People who have eaten the bitter in the bitter, for the later happy life, will be more cherished.
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First bitter, then sweet, the best realm of life
Jack Ma said, "Bitter is right, comfortable is left to the dead."
However, people can not always suffer, people are bound to suffer when they are young.
People who choose to be comfortable at the age of suffering will suffer more in old age.
Those who have suffered will not lose themselves when happiness comes.
People who have never suffered have no ups and downs.
Those lofty figures, someone suddenly fell off the altar, seemingly without warning, look into the reasons, in fact, is because I do not know how to cherish the happiness caused.
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Experiencing suffering is the best training process in life
As Mencius said, "The sky will come down to the people, it must be the first to suffer from their will, labor their bones, starve their bodies, empty their bodies, line whisking their behavior, so move the heart to endure the nature of the once benefited from their inability."
People who have not been sharpened by suffering are immature in mind.
They either despise their opponents or are unable to control the current situation. To put it bluntly, they are inexperienced.
During the Warring States period, there was a man named Zhao Kuo, who talked about the art of war every time he talked about everything.
But his father was very worried about his son, who would make a big mess. Because he understood the theory too well, but did not have a little practical experience.
His father's concern was justified. After his father's death, the king of Zhao sent Zhao Kuo to defend himself against the Qin army, but the 400,000-strong army was surrounded by the Qin army, resulting in the total destruction of the army. He was also killed by the Qin army.
This is a typical example of how a person who has not undergone the training of "suffering his heart and mind, and laboring his muscles and bones" can be defeated in a real battle.
Now some young children, by virtue of their own natural advantages, quickly become a net red, but some people have not suffered, a step to heaven, overnight wealth.
In fact, this is not good.
Zhao Kuo, when he first came out of his hut, had command of a 400,000-strong army, but he had no practical experience in arranging troops, and his defeat was doomed at the very beginning.
I have often heard some of the old Mao deep calculation people say young people's words: "You are still a little young."
This is the truth. Young people should never go all the way, the more trials and tribulations they experience, the better.
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Hundreds of refinement into steel, a long time to become a doctor, through numerous trials and tribulations, natural talent
As the saying goes: "The sword sharp from the sharpening out, the plum blossom aroma from the bitter cold to come."
Life is like the process of hardening steel. The initial burning can only forge raw iron, not much practical value. And if you practice good steel, you have to go through a variety of complex procedures.
Life is also like this, not enough fire, only out of the waste steel waste iron.
See an expert online said: "high-end science and technology needs a researchers decades of merit, the continuous accumulation process, the formation of skills. Inexperienced young people simply can not have such a merit, therefore, the scientific researchers over 35 years old dismissed is a very stupid practice. This also explains why high-end medical equipment, high-end precision equipment, we often need to import, can not be built."
And the fact is that any kind of skill, it takes a long process. In order to reach the point of pure fire.
In ancient times, there was a man called Butcher, whose skill in unraveling cattle was very human.
When he solved the cow, he pressed the cow with his hand, leaned on the cow with his shoulder, stepped on the cow with his foot, and topped the cow with his knee, and his movements were extremely skillful and comfortable.
His movements in slaughtering the cow were like following an ancient musical instrument and dancing in the Sanglin. The sound of the slaughter is also in tune with the rhythm of the music.
Some people exclaimed that he was so skillful, Butcher said: "When I first started to slaughter cattle, because I did not understand the physical structure of cattle, I saw a huge head of cattle.
When I had three years of experience in slaughtering cows, and I fully understood the structure of the cow, when I looked at the cow again, it was not a whole cow in front of me. Instead, it's a few parts that can be disassembled.
Now I only sense the cow with my mind, not with my eyes. I can skillfully and freely break down the parts of the cow. Instead of chopping the bones with brute force, I break down the cow along the bones, so I've had this knife for 19 years! Still sharp as a tack."
The story of Butcher's Ox tells us that any skill is a skill that is refined into steel, and practice makes perfect.
People who do not want to suffer, only want to be happy from heaven, that is whimsical.
In modern society, if you want to achieve a career, you have to work hard to study skills.
And no matter what kind of skills, they are not formed overnight.
Life, after countless trials and tribulations, but also more able to appreciate the middle of the not easy. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.