your chest, and stomp your feet out. You don't need to push too hard with each push, but make sure it lasts for a longer period of time, as this will speed up labor.
◆ Use Ramez Birth Breathing
Ramez Birth Breathing is the most correct way for a pregnant mom to breathe during labor. This breathing method allows the uterus to get enough oxygen, which in turn speeds up contractions and shortens the labor process.
◆ Self-suggestion and encouragement
It has been found that self-suggestion and encouragement during labor can help relieve pain and speed up the labor process.
There is also the fact that during pregnancy, expectant mothers should pay attention to control their weight and exercise more, to do a good job of these prenatal work, but also help to speed up the speed of labor and reduce the pain.
There's no denying that the pain of a normal labor is much stronger than that of a C-section. However, a lot of pregnant moms still insist on this natural way of delivery. And this is mainly because they feel that compared to a C-section, a normal birth has greater benefits.
Smooth labor is one of the most natural ways to give birth, and it has greater benefits for both the mother and the baby. Many expectant mothers are willing to endure severe pain during labor and are determined to choose a normal birth for this very reason.
So what exactly are the benefits of a normal labor delivery? Actually, don't care there are these three.
● Helps promote the development of your little one's sensory system
Babies who are born in a normal birth go through a compression of the birth canal, which can be very good for cardiorespiratory fitness, and is much more beneficial to their development down the road.
● Less damage to the mother's body
During a normal delivery, there is no need for anesthesia like a cesarean section, so there are no side effects on the body, and there are fewer aftereffects.
● The body recovers faster after delivery
Mothers and fathers who have a normal delivery do not need to remove stitches and repair wounds after delivery. As soon as you recover your strength, you can get out of bed and walk around. Usually on the 3rd day after delivery, you can go home and follow up with just enough nutrients for your body.
These three points are the benefits of a normal birth, which is far from being able to compare with a cesarean section. However, there are two sides to every story, so while there are benefits, there are also drawbacks.
Moreover, not every woman is suitable for a normal delivery, especially in some special cases, the obstetrician will let the mother to have a cesarean section.
There are advantages to having a normal labor, but there are also some disadvantages. Some of the disadvantages are difficult for the mother to accept, and even seriously jeopardize the baby. Therefore, if you choose to have a normal delivery, you need to know about it.
? It can hurt the baby, and even cause cerebral palsy
If the labor is difficult, the doctor will use forceps to help the mother to give birth to the baby. But if you don't do it right, you may accidentally injure the baby.
In addition, if the labor process does not go smoothly and the delivery time is too long, the baby is at risk of asphyxiation, and the lack of oxygen for too long may lead to cerebral palsy.
? Loose vagina after birth, risk of injury
During normal labor, the vagina expands extremely, so pregnant moms' vaginas usually become loose after delivery.
Also, if you push too hard during labor, you can rupture your lower body, which is not easy to recover from. And, if you don't take care of it properly, it can get infected easily, which can lead to severe vaginal damage.
So, if you want to go through with it or not, you'll have to make a decision based on your own situation. There are advantages and disadvantages to having a normal delivery, and the key is to see if this method is suitable for you or not.
Professional obstetricians pointed out that, in general, if there is a need for the following three cases, it is not recommended to have a normal delivery:
① older pregnant mothers, that is, the elderly, it is not appropriate to have a normal delivery;
② the fetus is too large, but the pregnant woman's pelvis is too narrow or deformed;
② the fetus is too large, but the pregnant woman's pelvis is too narrow or deformed;
③ Pregnant mothers suffering from pregnancy diseases, or previously suffered a close encounter during delivery
During pregnancy, pregnant mothers have to follow the doctor's advice, do a good job of obstetrics examination on time, to understand clearly in advance of the fetus and the baby and their own condition, in the The first thing you need to do is to make a decision on the best way to deliver your baby to ensure that you minimize the damage to yourself and the safety of your baby.
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Hello very happy to answer your question, I am a five-month-old baby's mother, I was born to my baby, the three births I think that the beginning of the process can be to the end of the really very painful, but now there is a painless, I personally feel that you must choose to play the painless labor, I played the painless delivery after birth, there is no bad phenomenon of back pain, and the pain is not a good thing. I did not appear back pain adverse phenomenon, I was 8.6 night suddenly broke the water, because of high blood sugar hospitalized near the due date, the water broke the doctor did not allow to get out of bed to walk around, and then the next day, the doctor checked the room opened a finger, sent me to the maternity ward, said that the conditions are good, I think it should be before I gave birth to a large number of exercise every day reasons, to the maternity ward at 10 o'clock to hit the oxytocin to hit the oxytocin in order to speed up the process of labor to 12 o'clock, the pain has been two or three minutes a time. Around two or three minutes has been a pain, and later and the doctor said open almost three fingers can play painless, and then played painless, a pain, can only feel the contractions, and then smooth production, so much pain anyway, three fingers when you can not stand, there is no pain must play painless!
I a **** on the two labor, the first labor is 1 finger ~ 3 finger pain for 12 hours, the second labor is from three fingers to birth 50 minutes. The 12 hours of the opening of the mouth is really painful and head banging against the wall, always crying, and then to the delivery room to adjust my oxytocin on the more painful, it feels as if a lot of people have been kicking you in the stomach, has been kicking non-stop for more than ten hours, he did not allow to shout, the whole person has collapsed, and is the pain to the point of unconsciousness, and then woke up with the pain. I didn't feel the pain when he cut my side, I only heard a tear, like the sound of tearing paper, and then I had already cut my side. But when the stitches are not anesthetized, it feels like the needle is going through your flesh layer by layer, and then through again, and the stitches took about 20 minutes, and there were people watching to see how they were stitched up, so I really don't want to repeat it for the second time.