? Generally speaking, children preschool refers to the period from 3 to 6 years old. During this time the child's intellectual development gradually accelerates, the enlightenment education is particularly important. In the scientific parenting more and more attention today, as a new parent and how to do it? Now we will introduce it to you~
1 to develop good habitssuch as work and rest time, civilized manners, basic self-care ability and so on, these are all to be cultivated little by little. A very intuitive chestnut is bear children, the colleague's child this year 4 years old, now is the family "mongrel", parents really do not listen to advice, overindulgence in the child, and now the bear child began to boldly demolition of the home. Every time I see this colleague's sad face, we persuade her to let the child clear bottom line, this behavior to severe education, she refused, no way but to say "put down the plot to help people, respect the fate of others" it. Put in the long run, the child is not educated, grown up will also be educated by society.
2 Setting up a sense of independent studyThe ancient story of "Meng's mother's three moves" is about Meng's mother's choice of a good learning environment for her children, at the expense of moving three times, reflecting the important role of the environment for the achievement of success, and at the same time, can be seen from a young age. We can see that it is very important to establish a sense of learning from childhood. When I worked at the school, I also found that children whose grades were consistently in the top five of their class were often the ones with the strongest autonomous learning ability.
It's also important to focus on thought starters, which many parents tend to overlook. In the life of the drop, you can let the child feel the language, English, math, art and so on the ability to perceive, will be integrated into the actual life, in order not to let the child in the future more and more in-depth learning to produce a sense of fragmentation.
3 Establishing a collective consciousness? Some parents can not afford their own baby, do not want to send to kindergarten and preschool, think they can teach at home, this idea is very incorrect. This period of time in addition to learning the necessary knowledge, but also to let the child to establish a collective consciousness, know how to get along with other children. This preschool period is to prepare for the official school, if you can not adapt to this rhythm of life in advance, when the elementary school will have to have some crying.
4 Cultivate the habit of readingThe recent textbooks, children's books, picture books frequently exploded, in the anger of the extreme call for strict investigation, rectification, but also to many parents sounded the alarm. Never blindly follow the trend, buy a so-called "excellent works" to take to the children themselves to read to see, must be read in advance with an adult perspective , in order to rest assured that the children read. Otherwise, the consequences are unimaginable.
Preschool is the beginning of the child's life, is to develop a variety of habits, shape the initial cognitive, intellectual development of the critical period, time waits for no one ~ not yet pay attention to the parents, to hurry to pay attention to it!