I saw a video a long time ago.
It's about a little boy who found a cat by the roadside.
But unfortunately, the little boy's mother is allergic to cat hair.
Don't raise at all
Finally, the little boy rolled around and even ran away from home.
The whole family went bankrupt.
Finally decided to take the cat home.
The little boy took care of the kitten a few days ago.
Even save money to eat and buy canned kittens.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. The little boy likes cats, but he can't stand giving him a bath and cutting his nails every day.
I got tired of walking and shoveling shit for a few days, and then I lived on campus.
The job of keeping cats fell into my mother's hands.
However, my mother herself was allergic to cat hair and had a rash.
Or did a kind friend say that giving the cat to himself saved him the pain?
When the little boy came back from school, he found the cat missing.
I started to make trouble without reason again, feeling that my parents didn't respect me.
Even wrote a letter directly to expose "unscrupulous parents"
This letter was received by a well-known blogger.
This blogger is usually fair. In everyone's impression, he is a person who doesn't want to make trouble.
The blogger immediately replied to the boy on the first day after receiving the letter. "
It is your decision to keep a cat, but it is your mother who is responsible for you.
You take the money from home and enjoy the care of your parents.
And kept shouting that there was no freedom.
Behind freedom is responsibility.
There is always a way to support him, even if he rents a small room after school. "
So much for the story.
What happened later didn't come out, but everyone knew that the boy never wrote again.
The second story
Put forward "for your own good"
Many people feel indignant and insulted.
I don't have personal freedom, and those so-called concerns are all excuses to achieve personal goals.
In fact, many people are like this.
They hurt you in the name of loving you and make decisions for you that you don't want to choose at all.
Zhihu has an answer.
He replied that he wanted to study medicine in college and was well prepared.
Even in order to fill in their own volunteers, they threatened their parents with suicide and almost missed the time to fill in their volunteers.
Fortunately, the volunteer time was delayed by an hour, and I only volunteered.
It's just that I finally signed up for my parents' chosen major.
After he started working, his parents began to regret not letting him study medicine.
In the eyes of many people, this story accuses parents of not thinking about their children and not knowing how to respect them at all.
Then someone jumped out and said, "It's all the fault of society, but the custom of the country doesn't respect foreign countries at all."
Then triggered a wave of patriotic crazy spray.
Let's analyze this matter carefully.
Assuming that the answer is really a threat, most parents can't just refuse to say it.
You jump, or you will die if you don't choose this major.
But why did you finally choose the major your parents wanted?
Let's make a bold guess.
On the one hand, it may be that his parents didn't respect his opinion and forced him to choose.
On the other hand, maybe he also thinks that if he is unique, he may lose his financial resources because of going to school.
If you really want to pursue your dream, you should be completely free.
You can earn money to support yourself.
Or discuss with your parents and lend you the money first and then pay it back later.
If you show determination, what reason do your parents have to stop you?
The third story
When complaining that those who are "good to you" imprison you.
Think back, do you take it for granted to enjoy the care they bring?
If not, then their decision can never interfere with your freedom.
Those who say what is best for you say these words.
I believe that most people close to you have helped you.
Their original intention may also be really considering you.
It's just that they can't find the right way to make you feel hurt.
What you can't see is that when your parents complain that they didn't let you study medicine, they secretly cry behind your back.
When you are struggling for a living, the bank card quietly makes more money.
When a little boy with a dog accused his mother of losing his cat.
My mother who is allergic to cat hair sneezed and called her friend to send it back.
Those who say they love you under the banner of loving you may really be putting up with your complaints and secretly paying for you.
last story
There are no advertisements in Dolphin Bay today.
I wonder how many people will feel a little after reading this article. ......
This year has experienced ups and downs.
Thank you for your trust and support in Dolphin Bay.
The new year is coming.
I wish all those who love me good health and all their wishes come true.
May all the people I love in the world be happy.
May someone still love you after Qian Fan is over.
I've wanted to come here for many years. You and I are still teenagers.