My child, can never lose!
The competitiveness of Korean society is world famous. The people have also developed a comparative mentality of "having to be better than others", where no matter what their education, job, appearance, income ...... or even their children's excellence, they have to be a bright achievement on their own life resume.
To give up the workplace for the children
The Korean people have invested heavily in their children's education, and there are a variety of experiential programs to develop the senses from infancy to childhood, followed by a variety of languages and talents, and then of course, the start of the school year is the endless tutorials, coupled with the school's various activities, the classroom students' birthday party, the PTA, etc.
These are the most important things that the Chinese government can do for the children's health. Many mothers are busy transporting their children to and from school, running tutorials, or tutoring them at home from morning to night for the sake of their children's education, which is no different from being an agent.
With all the money and time considerations, being a full-time mom allows you to spend more time on your kids and have the time to be involved in school affairs. I've heard that full-time moms often circulate information about their children's schools and tutorials to each other, and help take care of them together; working moms don't have as much time, so it's hard to break into that kind of group. The fact that they have to be able to do this is also a key reason why they have to leave the workplace.
I'm trying to give my kids the best
The family I know with Zai is a well-off family, with the father working in a good company for eighteen years, and the mother originally working in the beauty industry, but she resigned after the birth of her daughter to focus on her growth. Since she was born, she quit her job to focus on her daughter's development. Since she was six years old, she had to take Chinese tutorials and do all kinds of school work. Now that she's in her first year of school, she has to attend different tutorials from Monday to Saturday, with only Sundays as a respite. She has been sent to English language camps during long vacations and is even planning to take a year off from school to study English abroad.
Her father also said that it was a huge financial burden to send his child to so many tutorials and to send her abroad, but he had to bite the bullet for his daughter's future, not wanting her to lose out to others. However, my daughter confided in me that she felt "I'm so tired". It's not that she doesn't want to study, but she doesn't want to be pushed to do more than she can handle. My mom, however, thought, "How can you not go to cram school when all your classmates are struggling in cram schools? Not only will you not be able to keep up with your schoolwork, you may also be ostracized by your classmates and have no friends, so you have to go no matter how hard you have to work.
Now, for her daughter's plan to go abroad, her mom is back in the beauty industry.
Another family we know is doing pretty much the same thing, but the family situation is very different. This family can be said to be representative of the rich, both husband and wife are doctors, the wife's mother's family owns three hospitals in Korea, and the husband's family is a large landowner in Busan. Both daughters attend foreigner's schools that charge a lot of money for tuition, and, like the daughter mentioned earlier, they also have non-stop tuition every day.
The two girls, who are only in elementary school, have to study English, Chinese, piano, and ballet every day, and they have to hire a tutor to help them with their schoolwork. For this family, tutoring and learning other talents does not need to take money into account, but the parents are very busy, and usually the children are accompanied by a nanny, with little time to spend with their parents, and the two girls are busy with the curriculum can only bury their heads in the sand, completely lost the innocent appearance of the elementary school students.
When he lost his innocent smile
Once I went to look at a house, I found a strange quadrangular concave hole in the room layout, which I originally thought was not square and should not be very popular, I did not expect to hear that a lot of mothers coming to look at the house were very fond of it. When I asked about it, I realized that Korea has recently introduced a kind of furniture called "reading room ()"，which costs about 20,000 yuan. It's a rectangle about one meter in length and width and two meters in height, which can hold a desk and a chair just big enough to accommodate one person. And this quadrangular alcove is perfect for a reading room.
In the home there is a reading room, you can let the children all the time in which to concentrate on reading. Some children were interviewed and said that if they go in, they feel very personal space, if they are forced by their parents to go in, they feel very much like a prison. The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list, the newest addition to the list.
In Korea, there are very few children who can live freely. In the belief that "if you don't study, you're going to lose out," parents and children are forced to push forward, and they are under high pressure and don't know where to go to get it out, so the whole society is like a pressure cooker, and they don't know when it's going to explode. There have been some disturbing incidents in society, such as the Seyuek shipwreck, random killings, and the high unemployment rate, which makes it more and more difficult to find a good job even for those who have graduated from prestigious universities, which gradually shows the loopholes in education and the indifference of society, and the term "North Korea in Hell" has even appeared. The first thing I'd like to say is that I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm sure I'm going to be able to do it, and I'm going to be able to do it!
If I were you, I wouldn't want your child to grow up in such a high-pressure environment, and I wouldn't want your child to become a reading machine. I would want your child to be able to do the things that belong to his age: to have fun when he's having fun, to study when he's studying, to work hard when he's working, and I would want him to have a happy and complete life.