I downstairs bank a counter employee is scared to death by cancer, he was only thirty years old, people look white, very elegant and handsome, his wife is a civil servant, his wife's body is not feeling well, in the local three hospitals to check out the disease did not find out what disease, her wife would like to go to the provincial hospital to check out the bank employee took leave to accompany his wife to go to the provincial hospital to check out the results of his wife after checking out what disease did not find out, then he thought it was easy to come to the provincial hospital to check out his own. After his wife's examination, nothing was found, and he thought it was not easy for him to come to the provincial city, and he also checked himself to see his body, but the examination report of the hospital said that he had liver cancer, but he did not have any symptom, and his body was very healthy, so how could he possibly have cancer? So his wife accompanied him to another hospital in the provincial capital for examination, and the result was still liver cancer. Now his spirit broke down at once, and he thought that if he could not be cured, what would his wife and children do? Because he was carrying too much pressure in his heart to be able to let go of, more importantly, the development of his condition, did not want two months he left this world.
Not many people can face life and death frankly, so now many people are reluctant to go to the physical examination of the body, there was no symptoms, a hospital check out this disease that disease of the futile trouble, once I went to participate in the physical examination with a few female neighbors, the results of a few of us were checked out of the thyroid gland, the examination of the doctor wants us to look for oncologists to see what to do to find oncologists, he said to look at our examination report to see what to do to find oncologists. When we found the oncologist, he read our examination reports and said that we should be operated quickly, and we all asked him if it was thyroid cancer. The doctor said don't ask so much, go home and prepare money to operate.
A few of us had been laughing and joking, and went back to the house all full of worries and moping, we went home after a night like pancakes like back and forth sleepless, worrying about their own really have thyroid cancer, leaving the child how to do? The next day they all have their husbands accompanied to go to the three hospitals to check, the only one I went to the hospital alone to check, the results of the few of us do not have a thyroid gland, we all scolded us that hospital is a liar, causing us a false alarm, responsible for the inspection of the people living downstairs, I put the two hospitals inspection report to her to see, she told the truth, it turned out that the set of inspection equipment in her hospital are all the three hospitals out of down, and this hospital is relying on it to give us a good idea, but the hospital has to be able to do it, so we can not do it.
Now most of the hospitals are privately purchased, doctors rely on prescriptions to send work and bonuses, can adhere to the medical ethics of the people who are not confused by the money is almost difficult to find, if there are also fired by the hospital squid, my husband got bile duct cancer in the late stages of his neck clearly appeared in the egg mass, which is the manifestation of the spread of cancer, but the doctor but under the bluff that we do not operate hard to last a month, if the operation can extend the At the moment of life and death, who could bear to let him die? And so, they poured all their money to save his life, but the result is a tragic end, in the hospital like my husband had cancer patients go, the tumor hospital is overcrowded, countless people poured all their money and hope to go, and finally the end of the majority of the same, and ended up in debt, people and money and return to the empty.
The movie "a round of the moon" in the Venerable Master Hongyi on the side of the disciples said: "small illness from the doctor, the big disease from the death", people with cancer if you don't want to over-treat it, and don't do the futile things, let nature take its course, life is a blossom and fall of the process of birth and death is not something we can control, like the blossom, but also to wait for the flowers to fall. Flowers fall, Goethe said: "Death is one of the greatest fairness", to live to death is a kind of courage, "Forrest Gump" in Forrest Gump's mother to Forrest Gump quietly said: "Do not be afraid, death is a thing we are destined to do," as the writer Montaigne said: "Make room for others as they make room for you."
Our unit Lao Zhong, fifty-five years old, diagnosed with lung cancer, after twenty days, went away. Before not found out the disease, the old clock looks, the body is very good, especially the cheeks, cardinal two colors. His head is a little bald, looks particularly large brain, like the South Pole immortal, how to look, like a long life.
Others have praised him for his good maintenance, and asked him for experience. He did not hide, a finger behind the office door of the kettle, said, he gave himself every day, in the morning before going to work, drink two pots, in the afternoon before leaving work, and then drink two pots, at night at home, but also have to drink a pot. Rain or shine, a day must drink enough five pots of water.
White water, or tea? Others asked. "Cool white water, I never drink tea." The old clock, this is how to proudly tell others his rosy cheeks, spirit full of the secret of the head.
No one would have guessed that Lao Zhong would suffer from such an evil disease. And that includes Lao Zhong and his family.
The cause is that one night, the old clock at home to take a bath, suddenly, the center of the back there is a location, strange itch, the more scratching the more itchy, the more itchy scratching. I thought, that place is dirty, accumulation of dust and dirt too much reason, and did not pay special attention to.
I did not expect, the next day, the third day ...... always that place, itchy people crazy, not scratch, simply fidgety, even if out of shape, but also to enough to scratch. This is strange, so many places on the body, why, single this place itch. The old clock went to the hospital.
Do not check do not know, a check startled. The first time I saw this, I was able to get the results out, and it was not suspected, but diagnosed: Lung Cancer.
It is strange that the old clock is still in the hospital, red face, out of the hospital and then look at it, and then become wax yellow. The first time I saw this, I was able to see it on the screen, and I was able to see it on the screen. When I went to the hospital to visit, I found that he usually speaks fluently, almost do not want to speak, and then ordinary words, in his mouth, like thinking for a long time to say.
Listen to my partner said, the old clock can not eat, even porridge, drink two or three mouths, shaking his head and shaking his hand refused to eat again. I guess the heart is heavy, can not eat. Not to mention eating, even his proud of drinking water maintenance method, also interrupted, relying on fluids to replenish water.
Strangely enough, from the diagnosis of the disease, the place on his back, no longer itchy. Also heard a difficult news, the old clock often a person secretly wipe tears, all day sighing. He joined countless anticancer groups, but others share even better news, he is not willing to believe, always think, that good, will not come to their own.
After a few trips to the hospital, the disease is so advanced that no one can do anything about it. High fever, talking nonsense, woke up shouting pain, to die crying, the old clock did not stay up for a few days, people can not.
The news spread to the unit, all colleagues open mouth, can not believe it, the old clock, the body is so good people, and do not smoke, and do not cook to suck fumes, how can it be lung cancer, or late!
In fact, go so fast, said the old clock is scared to death by cancer, is not too much. But, things are not hard to know. To persuade others to be strong is easy, so that they are not afraid of too difficult. Sudden disaster, to whom, without a long thought process of preparation, I'm afraid, no one can not be at home in death. Those who say they are not afraid are lying. The first time I saw this, it was a fluke.
This argument makes sense, otherwise hospitals would not have a medical protection system to detect cancer to the patient confidentiality. The author has seen many examples of a recent case is very typical. Li, male, 70 years old, because of walking weakness to the clinic. Physical examination, no positive signs, biochemical blood sodium, blood chloride are low. He was given fluid maintenance. The patient felt good, every time before the infusion of fluids and I compare the hand force. He was very satisfied with the treatment. On the fourth day, the patient was suddenly found to have yellow sclera, and a liver MRI was done immediately, which revealed a 3 x 4 Cm mass in the hilum. The patient refused treatment and died two days after going home. This example is enough to show that if the patient did not know, he could have lived with the tumor. But after knowing, the fear of cancer, anxiety, nervousness caused by sympathetic excitation and adrenal hormone secretion caused panic, heartbeat, hibernation, fainting, accelerated the deterioration of the disease and death.
Some people say that cancer patients are scared to death, is that really true?
Two causes of death are the most common among cancer patients, one is scared to death, one is cured to death, a very small number of patients die of their own disease, and a very small number of recovered people.
A few years ago, some experts said, for cancer should be screened early, early treatment, and then lowered the age group of the medical examination, found that the cancer mortality rate rose, is that these people once they know they have cancer on the collapse, premature death, if not checked out in advance, may live a few more years. One kind of people is those who are in good conditions and die of aggressive treatment. In reality, it is over-treatment that leads to premature death, and we may have heard that some rich cancer patients die earlier than those who do not have money, and it is over-treatment that further destroys the immune system. There are also a few people who are limited by their conditions and don't care too much about it, living one day at a time, and probably living longer. The last part is that we are talking about anti-cancer stars, they do not have to carry out any treatment, is that these people together to encourage each other, warmth, found that they live well, if in the learning to regulate emotions, enhance the immune system method, will live longer, such as Li Kaifu, Zhou Yi Ping, etc. are examples.
Everyone will face death, inevitable death, this truth no one does not know, no one to resist; cancer, is a stage before death, this truth, the vast majority of people do not believe that many people firmly resist.
1, fear. Not to mention cancer patients, I can get proof from my wife's experience. After she went through menopause, she was often uncomfortable here and there. One day in the early hours of the morning, suddenly woke up from a dream, said she had a heart attack, immediately dying, check breathing, heartbeat, pulse, blood pressure all normal, but she was pale, nervous, panic, can only be sent to the hospital. Once in the emergency room, all the symptoms of the disappearance, check the EKG is also fine,
The doctor still did a blood gas analysis. Waiting for more than an hour, took a look at the report, I stuck out my tongue: her various indicators of serious abnormalities. Obviously, fear, nervousness, can trigger endocrine system disorders, metabolism serious disorders, even if a healthy person, will be scared to death.
2, anxiety. The whole family is in disarray, a few hospitals scurrying around, the whole world to seek medical advice, are the cause of the patient's anxiety.
But in many cases this is not necessary. To the best local hospital to confirm the diagnosis, submit to an authoritative expert treatment program, this is enough. For example, I'm in Tianjin, Tianjin can not be cured, Beijing and Shanghai is also bad enough, the United States and Japan is also nonsense. Obviously, to another city for treatment, because it involves transportation, accommodation, medical insurance, the cost must be substantially higher, the dumping of money is so come.
3, collapse. The patient just started when the fear and anxiety, the final stage of the disease, the most fatal psychological changes is the mental collapse, once the collapse, can only last a few days.
4, example. Seven years ago, mom suffered from bile duct cancer, which metastasized to the liver. The next day my sister's brother-in-law sent my mom to stay in Shanghai Huashan Hospital, I ran wildly to the hospital and dragged my mom home, even if she died tomorrow, I wouldn't let her suffer today.
But mom's whole body is jaundiced, itchy, scratching the skin, what to do? Seek help from the county hospital to do intubation and drainage surgery. Immediately, mom did not pain, itching, not sore, not bloated, can eat, can drink, can sleep, can walk, and sometimes carry a drainage bag, but also down to the ground to work.
Once mom smashed the rice bowl, said, I gave you guys a lifetime of leftovers, and now let me eat? This is the second aunt to learn the tongue, I think, a lifetime of fine voice of the mother will also be angry, must have felt the death of the hideous.
Fortunately, there are anti-cancer star timely channeling. The next door uncle Lu liver cancer, to Shanghai to do surgery before the discovery of coronary heart disease, the hospital refused to operate, go home and wait for death, I did not expect five or six years of nothing, he struck every day, said, the old lady, we two who died first ah?
I really did not think that mom actually lived three whole years. In the end, she didn't die on top of the cancer. She fell and broke five ribs, and then a month later, she fell again, and her drainpipe was uprooted.
I went to the hospital and the doctor refused to reinsert the tube. Give mom monthly money, she said, I don't want it, I can't use it! One day, mom was incontinent in bed, and my second brother and sister-in-law tossed her for half a day. Since then, mom refused to eat and died three days later.
5, clinical. Basically no schizophrenia get cancer. I've seen several cases of cancer patients who became vegetative for other reasons, instead the cancer didn't progress and the final cause of death was not cancer.
To answer you: you ask this question some sense, and it is also true that cancer exists in patients, most of them are scared to death of the fact, but not all. This is to distinguish between the early, middle and late stages of cancer patients and the type and staging of cancer patients.
In fact, people are alive is the spiritual support and spiritual power, spiritual collapse, people are finished. Regardless of what kind of person, official size, poverty and wealth, encountered the cancer this Kan, manifested in the form of the same, unless it is Chaoba.
Some cancers, once diagnosed with advanced stage, is not scared, but also can not live 3 months, such as pancreatic head cancer, is the king of cancer. Once diagnosed, life expectancy, rarely more than 3 months. And the pain is tormented by the death of life.
Nationals and foreigners, the perception of death is also very different, is the concept of race, education, the law of life and death education. It should be said that the Chinese people are more afraid of death, the more afraid of death, the faster the death. Maintaining emotional optimism is conducive to the continuation of life time for cancer patients.
What is the principle that cancer is scared to death? There is something to be said for doctors keeping secrets from cancer patients, at least from the patients, for extending life expectancy.
Definitely not, I just had a fan of mine leave a comment inside my comment saying, " Most cancer patients die of fear."
I replied: " If cancer patients are scared to death, then there are many cancer patients who can stabilize their mind in the clinic, wouldn't this kind of patients be taken away by cancer? "
Why is there such a view that cancer patients are scared to death?
In fact, we have known for a long time that mental illness can cause serious physical illness. And physical health contributes to better moods.
Patients diagnosed with cancer often find it hard to accept the pronouncement of this countdown to death, and it really does take a strong mind to carry it off. The average person will absolutely collapse, this kind of death pronouncement is really too great a psychological blow to people. Even the vicious murderer, in hearing the court sentence of death, suspended execution when the legs are soft, directly scared of urine are not a few people. So, you can't understand this kind of despair if you haven't faced this kind of desperate situation. We doctors are able to understand their inner world because we have seen and interacted with our patients so much.
While the immediate cause of death for cancer patients is either the symptoms of the cancer itself or some serious complications. And the number of those who die of shock immediately after hearing the news is almost zero.
But psychological collapse can accelerate the process of cancer, after hearing the verdict of cancer, the vast majority of people will produce anxiety, insomnia, and even some symptoms of mental disorganization, these symptoms are not a short-term problem, but most of the cancer patients will continue until the day of death. These mental disorders can cause physical fatigue, poor appetite, lack of sleep can reduce immunity, etc., which can accelerate the process of cancer.
If we look at the acceleration of the cancer process, it makes sense that cancer patients are scared to death.
The direct cause of death of cancer patients is not directly related to psychology, but psychological factors have a great influence on the process of cancer. Therefore, clinically, we doctors will not directly tell the patient's cancer condition, we will generally tell his family, let his family to decide whether the patient can withstand, because the patient's ability to withstand the psychological only its closest people know, sometimes the doctor will cooperate with the family to carry out the "good faith lies", in fact, in the final analysis, is also to hope that the patient will be able to In fact, the ultimate goal is to make the patient happy, which is conducive to the recovery of the disease. So now there are a lot of studies focusing on the psychological health of cancer patients.
I am an orthopedic surgeon, an orthopedic surgeon in the direction of oncology research, focusing on orthopedic carpenter Dr. Liu to get more health information!Cancer most people are scared to death, I think this is not wrong, because my mother-in-law belongs to this situation, in March '85, went to the hospital to check, diagnosed with advanced gastric cancer, the doctor said that you go home, there is no need for treatment, he wanted to eat what let him eat, the results of the old mother-in-law went home, after the bed has been lying down to the death in August.
The following description of this question is: According to relevant statistics, China's cancer patients are not directly died of cancer, but was scared to death, is this true? If it is true, how many cancer patients die of fright?
Where are the statistics on this, and how can they be? In fact, it's impossible to get the statistics. What does it mean to be scared to death? What does it mean to be scared to death, to fall down and die as soon as you hear you have cancer?
What do you mean by "scared to death"? Well, you can be scared to death, but I really haven't seen anyone who fell down and died as soon as he heard that he had cancer, unless he had a heart attack or some other latent disease that couldn't withstand any stimulation, such as a hypertensive patient who quarreled with someone and then fell down and died, so does that count as death by gas? It can be counted, but in fact, it is still considered essentially a problem of his high blood pressure, which was not well controlled, and when he was angry, his blood vessels burst and he died of brain hemorrhage. Or some people do not know they have aortic aneurysm, aortic coarctation, usually completely fine, some people because of other diseases do checkups inadvertently found, some people never know he has this problem, one day, an excited and angry, hung up, is the excitement and anger led to his death? Sort of, but the root cause was still, he had an aortic aneurysm, a bomb lurking in his body. So, you can't conclude that anger kills, excitement kills, and normal healthy people don't.
This is the first time I've ever seen an aortic aneurysm.
Let's talk about cancer. If there is no combination of other diseases such as severe malignant hypertension, cerebrovascular disease, aortic aneurysm, and so on, then cancer patients will not be scared to death just because they hear that they have cancer. Some people may say that cancer is so terrible and incurable that who would not be scared half to death on hearing about it? Since it is half a life, it means that it is still alive and has not been scared to death. In fact, the so-called this is only a kind of modification of the saying, and it is not really a half-life scare; there is no such thing as a half-life, but it is only meant to illustrate the extent of the fear and dread. It must be admitted that many people, after hearing that they have cancer, there will be obvious psychological stress, some angry and angry, some depressed and anxious, tea and rice, eat poorly, sleep poorly, and so on, all of these are entirely possible, some people have psychological problems, while some people have a strong mental capacity, although there is also sadness and sadness, but can cope with it very well. Some people cannot figure it out at all, and a very small number of them may even go to the extreme of committing suicide. However, this is obviously only an individual case, and the most fundamental reason is in fact the individual's psychological ability of the person concerned, and such a person, not to mention cancer, may also be caused to commit suicide as a result of other emergencies, so it is simply impossible to say that the majority of cancer patients die of fright. The so-called statistics show that cancer patients in China do not die directly from cancer, but are scared to death, which is purely imaginary and false.
Cancer patients, died in the following situations:
One is the refusal of treatment. Some people because of the cancer do not understand, just hearsay, think that cancer is death, so they throw themselves away, refused to treatment, often miss a good opportunity. In fact, many early cancers can be cured, and some late-stage cancers also have the possibility of cure. When you have cancer, you should firstly find out what is going on, and don't refuse treatment indiscriminately.
The second is not standardized treatment. Here said the non-standardized treatment, including some people take the so-called folk recipes, blind, delayed treatment, including some people despite the regular hospital treatment, but it must be admitted that some doctors really do not standardize the treatment, which may also lead to the original chance of a cure and can not be cured, and some of them could have been living a longer period of time and the shortening of the survival time. Therefore, if you have cancer, you must ask around, know the basic ways of medical treatment, and go to a regular hospital to find a reliable doctor. Remember, there are specialties in surgery, surgery to find a surgeon, chemotherapy to find a medical oncologist, try not to chemotherapy in the surgery or other non-oncology department, the possibility of irregularity is greater, targeted drug therapy should also look for medical oncology, radiotherapy to find radiation therapy department. Of course, this is just a general principle, not absolute, usually, with the current mess, find a tumor specialist hospital is relatively reliable (do not look for private).
Third, cancer itself causes death. In addition to those cured, many cancers do eventually die from the development of the cancer itself, just like people will eventually die, ultimately can not escape, but cancer patients if the tumor is not controlled, or can not avoid death.
This argument is only a little bit valid, and there are indeed some patients who have poor heart quality, know that they have cancer, plus the doctors do not have good guidance, or family warmth is not enough, directly aggravate the condition so that they die prematurely. Therefore, there are a lot of families to conceal the patient's condition, to take the good faith deception, the advantage of this deception is the patient's temporary peace of mind, the disadvantage is that the patient's condition is better, they do not want to take medication, the disease aggravation is easy to fox suspicion guessing, and even to the family choice of hospitals, departments, specialists are not satisfied, which is also detrimental to the treatment.
According to my many years of clinical experience, some patients temporarily hidden can, when appropriate, tell the truth. Some patients know the actual condition, a short period of time may be afraid, nervous, but the desire to survive will overcome these negative factors, followed by active cooperation with the treatment, the family is also from the embarrassment of the concealment of the situation to liberate, which is more conducive to the treatment. To add a point on the patient is temporarily hidden or tell the truth, the family has the most to say, the doctor can make suggestions, the right to decide or the family to decide as well.